On my bucket list mfm.

For my woman to understand that i, from time to time, love to have fun with ESA girls. We have fun, thats it. Especially when she is not in the mood for sex, she just simply sends me to ESA.

It is really not complicated. Just to bust a nut.

Love .... and no

Sensuality which is going to differ from person to person. For me it means:
1. The lady don't rip of all her clothes as you walk in the door. If uncertain, then ask. Better yet, let me help her undress.
2. Mutual caressing.
3. Giving me the opportunity to remove her remaining clothing. After the caressing started!
4. Whatever deed you agreed upfront. It is okay to hint at options and I will ask if interested. Don't ramble the menu in the middle of a session.

This never happens.

On 2021-05-28 22:21:34 SNL said:
I want to pay for sex/services offered without feeling like I paid for sex/services offered

He said it perfectly.

Mostly I like it when it feels like the lady genuinely cares about me, that we have a connection, and that she doesn't just see me as another client.

(even though we both know that's technically all we are)

I like it when she acts so convincingly that I really feel loved.

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Other times (but these are fewer in my case) I just want to have my urges met.

Then I don't really care if we have a connection: you're sexy, I'm just a customer, we have sex, I leave.

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What I am eternally grateful for is that the ladies don't get angry, upset, or jealous if you don't contact them often enough... because technically, we're just clients

So they're always happy to hear from you when you can visit them.

I know it's an illusion, and that none of them really love me, but it is a pleasant illusion.

Honestly what we looking for is not available.as much as a GFE is for sale it's not covering all the basis of a GFE...

In my case I want the pampering and a nude body slide is not pampering.I want to be teased and caressed.touched and maintained. For me it's very much like a thailand experience. You get a shave, haircut, massage, pedicure, ear licking. .. (try it)..and then down to the deed, but eve after that is important.

Like buying a car, after sales is very important.you still have to look after me.then when the BJ should start.nothing better than getting a BJ right after you have orgasmed , just to have that feeling of being licked or even ear licking once again.

But yes for me it's more of the sensual teasing and build up.if I'm for 90 min. I want the best 90 min of my life.

To have a haircut by a woman in nothing but a thong....that's the ticket right there...I would pay big money for that.every sunday.

I like a strong, independent woman. One who does not need me in her life, but one who WANTS me in her life. Not bossy, but won't stand for my shit either. Sexy and naughty attitude but doesn't need to be a nympho or a slut. But a little open minded.

Haven't met such a woman yet, but hey a man can always 'rent' such a woman hehe

I agree with a lot that was said, but part of gfe is being happy to see me.
Sell the feeling that you like being with me.
Maybe I am a woos for saying it out loud, but I think most(?) men don't want to feel tolerated. We need to feel wanted.

Be an "active" participant, guide me to give you the ultimate pleasure.