On 2024-10-08 06:54:25 Arhwen said:
It's sad that people end up abusing substances in this industry. I can just imagine how broken she may have been.
Sadly sometimes it's not them being broken that leads to the abuse. I knew a lady who turned to using substance to cope with the job one day she had a really nasty client like some of the forum dwellers and she ended up taking her own life at first everyone thought it was a overdose but it was suicide. The problem is that faulty people often don't realize what they do to other people or how vulnerable they are or they just don't give a damn because of our line of work what ever the reason not all individuals who do this work is mentally built for the job and it just takes 1 mean spirited person to push them over the edge. Sadly of late there are lots of them hiding behind a member profile on ESA and my guess is if they are meanspirited in a anonymous platform you can only imagine what they are like in person.Most of them don't even care if this is the type of impact they may have on other.
Years ago there where still guys who actually cared on this platform but the bullies would call them white night which they were or pussy struck as a result most of those guys don't even use this platform. I can think of a number of such amazing punters now they just amazing in person and they don't care for this platform anymore.
Moral of the story is think how you may be infecting or affecting another human being before acting you never know the silent battles they might be fighting.
My heart goes out to the lady's loved ones during this difficult time.
You are right. This site has become more mean spirited and nasty over the years. The quality of comments has decreased. It was always here but is worse now.
There are a few ladies I am glad have made it out this thing safely but many others who I wish the same to.
Stay safe ladies.
On 2024-10-08 13:17:30 9cloud9 said:
On 2024-10-08 06:54:25 Arhwen said: It's sad that people end up abusing substances in this industry. I can just imagine how broken she may have been.
Sadly sometimes it's not them being broken that leads to the abuse. I knew a lady who turned to using substance to cope with the job one day she had a really nasty client like some of the forum dwellers and she ended up taking her own life at first everyone thought it was a overdose but it was suicide. The problem is that faulty people often don't realize what they do to other people or how vulnerable they are or they just don't give a damn because of our line of work what ever the reason not all individuals who do this work is mentally built for the job and it just takes 1 mean spirited person to push them over the edge. Sadly of late there are lots of them hiding behind a member profile on ESA and my guess is if they are meanspirited in a anonymous platform you can only imagine what they are like in person.Most of them don't even care if this is the type of impact they may have on other.
Years ago there where still guys who actually cared on this platform but the bullies would call them white night which they were or pussy struck as a result most of those guys don't even use this platform. I can think of a number of such amazing punters now they just amazing in person and they don't care for this platform anymore.
Moral of the story is think how you may be infecting or affecting another human being before acting you never know the silent battles they might be fighting.
My heart goes out to the lady's loved ones during this difficult time.
You are right. This site has become more mean spirited and nasty over the years. The quality of comments has decreased. It was always here but is worse now.
On 2024-10-08 13:25:50 sircumsized said:
I'm proud to be white knight and pussy struck put that in your pipe and smoke it (no pun intended)
Lol no you are apparently me remember and I'm anything but pussy struck.
#face in palm
On 2024-10-08 13:17:30 9cloud9 said:
On 2024-10-08 06:54:25 Arhwen said: It's sad that people end up abusing substances in this industry. I can just imagine how broken she may have been.
Sadly sometimes it's not them being broken that leads to the abuse. I knew a lady who turned to using substance to cope with the job one day she had a really nasty client like some of the forum dwellers and she ended up taking her own life at first everyone thought it was a overdose but it was suicide. The problem is that faulty people often don't realize what they do to other people or how vulnerable they are or they just don't give a damn because of our line of work what ever the reason not all individuals who do this work is mentally built for the job and it just takes 1 mean spirited person to push them over the edge. Sadly of late there are lots of them hiding behind a member profile on ESA and my guess is if they are meanspirited in a anonymous platform you can only imagine what they are like in person.Most of them don't even care if this is the type of impact they may have on other.
Years ago there where still guys who actually cared on this platform but the bullies would call them white night which they were or pussy struck as a result most of those guys don't even use this platform. I can think of a number of such amazing punters now they just amazing in person and they don't care for this platform anymore.
Moral of the story is think how you may be infecting or affecting another human being before acting you never know the silent battles they might be fighting.
My heart goes out to the lady's loved ones during this difficult time.
You are right. This site has become more mean spirited and nasty over the years. The quality of comments has decreased. It was always here but is worse now.
Sad but true. You sir were another member who seems to have refrained from posting on this platform for some time now. Glad to see you post again.
Edited: 2024-10-08 16:17:28
She is not lost, she lives on in your heart and in your mind.
Do not grieve for her passing
Rather celebrate her life
Do not lose yourself in "what if's" and "maybes" that do her no honor.
Did she not touch your heart and life, as you touched hers,
Did she not show you her strength, courage and love?
Draw from it now,
Rejoice that you knew her for however briefly,
As she rejoiced in knowing you.
Grow in her love for you
As she grew in your love for her
For without each other, there would have been no journey,
And she could have chose no better companion than you.
So know that her journey is not yet over,
And she will live on in you
In your dreams and in your memories
R.I.P.
Edited: 2024-10-10 06:39:35
Thoughts go out, not only to her and OP during this time, but also to every one of those who touch our lives in ways they may never know.
May we never fear or refuse the blessing that it is, to feel deeply for one another, and empathise with those whose lives we only see a small portion of.
A heart that's been broke is a heart that's been loved. May she Rest in Eternal Peace.
I am also proud to be one and salute all of you amazing ladies who enable us to live out our dreams.
On 2024-10-10 05:56:45 Lisa said:
Do not weep for her loss,
She is not lost, she lives on in your heart and in your mind.
Do not grieve for her passing
Rather celebrate her life
Do not lose yourself in "what if's" and "maybes" that do her no honor.
Did she not touch your heart and life, as you touched hers,
Did she not show you her strength, courage and love?
Draw from it now,
Rejoice that you knew her for however briefly,
As she rejoiced in knowing you.
Grow in her love for you
As she grew in your love for her
For without each other, there would have been no journey,
And she could have chose no better companion than you.
So know that her journey is not yet over,
And she will live on in you
In your dreams and in your memories
R.I.P.
Thank you dear one. I struggled with this post. Much like the OP who has chosen to quit this path, I felt like doing the same. The thought of being harmful to another is to hard to bear. But if I never ventured down this path I would never of met you and many of the other beautiful people I've come to cherish. You've saved me once again with your wisdom and beautiful words.
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The time is NOW RB. We need to be there for each other in a much more coordinated manner.
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