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Posted: 2019-08-30 11:23:51

thank you Valentine for the compliment
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Posted: 2019-09-01 23:13:31
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On 2019-08-30 07:18:40 Louise said:
Been in the adult industry for 16 years... ...Was an eye opener on how things changed. Standards of both punters and WG have dropped drastically. So many ladies offering services compared to 15 years ago. And to make it worse offering it at such low prices, lower even than when I left industry. Making it very hard to compete for ladies that have high standards and offers great service... ...Traveling has become a standard in the industry. Me as a independent lady, I am seriously considering traveling through SA just because I can... ...Will I loose my clients here? Or will they visit when I am back home one week a month? I don't know. Will have to see when I decided to do the SA tour. ;)



Thank's for the insider's perspective Louise. I guess, having been a punter for more than 10 years I have also seen and experienced the same changes that you describe.

Maybe that is why old geezers like me yearn for the good old days when the distinction between the higher class ladies and the trashier ladies was clearer... when there was an expectation of honour, from both sides of the transaction... when a working lady could aim for the high end, and expect to see fewer clients but who were each prepared to pay more for a higher quality service and experience.

These days it is all muddled up... Perhaps there has never been any real honour in this game... it was always just pretence. But I will pay for that. Many punters will pay for a few hours of pretence... a few hours of fantasy... a few hours of something that may be worth coming back for... on a regular basis.
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Posted: 2019-09-02 09:08:47

Great post, sir. It raises some interesting questions and discussion points between both ladies and punters. I completely get why ladies might want to stay in one location and build a regular clientele, but in the same breath competition is fierce. Perhaps the ideal plan would be to have 3 weeks in your 'HOME' location, where you are satisfying regulars, but then spending 1 week a month travelling to other areas or cities where you can fill the gap in your budget by enticing 'new' clients. This way you are not affecting the 'regulars' too badly.

Personally, I would love to have a 'regular' but if girls didn't travel, in this case to East London, there just wouldn't be any decent punting going on here at all, which would be (is) sad.
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Posted: 2019-09-02 09:28:38

Interesting topic in deed.. And have found that request from guys to travel to areas are not just because of you specifically... It is generally because there are very few ladies in certain areas and they would just be glad to have a new face around for awhile and a variety to choose from like the Jhb and Capetown guys,as I am sure about 60% of ladies are based in these two areas. Leading to a saturation of the market in this areas. Which makes traveling to other areas not such a bad idea for girls based in Jhb and Capetown. Only issue I have found looking around in last couple of weeks is suitable locations to work from in certain areas. Although demand is there, I would not risk going if I do not know of SP friendly bnb or guesthouse in that area. As I work independently I would not wanna work in a "brothel" or club. Maybe we should start a thread in pvt forum so girls cab share locations that is SP friendly in other areas.
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Posted: 2019-09-02 09:28:39
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Posted: 2019-09-02 09:59:21

Great idea, Louise. Ladies... SHARE, dammit.
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Posted: 2019-09-02 10:14:03

Hi Louise ... just check out our forums. There are a few related threads or post your own asking for location advice before going to certain towns.

Its not easy to share as we all dont know each other so you dont know if a girl is a druggie or party animal type which may end up ruining a place when she goes there.

Eg: my special hidey hole in gonubie is now a no go thanks to a certain 'Lady' and her behaviour which drew the attention of the caretaker. Which sucks as it was THE Perfect location.

Unfortunately sharing isnt caring in this game. Especially when you have no clue as to the character of the lady who may be asking.

When I do my tours I have always done my own research which worked well for me. Then I shared the info and it was a HUGE mistake. For me anyway. When getting info from another girl just check that ladies reputation with esa first before making a descion. You wouldnt want your trip to be a disaster because the owners/managers are now more Alert and watchful thanks to the behaviour of others.

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Posted: 2019-09-02 10:22:31

@Velintine interesting reflections from a long time punter.

From my experience there is no correlation between price and quality of service provided. I always use the examples of a very popular blonde and a brunette in Pretoria. Both are beautiful, have a sense of humor, nice bodies, always squeaky clean and both providing exceptional service. And both only charged R500 and R550 respectively. I continously had to convince the blonde that she can and should double her rate which she eventually did and the brunette only increased the rate when she ended up at HOE.

Then I look at Cape Town where some of the most horrible WGs wanna charge from R2500 to R5000 an hour. Even more sometimes. But I do understand why they charge that in Cape Town; because it's a tourist place and overseas guys pay in dollars, pounds and euros.

Disclaimer: I do support any lady irrespective of looks and service provided to charge whatever they feel. It's a punters choice to choose to book or not.

As for this topic, my biased view is for all my favourate ladies to stay put where I'm used to finding them, lol!
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Posted: 2019-09-02 11:36:42

Very informative thread....thanks!

My Punting needs are simple, I prefer a regular arrangement with a regular lady, don't particularly go for the Wham, bam style of punting, in my 17 odd years of punting, I have always defaulted to one regular that I see for several months or longer (3-4 times a month), I enjoy building a bond and getting to know the lady, sometimes I just need a chat and a massage, sometimes and long lazy session of mutual pleasures....all depends.
I have had 3 regulars retire on me(Sad Face), cant mention names for fear of banning... still see 2 of them as friends for coffee or a drink etc. and have had 2 others that have just eventually not worked out any more.
I wish they could stay in one place, but certainly would not expect them to loose money just to keep me happy...

All punters have different requirements and all ladies have different needs and boundaries.... on this we can all agree!
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Posted: 2019-09-03 22:30:15
Edited: 2019-09-03 22:31:54

On 2019-09-02 10:22:31 JelebiVreeter said:
From my experience there is no correlation between price and quality of service provided...



That is so true. Some of my worst experiences have come from unapologetically unscrupulous working ladies charging R1,2000/hr or more. Some of these high-class crooks don't even pretend to try any more.

Yet some of my best experiences have come from some of the sweetest angels (or hottest porn stars, depending on the mood for the day) charging between R500 and R800/hr.

Of course, it is also quite often the other way around... sometimes you just get what you paid for. Visiting a new working lady is the equivalent rolling a dice... you just never know what you are going to get, regardless of how much you are willing to pay.

I suppose professional working ladies view us punters in the same way. They don't know what will walk through their door with every new client booking: a rude, smelly drunkard or a polite, respectful gentleman. I am always the latter, by the way.

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