On 2018-07-31 13:46:33 Meg said:
This industry is a eye opener in every kind of way.
I agree with Miss VF.
It has its positive and negative side.
And it's like Nicky said...it leaves a permanent mark as to what we as woman go through in our personal lives.
I for one have trust issues when meeting men outside of ESA.
I always think they want something more from me then friendship. ..usually that's the case!
Burned my fingers to much.

One thing I'm thankful for is to have a voice where it comes to my body and self pleasure.
I learned to enjoy the intimacy for what it is even that self pleasure is not a sin.
And still my NO mean NO..and I'm not being forced to do anything I dont want to.

I just loved this reply...

xxx

For me, there's a very different type of perception and I wish it wasn't that way. Essentially, I now see wgs as normal women with a different job and no stigma attached which is a good but my perception of other women has changed. Essentially I lost my game because there's an easier game.

I now almost always relate any other interaction with normal women to this world. It seems like to much effort to court her girl or take her out on a date or even drive a but far to see her in the hope of getting some, let alone the level of the experience you will have or the risk of them messing up your life with STDs or family etc. I tend to think I rather book one of our wgs here and I know I'm pretty much guaranteed what I like because that's what I pay for provided I do a bit of research. This in my own time and convenience at a set cost.

The worst part is it also makes me think all women want something out of it to give it up, just wgs are upfront about it so I battle to think any women is genuinely interested in me anymore which is partly do to me being older too. I genuinely think we wanted to have fun and not expect payment when we were younger but not at the age I'm at now.

On 2018-07-31 14:08:03 Need4Passion said:
For me, there's a very different type of perception and I wish it wasn't that way. Essentially, I now see wgs as normal women with a different job and no stigma attached which is a good but my perception of other women has changed. Essentially I lost my game because there's an easier game.

I now almost always relate any other interaction with normal women to this world. It seems like to much effort to court her girl or take her out on a date or even drive a but far to see her in the hope of getting some, let alone the level of the experience you will have or the risk of them messing up your life with STDs or family etc. I tend to think I rather book one of our wgs here and I know I'm pretty much guaranteed what I like because that's what I pay for provided I do a bit of research. This in my own time and convenience at a set cost.

The worst part is it also makes me think all women want something out of it to give it up, just wgs are upfront about it so I battle to think any women is genuinely interested in me anymore which is partly do to me being older too. I genuinely think we wanted to have fun and not expect payment when we were younger but not at the age I'm at now.

I find I have the same perception of men. In this biz I know they want me for sex only and that outside of that they not gonna waste my time.

I dont think ESA women are different to the outside.
I have been lied to by women on ESA...and outside ESA.
I have had made great friends with woman on ESA and outside ESA.

I can honestly say that I have more respect 4 women since ESA. I'm a decent guy (I think) n ladies open up to me n tell me some private stuff. Most of which are supporting families, and in the moral high world this may be wrong but only God can judge.

To the ladies of ESA, I love and respect each of you