On 2017-10-19 11:05:43 Blaza said:


I went through that phase, then I was cured. I've had a few great encounters but the effort to find this vs the reward just doesn't make it worth it. The kak attitude is way to prevalent and bare in mind that us black dudes are more affected than others. Then even after wading through the mud to find that one gem, you realise that there's absolutely nothing special about them. They just girls like all others and there's absolutely nothing that warrants them being put on a pedestal.

So ya, as I was saying, I've been cured

Yeah I hear that. but I try not to mix in the good decent ladies with the scum. I don't want them doing that to me so I try my best not to do that to them, so I'll go see white ladies now and then. But my black sistas are also just out of this world. I don't know why but I'm just addicted.

The lady in question could have declined the gentleman in less insulting.

Anyway they way she reacted speaks volumes...

Let us know who it is.

I say name and shame

On 2017-10-19 12:30:21 Fboy said:
On 2017-10-19 11:05:43

Yeah I hear that. but I try not to mix in the good decent ladies with the scum. I don't want them doing that to me so I try my best not to do that to them, so I'll go see white ladies now and then. But my black sistas are also just out of this world. I don't know why but I'm just addicted.

You are right, we should not just focus on the negative but also acknowledge the good. There's plenty of decent and respectful ladies out there that's free from any complex. It's just that the negative can sometimes be overwhelming and for me, I cope by completely isolating myself from anything that could lead to such a bad encounter. So I don't call or enquire even if there's no ROAR.

But I do acknowledge that generalisations are a problem

[QUOTE;875929;Arhwen] The lady in question could have declined the gentleman in less insulting.

Anyway they way she reacted speaks volumes...

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I agree. It's more the way she turned the punter down than turning him down that's at issue.

On 2017-10-19 12:13:27 Sibyl said:
Sad that a "lady" can nonchalantly use such hurtful insulting words. It points to utter ignorance and lack of compassion for another human being. Just goes to show that a beautiful body and face, does not necessarily guarantee education, class or good manners.

Nail on head.
100% true "a beautiful body and face, does not necessarily guarantee education, class or good manners."

You guys are asking me to expose let me tell you why I won't.
There is a saying that goes "I will not wish this upon my worst enemie"

Nothing good comes out of retaliation first of all. Regardless of what she said to me I won't go destroy her business n her job is her bread and butter and I won't take that away. Rather be the better person then fight because many of encounter it on a daily bases. Remember you can't change the world unless you change yourself.

I've receive inbox's from some guys and they shared their stories and their experiences with me.

I just felt like I had to share my story of yesterday's happenings.

Suburbboy I am backing you here. You have showed more class than this lady probably ever could. The ladies at Joyville call me the gentleman. Seems I have competition.

On 2017-10-19 14:54:46 frankstar said:
Suburbboy I am backing you here. You have showed more class than this lady probably ever could. The ladies at Joyville call me the gentleman. Seems I have competition.

Well said! Suburbboy has shown immense class and composure. I say composure, because had I been subjected to such blatant rudeness and derogatory remarks I'd still be on a tangent.

Sir, let me tell you, the likes of such individuals do not deserve the pleasure of your company!

Kisses...Syren.