Funny how everyone that says don't do it and run are all here and punt actively if it was that bad they themselves would not be here ;)


[QUOTE;4975210;Miss Red ( Aka Louise )] My personal piece of advise before you start out on that punting journey.

Take a month.. treat the forum as a text book to pass an exam... read the forum as much as you can.. and learn from the ones thats been here through years and years of punting.

There many pieces of great advise hidden away amongst the everyday interactions amd posts. Sometimes from most unexpected sources.;) as demostrated on this thread alone.

Read about "school fees" punters paid.. try to learn from their mistakes before you end up in same situations.

Read about "the scams" going around.. take to heart the advise given regarding a punters phone etc and how to deal with the scams if you should encounter them.

Read threads where "punting etiquette" is discussed.. you will be surprised at how punters and ladies agree and disagree on certain things..

You will find info on what to expect in a massage appointmemt or a fullhouse or a fetish appointment.

Have a question that you might think the forum discussed before use the search function, use key words to find what you looking for, you will surely find atleast one thread somewhere having some answers.

Hopefully you will pass your (first test)first appointment with no hiccups and no drama and be back to tell a tale of pure bliss.

Good luck
And
Happy Punting


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The best advice given on this thread.

On 2024-09-02 14:23:20 Issy6969 said:

I just want to know if I

Like walking into a bar and asking the drunk locals inside if its a good idea to start drinking.

You'll probably get addicted.

You think you just need to tick a few boxes and you're out but the ladies keep trickling in and that keeps you coming back to see what new wonders the purple pages are providing.

That alone will keep you coming back.

You know you want to, you know you are going to. You are just looking for some validation (quite okay, we've all been there). The thing is about faithfulness: It is highly relative and intensly personal to you as a human being and no-one should or could give you advice on that. Now, the construct of faithfulness (any construct is but man made, constellations and archetypes, a totally different story.) This construct is directly linked to the feeling of guilt, which is also man made. I as a human being have been granted this blessed gift of a life in all its forms, which can only be appreciated in its full glory through the blessed gift of experience. Then why should guilt even exist. To live is to experience and to experience is to allow yourself to BE. Mind: With all its thoughts, ideas and imaginations. Body: With all its subtle messages, aches pains and sexual needs, Soul: The willingness to experience it all with love and compassion for the self and others. Here-in lies acceptance of all that is. From the perspective of addiction, here's a thought: Punting is not the addiction, you running away from something becomes the addiction. Same with all other "addictions". If loving connection, intensity, variety, secrecy, thrill and the gift of an internal physical release and mind nlowing experiences, then you are in the company of addicts. You are 25, live, make mistakes, jaag kak aan, have fun, BUT, never to the detrimine of yourself or another. Oops, I digressed under a cloud of 420. Lekker spyker.

Oh and i also had the police scam early on so research that one....

On 2024-09-02 16:35:57 KingofthePunters said:

"Cause one thing that I found out
I can't have one woman, gotta have three
One woman just to hold me down
One woman just to lift me up (oh yeah)
And I gotta at least have one woman on the side
That really don't give a fuck"

For some reason that song resonates; lol ...

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Some thoughts for the OP from a baby, just 3 yrs old. Maybe one day I'll be a pubescent 13yr old teen like Kickass...

Engaging in an activity that is illegal, not a societal norm - even "shameful", "frowned upon", etc is not easy. Living a secret life is hard. Will you be willing to disclose that to any future partner, or can you live with the secret(s) ...

If you choose the secret option ... it can be very lonely and even disruptive to who you are at your core. Kickass seems to deal with that well, being the social person he is. Thought of making friends in this lifestyle, but it's hard trusting other people "with your secret". But it's harder living with secrets.


Something that stood out from the OPs post. Limiting yourself to 3 ladies.

Many smoke weed. Not everyone is pot head

Many engage in casual sex. And many are more "monogamous".

The OP appears to maybe be more inclined to the latter. Wanting to limit yourself to '3 partners'. Maybe I'm reading to much into it, but it gives the impression that "being faithful" is a big part of your make up. And your biggest concern may be losing this part of you.

Two thoughts ...

(1) You are who you are. You can't lose "faithfulness". You may just need to redefine what it means in relation to sex. It may be better to do it while you young. At 50, it sucks ...

(2) You need to discover who you are sexually. The sex industry is a useful place to explore. And again it sucks when you 50. But you never to old, the only difference is the expectations placed on you are harder to rid yourself of. It's easier to write your story when you younger than wake up later realizing you want a different one.

Balancing your intrinsic nature of "being faithful" and discovering your sexual desires early may be more beneficial. It may even help you find better alignment with your future life partner.

Many people end up divorced because they "grow" in different directions. One partner may be "unfaithful" and then commits to another and remains "faithful" ...

Consider ...

Is it a lifestyle you want to be part of? Is it a lifestyle you can associate with? How much ...

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The above is just a lot of rambling thoughts ... but here is one fact; Whatever you do, it can't be undone! So act wisely and live with the consequences. You will need to own it, or your life will spiral into misery.

Dude you big now go punt book the chick and go punt call it crocerie money.in 25 yrs from now you will still be here.best advice I can give you is punt as much as u want when u don't have money then don't punt.

On 2024-09-02 14:23:20 Issy6969 said:
I am a 25 year old professional from Pretoria, I have been tired of dating and just looking to have fun for a couple of years b4 setting down one day.

I just want to know if I do go down the punting path, will I become so addicted that It will not be possible to be a faithful husband?

I was thinking maybe choosing 3 WGs who I can visit regularly instead of having a new WG every time would be a fine and wont cause much harm?

Don't do it I joined I saw one person for a message and I before seeing her I was just so nervous and my conscious couldn't comprehend what I'm doing ,was actually shaking ,was there for 20 minutes tops and then I paid another good looking escort before hand straight to her account but cancelled because I met a very beautiful young lady at the gym,for m I've come to find out that I can't have sex with a girl I don't know,we don't have chemistry and we have gone out in a few dates first,I value chemistry a lot so ,that's why I'm struggling to see someone here,I just can't do it anymore plus,dude try just going to mall of Africa,the gym and get to know a girl or even braam,be honest with her about what u want but at least be a guy who can hold a convo and make a girl laugh and make her comfortable,then she'll be more open and also be respectful,u don't need to be here to be smashing 10/10 from my experience but yeah buying sex is such overwhelming and scary thing for me,but I blame porn for this,making unrealistic fantasies that are not actually so appealing

It can be addictive.. it is more the thrill of having different pussy with women you would dream of in the real world.

I last punted in 2022 and I'm trying to be faithful to my partner but it is so tempting to punt again, the thrill and excitement you get from it.. it was fun when I was single but now it is a challenge. If you haven't punted yet resist the urge cause its a slippery slope you go down! PS I really want to punt again cause there is some seriously gorgeous women on here!

Life is short book a sensual massage ;)