Dear RB
Might I add your own bravery for putting this topic onto an open, respectful forum. Who knows, the universe works in many ways, and like me the wrong things need to hapen at the right time to prepare one to find the high and narrow. Who knows who reads this, how it is interpreted or lambasted. I lost both my childhood friends to dis-ease and consider myself a courageous survivor to this day. In my many years helping the still suffering I have seen success and failure. Death comes quickly, sometimes slowly all depends on the individuals attitude. Willingness my dear plays only a small part, simply because "self will" fails many who enter into any form of recovery or support group. Thanks for putting yourself out there, you're open mind goes beyond books and writings and for that respect indeed.

I battled alcohol for years, not even realising I had a problem. It would've been easier if I had gotten professional help. I didn't have to struggle alone.
And the adage is so true 'when days are dark friends are few.' Gradually people no longer invited me to their functions because I was boring since I stopped drinking. But funny, when they were in trouble I was the only one they felt they could call, the only sober one. Old friendships have been rekindled lately
... friends I had lost when I was a drunk.

Now back to an earlier comment. Sex on coke or E... I've been with clients who were tripping on both. The user might think the sex is awesome but for me it is anything but. Hence the dislikes on my profile. The only time IMO both parties can enjoy drug sex is if both are tripping.

Eish, RB will have to ask Steve to read again.

Nadia, as a punter I also hate it when WGs are tripping or drunk when I arrive in a booking. It always leads to wasted money. Admittedly in my earlier years of punting I tried to help a couple of WGs to kick their drug dependency. Wasted money also. Lessoned learned is as an outsider I realy could not help, it all depends on the individual to WANT to quit. And that as I understand only happens if they hit rock bottom (thats if they dont wind up dead first)

Dear Steve
In life, that which leaves a bad taste in ones mouth or makes one feel uncomfortable, many like to sweep under the carpet, turn a blind eye to or play it down, attacking in return.
My original post, was not a calling out of anybody, but rather a statement of fact...we like it or not.
You are right. This is a respectful forum one should be able to share much. As u said u never know who may be reading and what hope they may find in the stories related.

And thus

Nadia....

You. I again take my hat off to. And like Steve...thank u for sharing a challenging part of ur life many may pass judgement on. But. Most will find hope in and see strength of character.

I know my original post may be viewed as way too serious and touched the nerve of many. If it did i apologise if it raised painful reminders.
But if it made one feel angry because i dared to address a real life issue that is prominent in this space then dont spit at me but, rather ask yourself why u may feel that way.
And again i reiterate.....i am NOT passing judgement on anybody but merely making an observation as is obvious from my original post.


Xxx
B.

Mujahid

I am beginning to worry....u becoming addictive!!!

BIG GRIN.

Your "kak praat" writings full of wit , much under the radar. U are a force to be reckoned with....comically and intellectually.
And sometime...seriously a pain in the butt!!!

Xxx
B.

Personal experience (punter). And yes I'm other 35, sex on e works, but both people need to be tripping. And both need to be in the same space.

Sex on anything that you snarf, is going to be amazing, but beware, not a lot of guys can get it up after the first line.

Also take in to consideration that your female friend will not find it as amazing as you.

Mujahid
I had to add the following:-
"Kak praat" comments meaning.....most of the time u post tongue in cheek nonsensical writing but hits home...sometimes can go above the head and makes no-(n)-sense.
Didn't mean it in a derogatory manner.
Promise

Xxx
B

Dearest Ms B.

For once I have to disagree with you....

"I am not an addictive type" you say .... but i am sorry to say that you are.

Your addiction to sensuality is so strong!

However, that takes second place to your addiction to sharing your sensuality.... practising to perfect the ultimate fix... perfection being an addiction too?

The wonderful results of your addiction is that we at we all end on incredible highs and floating back to reality...

... Desperate for our next fix of you.... and I believe ... your next fix of us.

To our next shared fix towards perfection...
Cw

Addiction is a very common reality. And each to their own. The problem is that people see addiction as the Problem. It is not! Addiction is a Symptom of a deep underlying emotional problem.

Treating the symptoms will not resolve the issue. Rehabs replace illegal and scorned upon addictions with prescribed medical alternatives. So they replace one drug for another because it's medically approved?

They don't solve the root cause of the symptom. That's why addiction continues.

You can't help anyone who doesn't want to be helped, but instead of judging them, try understanding them. If you have the patience.

Why don't we just legalise every drug? But with legislation that only registered medical personal can prescribe a controlled daily user amount per patient. And each patient is strictly monitored.

Perhaps that could eliminate the drug lords, dealer's, police or anyone else with corrupt illegal intentions.

Just a basic thought analysis.

I have so many deep thoughts on this issue. Probably to deep to go into on this site.

Arz

I have never met a drug user or seen anyone taking drugs either in my lifetime. Ive read the forum of houses where the girls get into the business just for drug money but never actually witness anyone high or acting high either. Is this a big problem in south africa ..i assume ladies get into the business for the money not for habbit. Personally i would give support to anyone who is the position of recovery.( be it bad debt,abuse or whatever). People must be positioned to suceed not regress. Wonder if any punter got into situation if the girl was high at the booking and she fell asleep..lol