Hold up. You are a punter. You have sex with WG's while in a relationship, most likely without her knowledge (please correct me if I'm wrong), yet you feel hurt and betrayed by the fact that she provides extra services to other punters?

Please DO NOT make me spell out the irony here.

And please, it doesn't matter how many extra's she provides, please don't ever call her a whore again. A WG doesn't only sell you a sevice. She sells you her body, and a part of her soul, and if anything, she deserves more respect than the average woman. This doesn't change because you're in love with her and other punters are benefiting from this service. I wish the word 'whore' could just be banished from the english vocabulary. What a horrible thing to call a woman. :'(

Whore is definitely a horrible word ... hate that word !!!

Such a disgusting word.

Bud I know you are angry but take a couple of breaths and think about this logically.

Read the hypocrisy if you punt and she offers extras.

Communicate with your respective partner your feelings and see if you can work something out. Remember sacrifice's comes from both sides to make something work.

I asked an old couple once at their 50th anniversary how they made it work, the old man giggled and answered "happy wife happy life".

Let me go undercover for you boss

I can only imagine how horrible any WG or MG felt at that moment when they read that thing he said about 'her inner whore'. Vieslike blerrie woord. >:(

I am 100% with Ruby on that. You cant have your cake and eat it. If you ate willing to stop punting then you can cast comments but you must remember she earns a living from it. As Ruby said she sells a bit of her soul as wel and it takes a very strong person to master it. If you do not support her then she might even turn to chemical additaves to cope.

Hey P Eater. You seem like a nice guy. But let's get the the nuts and bolts here. You got about 50000 a month or more free and clear to get your lady out of the industry? Then more for your yourself to fuel your own narcissistic desire to punt on?

Then do that.

Then you're free and clear of all your angst and questions and whining about what to do ... what to do .. boo boo crap!

On 2017-05-01 15:54:48 RubyWinchester said:
Hold up. You are a punter. You have sex with WG's while in a relationship, most likely without her knowledge (please correct me if I'm wrong), yet you feel hurt and betrayed by the fact that she provides extra services to other punters?

Please DO NOT make me spell out the irony here.



And please, it doesn't matter how many extra's she provides, please don't ever call her a whore again. A WG doesn't only sell you a sevice. She sells you her body, and a part of her soul, and if anything, she deserves more respect than the average woman. This doesn't change because you're in love with her and other punters are benefiting from this service. I wish the word 'whore' could just be banished from the english vocabulary. What a horrible thing to call a woman. :'(

Ms Ruby i may be wrong for the name i used out of anger but i wanna correct you on being with a wg or being a punter i only joined esa after i found out and due to being angry and upset also confused on what to do...i never cheated being with a wg while in the relationshio

I dont see the need for her to work before i provided everything she asks for and also things she didnt ask for,took her child as mine also..I might have been wrong for joining ESA or being with a WG but i only did this after we seperated and i still cant get her off my mind and she also wants me back but i dont know what to do

On 2017-05-01 17:00:53 Pussyeater980 said:
I dont see the need for her to work before i provided everything she asks for and also things she didnt ask for,took her child as mine also..I might have been wrong for joining ESA or being with a WG but i only did this after we seperated and i still cant get her off my mind and she also wants me back but i dont know what to do

What you need to do is take your personal business out of here, if you feel this relationship can be saved do it without any help from here...

If you're clear about your feelings for her and hers for you, take it out of this FORUM...