On 2015-11-26 15:19:09 samdidtwo said:
I predict with water restrictions in place nowadays, golden showers are gonna come more popular.

. I certainly hope not. Some would walk around stinking of pee.

On 2015-11-26 16:01:39 Michelle said:
On 2015-11-26 15:19:09 samdidtwo said: I predict with water restrictions in place nowadays, golden showers are gonna come more popular.. I certainly hope not. Some would walk around stinking of pee.

Really, really really, haibo don't say

& Jameslasting Thank you for the support. You are right that Lalita is entitled to her opinion. However most here have voiced a dislike for golden showers and especially brown showers. Yes I am a WG but that does not mean I will want to take part in acts of degradation. Thank goodness we are all different and we have a choice as to how we live our lives.

Dear Michele,

I humbly apologise on behalf of myself as well as Lalita, for perpetuating discussion on the subject which offends you so.

I also appreciate you being outspoken on a topic that you do not like -- it is a good thing and keeps everyone (including myself) in check.

Please forgive her, she has a sharp tongue and comes across as not very nice, but somewhere deep down inside there has to be something good about her too.

Please forgive me too, for taking matters up with her publicly. I am sure that her business can handle it though. I am hoping that she will treat it as a learning experience.

Thank you for your support and understanding, I appreciate it.

x
J

Everyone has a right to an opinion and we should all respect it and so it goes with everything in life!

Sucking a toe, licking an ass, getting whipped, taking it in the naught, etc etc is what makes us all spend time on Eddie's playground!

If it is not your cup of tea don't go piss on someone else's parade and by saying "Anyone with any self respect will not even consider it" then you open yourself up to a PK!

Well said daporra.

Each to their own. I have never participated in a golden shower or brown shower, but if that has some form of gratification for the giver or receiver, then enjoy and be safe about it.

No need to knock fetishes/desires of others.

Lalita sure has a way to make friends on these forums.
Hun, can I buy you a new spade?

Daporra my friend, cum esta?

Your contribution to this forum have been nothing short of amazing, and I respect you for your self-sacrifice and some cool, honest comments. Without a doubt, you're great and your honest-to-goodness tendencies come out -- because of your brutal honesty. And sometimes even more so because you are completely right.

I want to remind all, and make it clear that I agree with your right to an opinion, and that I grant everyone his/her fetish. You have yours, I have mine. But consider those of us who are perhaps less sophisticated, and perhaps less experienced. Or perhaps those who have been there and done that, and find it repulsive.What about those people? Should we tell them that they are no longer welcome here?

Should they keep quiet out of fear of reprisal?

Because they are repulsed by shemales, but enjoy fellatio, they have no place here?
Because they enjoy men, or women of another race, that they don't belong here?
Because they like massages with HE, instead of FH, that they must all line up for a PK?

So let me make this clear: if anyone is gonna to give PKs around here, you gonna have to give them to me first -- after all -- I deserve it (and I am possibly most equipped to retaliate, as and when I feel the need to).

Sometimes though, we all forgive one another. There are many reasons for this -- even if it is for Ano Novo. Isn't this wonderful?

Up to now we have all experienced what the ancient grecians would call "Ludus", the playful love and flirting. But we also need to mature towards the "Philia" or comradely friendship. Some of us are here, some not. Ultimately, we all need to move towards the "Agape" or sacrificial love. This is the love that a man is supposed to have towards his wife, he needs to be prepared to die for her, like Christ who died for the church (Ben Layden take note -- sacrificial love was the theme of one of your posts)

Lalita, my awesomely beautiful woman, I acknowledge that you were within your rights to speak freely about things which make you feel good. I would be even happier if you would not lambast the men (and women) with your sharp tongue so much, but really, that is up to you and it is your choice in the matter. Remember that we are all people with feelings, and sometimes our speech (even if written) can be quite hurtful. So, the ball is in your court, girl.

Daporra, thank you for pointing to the truth. You and I have much more in common than some would think. One day (maybe soon) we will enjoy a 1920 together.

@ Jameslasting. Thank you very much for your support. You really do have a way of seeing all the angles of an issue. Yes I am not that naive or as conservative as I was when I started in this industry and I did do anal but then was out of the industry for quite a while and found it too painful and now do not offer it anymore. I also am multiracial and prior to starting in this industry, I was disgusted by oral but now I love giving and receiving oral and many have enjoyed my BJ's. We live and learn as this industry is certainly an eye opener.

Michelle, are you telling me that, after long last, we have found the most elusive <drumroll>... <cymbals>

***Malty Rachel***

AKA Michelle?
:-)

On a serious note, your message is pretty awesome, and I am honoured that you have chosen to share it with us -- especially some of the intimate facts about your own personal growth in your chosen vocation -- and I have the utmost respect for you, as well as your choices. I agree that it is a fascinating industry.

Thank you for your honesty -- and have yourself an awesome weekend!