Thanks bro will book once more with her before asking... Will see how it goes from there hopefully I don't get burned lol. I suppose wgs would also be a bit suspicious of guys showing an interest in them thinking that the guy is jus in it for free sex

Ash darling.....so u are human after all.
Nice to know...
And see that u saying the same thing I have been saying, but in different words.

The ESA forum is quite trasparent as is punting. Human nature being......

All is nicer thru rose tinted glasses....

And I promise u.....mine are seriously thick lenses.

Now babydoll.....when is u being mine?

Still need to tell u about my heritage since u find it questionable

Love u!

Xxx

Attraction, that human oddity that is only slightly less dangerous then trying to triple jump across the North Korean DMZ in front of a checkpoint.

The reality is that it is completely random and more often then not completely uncontrollable, it is very much like lightning which has no fixed pattern.

Are there some WG's who are tempting in this regard, absolutely. From the ladies side the same has to apply, like us, not all ladies are exactly the same.
The only real advice is to speak up and take your chances if you think it's worth it... pretty like every other relationship on the 3rd rock from the sun. There is no way to predict the outcome, ever.

Shakespeare said it best...There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, Than are dreamt of in your philosophy. - Hamlet

Ok. There are 2 parts to this story.
1.. The guy attracted to the girl .. that happens very often I'm sure . Problem is if the girl is focused on work she will have problems keeping him in check as often he might interfer .
2.Girl attracted to guy.. Here is something lots of guys hope for. Having had a fair share of both sides it's always complicated . The days she doesn't want yo work and want to spend with you. Or invite you home . The weekend sleepover . MEETING THE INFANT CHILD SHE HAS...
You will know her intentions by how the finances are transferred . If you starting to pay the rent and doctors bills and creche ... you in trouble .
If she is buying you a present .. offering to pay for dinner .etc then you might say that might not have sinister motives .
Either way ... and as enjoyable as it would be.. someone always gets hurt and I've found them to be short term relationships .
Ultimately someone will get hurt

@ Durban guy

Spot on - I lean more to the financial side...

Deamonza...."Attraction, that human oddity that is only slightly less dangerous then trying to triple jump across the North Korean DMZ in front of a checkpoint. "

Ask me...

And just don't get it. U don't have to be on this site to potentially face getting hurt.
What is this generalisation that it worse here than meeting a female in the ordinary world that has kids or not and may treat u the same way?

Why such bias?

What if u had no knowledge she had been exposed to this world and she was afforded the opportunity to make a living some other way? And she is all your heart and fantasy has desired?

I am seriously befuddled.....

:(

@Russian Bridgette... I made no distinction between the punting world and the "civilian" world, in this regard they are equal and just as mysterious...

[QUOTE;475971;deamonza] Are there some WG's who are tempting in this regard, absolutely. From the ladies side the same has to apply, like us, not all ladies are exactly the same.
The only real advice is to speak up and take your chances if you think it's worth it... pretty like every other relationship on the 3rd rock from the sun. There is no way to predict the outcome, ever. [/QUOTE]

My dear, the realities of life is that relationships are always fraught with the possibility of disappointment, not matter your work, your lifestyle or your socio-econmic background.
You as a person have to decide for yourself if it is worth the risk, for me I always say you should take that chance... life is for living after all.

@GQ easy.. not necessarily. Many of these lovely ladies are exactly that .. lovely ladies .
Be they strippers or WGs.
Many have a lotto deal with with the profession they have and sometimes it's easier to get close to someone who already knows what you do , rather than try to play cat and mouse with someone who doesn't know your secrets .
It's always good to have someone to be able to spend time with and she might not always have an agenda .

Once a legendary punter told me this, if you think you are falling in love or suspect that you are falling in love with a wg. run mother fu*** run and make sure you don't look back.it works all the time

excuse the language.

Search the forum, in it you will find many the tale of love and heartbreak, sometimes it reads like a Mills and Boon story or so I assume having never actually read a Mills and Boon story