Well said Ben...

@Supermanv2 with absolutely no due respect whatsoever but your sentence "the fact that you are probably white and have never actually been on the receiving end of what Tom referred to makes you a little under qualified to comment" is monumentally ignorant. Do you think only *black* people can experience racism? While in many aspects in South Africa there is no denying white people have it easier but have you ever tried to run a business? Being *forced* by misguided BEE laws to have certain racial quotas is every inch as racist as apartheid was, because - here's the important bit - *decisions are made based on race not merrit alone*. The very definition of racism.

So fmgood says I am an idiot with an inferiority complex? First, I never asserted that black are inferior, nor did I imply that anyone is inferior. Re-read my statement, and you will realize that I defined racism in terms of any two or more races, none specifically mentioned.

As for my inferiority, dear fmgood, well, we are all here BUYING PUSSY in a world with no less than 3.5 billion pussies on it, aren't we? Why are kettles calling pots... what's that again? We all here because we somewhat unfulfilled. I can tell you now though, whatever I am dealing with, isn't sourced in racism. You deal with that source of poor reading and comprehension skills and anger issues on your own terms, yes?

I also never said any one race is racist. I specifically object to any working girl turning down a client on the basis of race ONLY. THAT IS RACIST. We can debate it all you want.

And to those who say racism cannot apply because of the intimate nature of the business, think again: there are many much more "intimate" industries where race is not an issue. Religion, education, the business of treasury and money, law and personal safety, etc. where people of various races mould the minds of other races' young, doctors who operate on unconscious patients of other races and heal them (think of the "intimacy" that comes with brain surgery here), etc. This industry is not as unique nor as personal, novel, nor unique as it sometimes claims to be. It is what it is: a job!

Coming to think of Browny123's comment, perhaps we are asking the wrong question. Perhaps it isn't the WG's that are racist, but the punters, the paying customers, that dictate the behaviour of the sellers. That question would rationalise the defence of such behaviour, and the fear of WG's who offer those services of advertising those services when there is obviously a mature, eager market for such services. I'm not going to elaborate this question though because that's equivalent to addressing our nation's post-Apartheid reconciliation and acceptance process, all sides considered.

ok tom shoes we get it. Everyone is racist. Point taken. Lets move along. Plenty of wg's to go around.

I am not a racist. I hate everyone equally.

I would love to hear how we, as a nation, and as individuals, can overcome this, from ALL perspectives and viewpoints and experiences.

@tomshoes, Dr's take an oath to provide medical assistance to their best ability without prejudice yet social welfare cannot take a rape victim to Mediclinic for help. WGs have a right to choose how, where & with whom they do their business, the same way one wouldn't take a polo to get serviced at porche.
I work with disabled people at my "normal" job yet I don't want a disbled punter because I'll feel sorry for them and I know they hate pity.
I told a guy once that I wont treat him like any other punter and he understood that I didnt invite him over only to take his money & not give him what he paid for.

1. If we are tolerant, and try and understand where the other person is coming from [no pun intended] (his/her experiences and interpretations thereof), and the other person also try and respect the viewpoint he/she is reacting to, it might go a long way to avoid unpleasant perceptions and reactions

Their pussys their rules... Nice one lick, got everyone worked up for no reason at all... New posters don't rise to the bait this dickhead does this every month it's pretty sad, cause I don't think he has a penis so this is how he gets off...don't fall for it, plenty of black guys getting sex from white hookers they just ain't advertising it here, Really who would fuck someone with the attitude of the original poster even for 10 grand, what a knob..

I am a racist! Last 1 to the finishline is a vrot pampoen!!