On 2022-02-02 09:59:30 JHB22 said:
Have been reading the forum and seen some posts regarding kissing, GFE etc.

This is more of a personal question and would be interested in the ladies' views too.

When my partner and I met I remember the kissing that accompanied our lovemaking sessions which is normal. Very quickly she started complaining that the stubble on my top lip (I shave almost daily) scratches/pokes her. I've tried everything to keep my face as hair free as possible-shaving right before we go to bed, waxing, different blades, even burnt my face off almost trying that liquid hair remover on my top lip and laser. I also put a lot of effort into mouth hygiene, get my teeth cleaned professionally and brush more times a day including before bed time. Another excuse she also had was that she doesn't like kissing after I've given her a muff, that I can understand to an extent.

Now there is almost zero kissing even at the start of love making. I will start kissing her almost immediately she'll push my face down to her tits which she enjoys alot. But no kissing on the lips. Frequency of sex is still the same, we have sex often.

So recently I asked her what is the problem,why do we not kiss when we have sex. She says that her sexual preferences have changed, kissing doesn't turn her on anymore. Outside of sex, we give each other the occasional peck on the cheek or mouth, but no real kissing.

Not sure what to make of all this as we are still having regular sex, but it's almost like doing it with a wg that doesn't kiss.

Am I making too much about this?

On 2022-02-02 09:59:30 JHB22 said:
Have been reading the forum and seen some posts regarding kissing, GFE etc.

This is more of a personal question and would be interested in the ladies' views too.

When my partner and I met I remember the kissing that accompanied our lovemaking sessions which is normal. Very quickly she started complaining that the stubble on my top lip (I shave almost daily) scratches/pokes her. I've tried everything to keep my face as hair free as possible-shaving right before we go to bed, waxing, different blades, even burnt my face off almost trying that liquid hair remover on my top lip and laser. I also put a lot of effort into mouth hygiene, get my teeth cleaned professionally and brush more times a day including before bed time. Another excuse she also had was that she doesn't like kissing after I've given her a muff, that I can understand to an extent.

Now there is almost zero kissing even at the start of love making. I will start kissing her almost immediately she'll push my face down to her tits which she enjoys alot. But no kissing on the lips. Frequency of sex is still the same, we have sex often.

So recently I asked her what is the problem,why do we not kiss when we have sex. She says that her sexual preferences have changed, kissing doesn't turn her on anymore. Outside of sex, we give each other the occasional peck on the cheek or mouth, but no real kissing.

Not sure what to make of all this as we are still having regular sex, but it's almost like doing it with a wg that doesn't kiss.

Am I making too much about this?

On 2022-02-02 17:43:39 Ruth Kaizer said:
On 2022-02-02 09:59:30 JHB22 said: Have been reading the forum and seen some posts regarding kissing, GFE etc.

This is more of a personal question and would be interested in the ladies' views too.

When my partner and I met I remember the kissing that accompanied our lovemaking sessions which is normal. Very quickly she started complaining that the stubble on my top lip (I shave almost daily) scratches/pokes her. I've tried everything to keep my face as hair free as possible-shaving right before we go to bed, waxing, different blades, even burnt my face off almost trying that liquid hair remover on my top lip and laser. I also put a lot of effort into mouth hygiene, get my teeth cleaned professionally and brush more times a day including before bed time. Another excuse she also had was that she doesn't like kissing after I've given her a muff, that I can understand to an extent.

Now there is almost zero kissing even at the start of love making. I will start kissing her almost immediately she'll push my face down to her tits which she enjoys alot. But no kissing on the lips. Frequency of sex is still the same, we have sex often.

So recently I asked her what is the problem,why do we not kiss when we have sex. She says that her sexual preferences have changed, kissing doesn't turn her on anymore. Outside of sex, we give each other the occasional peck on the cheek or mouth, but no real kissing.

Not sure what to make of all this as we are still having regular sex, but it's almost like doing it with a wg that doesn't kiss.

Am I making too much about this?


Stop having sex with her.