On 2018-03-12 19:43:46 Yewrev1 said:
I might be wrong but going to give my opinion in any case

Private life sex for a working girl is better as she is under no pressure to perform. She is doing because she wants to, not because she has to or being paid for it.

I want to think "paid for" sex can be just as good as private life sex. There are however a few pre-conditions involve to get it to that level.

1. The punter should be more concerned about the SP pleasure than his own.
2. The SP should forget that she is getting paid fir the session, let her hair down and just enjoy it.
3. The payment for the session must not be seen as payment for sex, but rather as a gift, etc.
4. There has to be lots of chemistry and a truck load or 2 full of trust between SP and Punter.
5. Some mind fucking (sexting, foreplay) prior to the session will help. Remember the brain is the biggest and mist powerful sex organ. Use it to your advantage.

Ps. Ask Miss Barbie how it should be done. She actually admitted to it on the forum that a punter made her speak in tongues.

There are guys that know exactly how to do that, starting with seducing the mind then do great on point "5"...


I've always said we are here for the money, but if the sex is that good, it's a cherry on top, and yes " paid for sex" can be as amazing...

@Climax

A gorgeous lady once mention to me, that making love involves mind body and soul.

Sex only involves the body. In private lives the ladies make love, in the purple valley it is about sex and money.

So for "Paid for" to reach the heights of private life experiences, it must change from "sex" to "making love"

On 2018-03-12 19:43:46 Yewrev1 said:
I might be wrong but going to give my opinion in any case

Private life sex for a working girl is better as she is under no pressure to perform. She is doing because she wants to, not because she has to or being paid for it.

I want to think "paid for" sex can be just as good as private life sex. There are however a few pre-conditions involve to get it to that level.

1. The punter should be more concerned about the SP pleasure than his own.
2. The SP should forget that she is getting paid fir the session, let her hair down and just enjoy it.
3. The payment for the session must not be seen as payment for sex, but rather as a gift, etc.
4. There has to be lots of chemistry and a truck load or 2 full of trust between SP and Punter.
5. Some mind fucking (sexting, foreplay) prior to the session will help. Remember the brain is the biggest and mist powerful sex organ. Use it to your advantage.

Ps. Ask Miss Barbie how it should be done. She actually admitted to it on the forum that a punter made her speak in tongues.

Paid sex or not it all depends on who i am with,and how you do me.Sometimes I come to think personal sex bores me to death,I can't be myself but fake.

but paid sex on other hand, I get to be myself.without being judged.Good money/good sex#wetpussy

=happy Barbie

On 2018-03-13 12:59:08 Yewrev1 said:
@Climax

A gorgeous lady once mention to me, that making love involves mind body and soul.

Sex only involves the body. In private lives the ladies make love, in the purple valley it is about sex and money.

So for "Paid for" to reach the heights of private life experiences, it must change from "sex" to "making love"

@Yewrev

That lady is a very smart lady...

The mind, the body and soul, if the heart doesn't beat slowly and catching breath from afar, without running a marathon, you just got me at "making love"

Let's make love not war...

I guess it's different strokes for different folks, speaking for myself I for one think that personal sex is the most comfortable since there's deep feelings of love, or just lusting after that high school buddy of yours.
I don't think every girl clicks with every guy they meet, money or not I assume some guys don't click with every girl they book. I may not know much since I'm still new but that's just my opinion.

On 2018-03-13 17:11:29 Climax said:
On 2018-03-13 12:59:08

@Yewrev

That lady is a very smart lady...

Indeed she is, rumor has it, she is one one of the best, and hopefully I am lucky enough to meet here sooner than later to put this theory of hers to the test.

I always say there is 'fucking' and there is 'making love'. The latter you will never find in the industry, but you will certainly find both in a relationship.

On 2018-03-13 19:30:32 Yewrev1 said:
On 2018-03-13 17:11:29 Climax said: On 2018-03-13 12:59:08

@Yewrev

That lady is a very smart lady...



Indeed she is, rumor has it, she is one one of the best, and hopefully I am lucky enough to meet here sooner than later to put this theory of hers to the test.

She sounds amazing, you're both very lucky...

On 2018-03-13 17:11:29 Climax said:
On 2018-03-13 12:59:08 Yewrev1 said: @Climax

A gorgeous lady once mention to me, that making love involves mind body and soul.

Sex only involves the body. In private lives the ladies make love, in the purple valley it is about sex and money.

So for "Paid for" to reach the heights of private life experiences, it must change from "sex" to "making love"


@Yewrev

That lady is a very smart lady...

The mind, the body and soul, if the heart doesn't beat slowly and catching breath from afar, without running a marathon, you just got me at "making love"

Let's make love not war...

Lol like this one ( Let's make love not war.......


And it is true you make love with your mind body and soul all of it make one


A clear mind and body will make the expression so much more and you will feel it in the soul

Just my 2c

On 2018-03-13 19:53:28 Pruveooo said:
I always say there is 'fucking' and there is 'making love'. The latter you will never find in the industry, but you will certainly find both in a relationship.

You do sometimes find "making love" in the industry. People who click are candidates of lovemaking.