On 2018-06-19 16:54:48 Steph94 said:
Excuse me as I have a little chuckle to myself. Not that I find it funny, I don't know what to think of this whole issue. 24 year old me is still trying to figure out why married men are denied sex, or are not having sex with their wives. I read a comment from one of the punters (who is married) saying that he isn't getting sex at home. How and why? It's usually males that complain about sex drying up in a marriage. Is marriage draining? are children the reason why? Do woman stop liking sex as they get older? or gentlemen, is this an excuse to bed a younger and more attractive woman.

Steph, the statistics say(so Ive read) that a man hits his sexual peak at 18 and a woman in her 40's....in my case maybe I should have been a woman, as I feel that as a man in my 40's Im only starting to hit my stride...on the flipside of the coin things at home took a turn for the worse sexually a very long time ago. A man can only masturbate for so long buddy...the dirty thoughts in my mind could only help for that long.
Maybe times have changed? Maybe its all the sh#t we have in our food these days that makes us more mature guys long for more? Im actually quite relieved about the turn of events, because when I was 18 I didnt know my ass from my elbow in this regard...but now Id like to think that I can hold my own in most sexual scenarios and that women appreciate the fact that they get more attention than a selfish 18 year old me. But to answer your question from my point of view...it is a series of events that caused me to fall into this sensual sexy pit of hornyness....some my own doing...some not. Im pretty new at this, so I will still see where it leads me...maybe to Nirvana...maybe to the burning firepits of sorrow. In any event Im here because its needed...by me of course...and, to justify the means... what a fantastic way to support all these beautiful women!!!!

My 2c. I'm married and sex at home is sometimes far apart but then it gets often. Like at the moment. I have been getting some almost every night but the reason I still want to punt is simple. The lovely ladies here do what my wife doesn't. I'm a kinky guy, wife is a sweet reserved women. She is unbelievably hot but she prefers traditional sex. So ye, I will still get some at home but want some good old physical heat with other ladies. Like at the moment I want to rim a women, and do Greek. Wife wouldn't allow so I need to find some sexy strange to get it out of my system

Have you guys watched one of the experimental episodes of "Married At First Sight UK"?

What about those couple's....they don't know each other and marry as complete strangers. What happens to them in the long run or right there on the spot when they start to get to know each other.

I can just imagine the guy telling his new wife, "well guess what I'm a punter" and the woman says "well that's wondeful news, I'm an Escort" and they have that connection....lol

Will it be for better or for worse. It's a tough world out there.

That is just the worst reality show/concept.

Kimmylee, that would be funny. Lol

On 2018-06-22 17:18:19 Ice123 said:
That is just the worst reality show/concept.

Kimmylee, that would be funny. Lol

Well there are relationship psychologists the works. They interview these guys so no nasty surprises except that what you see is what you get.

What if you make the biggest mistake of your life. Either by not going through with the wedding or by going through with it. She has so much ability to be shagged on the outside and the man to shag as much as they want out of the marriage. Would there be trust or enough time to get to know each other. The best excuse would be babe we're both addicted to this lifestyle after all we had a different life before this experiment. .....lol.

I can imagine myself walking down the isle and marrying Frankenstein or Dracula and I don't know what his dick size is or if he does have one...lmao. It's either I say I do or I don't but then again I could miss out on the honeymoon, the moving in together and getting to learn each others habits, the no sex at all on the first night because I'm not getting paid for it. That is enough to drive one crazy in these times...damn!

Some crazy discoveries I'd say.

... for not getting paid.

You must take a test drive...see if all the bells and whistles are in working condition.

On 2018-06-22 18:35:01 Ice123 said:
... for not getting paid.

You must take a test drive...see if all the bells and whistles are in working condition.

Hahahahaha....it's the safest way...lol. When the passion dies in the end at least you know the merchandise was good stuff,now packed away in storage. Once back on the shelves it's good for others to shop around for....hehehe

I do feel deeply, that communication is key. Sorry ladies and gents weekend away to the coast.


I love this marriage more now then how it started off. I have not been outside of it, hubby and I do still share a bed and he knows I'm on here yes I just had to wait for a topic that related to me, to really get something out so here I said it. Hubby loves to punt and he is happy why fight and get a divorce its hard when u got two beautiful kids.

Any other woman would cry and sob her heart out, not being rude this is really a way to hurt a woman when she finds out her husband punts not me I'm too hard hearted. But talking never hurt and sharing never pained. I love him. A damn lot. This really build my marriage to a better and awesome one. So ladies and gents be safe out there. Never let the romance die try hard to keep the women and men in your lives happy. I do.

Have a awesome week ahead.

I'm not on here to judge. If i would be in any of these ladies shoes I would also want to be respected. So ladies I'm not here to judge. I respect you all. No matter what race or age. Well my hubby loves vanilla and chocolate #wink

@MissS...like you said communication is key.thank you for sharing.....

As for talking.. certain topics i just avoid, i have given up, not worth the anger, the fight the damn hurt. I by no means imply that i am the angel, i am a stubborn spiteful bastard at myself. I suppose my "Ego"is always in the way.

We dont really fight, we co-exist or maybe its like a married couple in their 80's.

Maybe i should try and talk again [bury the ego for a second and be grownup again]