Isnt there even in normal dating scene some money spend?
Nothing in life is free.
Even problems comes with a price....[/QUOTE]

Good grief its not my day for getting people to understand what I am trying to say , what I mean is , certain guys think that you can have a free meal , while most of us know you can't

did I make that simple enough ?

I agree. Nothing is for free. My experience with all these dating sites, there is a form of money involved. The chicks will moan with empty fridges or asking for air time or whatever crap. That is why I stayed away from mistresses. Too much headache!!

It's not about the money. It's about the genuine and mutual desire, passionate, and lust etc. As good as the ladies are here, we always know that it's the money that's getting it and that the lady may not actually like my type at all.

Meeting someone for sex without any direct financial exchange means that they both want each other and it's a bit more fulfilling for the ego and emotionally than just the physical with a huge gaping hole in the heart after the hour is over.

Also the experience is more complete usually as you'll spend time doing things like quiet, probably secret dinners and talking and cuddling after etc without worrying about a clock.

Just another thing we need satisfied like sometimes we want massage and other times, FH, BJ, GFE, PSE but this one we can't buy directly because that in itself destroys what it is.

My 2c worth. Mistress and NSA quickly becomes a headache. They ladies here are fantastic, professional and you always, in my experience, know whereyou stand. you don't have to worry about the girl following you around.

Agree 100% Peter.

The other day a lady from a dating website asked me for ZAR 500K to invest in her pub in Parys. WTF. I have not even met her.

On 2018-08-03 16:46:14 JACKRIBET said:
The other day a lady from a dating website asked me for ZAR 500K to invest in her pub in Parys. WTF. I have not even met her.

Hahahaha! It's probably some guy posing as a lady.

On 2018-08-03 16:38:13 Need4Passion said:
It's not about the money. It's about the genuine and mutual desire, passionate, and lust etc. As good as the ladies are here, we always know that it's the money that's getting it and that the lady may not actually like my type at all.

Meeting someone for sex without any direct financial exchange means that they both want each other and it's a bit more fulfilling for the ego and emotionally than just the physical with a huge gaping hole in the heart after the hour is over.

Also the experience is more complete usually as you'll spend time doing things like quiet, probably secret dinners and talking and cuddling after etc without worrying about a clock.

Just another thing we need satisfied like sometimes we want massage and other times, FH, BJ, GFE, PSE but this one we can't buy directly because that in itself destroys what it is.

Perfectly summed up.

@lalaa please pm me

For me it's about cuddling, genuine intimacy and deep conversation. Things that have been lacking from my relationship for a very long time.