Somethings you could share, like a negligee or a t-shirt or even high heels (provided the lady borrowing your shit dont have toenail fungus)

But a second hand panty? Jeez....

On 2018-08-27 09:54:38 Ms Paige said:
I agree with Kimmy on the hygiene part but I'm blessed in this business so many times... and helping other girls with my outfits is my way of giving back... The purple world is all about give and take... I won't be blessed if Im not willing to do my part... but it's me...

There's nothing wrong with giving and helping my lady. I'm very giving and charitable, not even my parents taught me how to give, it is in my nature. But things like g-strings, panties and clip-on body suits worn without an underwear beneath are not up for discussion. Some girls I've worked with don't invest in buying, they prefer to be leeches when all they do is spend money on things that aren't profitable then expect some handouts. And in this case irresponsibility is one of them so it's a no from me on that one too.

You have a good heart Ms Paige.

On 2018-08-27 09:58:07 Mila said:
No no no. It's not hygienic! If you can afford lingerie why she can't? In Chinese store you can find lingerie for R 100!!!

Thank you Mila. That's 100% true, there's so many things one can buy at China Town these days. Very nice fancy lingerie or negligees. I even came across a little shop while I was searching for something else and just at a hidden corner inside the shop I came across some shelved black boxes of net dresses for just R60. Now here's the interesting part, the colour was perfect, the design was amazing and when I got home, it fit just perfectly as it stretches. One size fits all. I just had to find a g-string any colour and the net pattern decorates my bare boobs. I even took pictures with it on my other ad. Problem solved!

Can't understand this big hoo haa about lingerie.

No need to borrow from someone or to lend anything to someone.

Just go without it. Less for us men to undress.

On 2018-08-26 21:19:04 Kimmylee said:
@ MinimeV10.1......after all that fuming, you sir just happened to have successfully changed my frowns to loud laughs. That was hilarious....lmao.

Imagine sitting in the SSS meetings and exchanging underwears? Heeeeeeeee!

It is only Minime that can turn around a serious situation to a joke. I do not think this thread is funny but....lol!

@jjsoap....try imagining your colleague knocking on your door at the office and asking to borrow your jockey after you have just visited an SP then you'll understand what the big hoo haa is all about.

On 2018-08-26 20:14:52 Kimmylee said:
Maybe this thread belongs on the off the beaten track forum but I decided to rather discuss it here as yet it is another unhygienic highlight in this industry.

Today I was asked if I can borrow my old lingerie to one of the SPs where I work from. To my amazement I was truly appalled by it. Merely for these reasons:

No.1 For hygienic purposes
No.2 I work hard to make an effort to buy even the simplest of those items such as a panty and a bra. Lots of affordable underwear these days.
NO.3 If I get paid and the other girl does as well. Why can't she buy her own pair.

It would of been better if I hadn't worn that item as sometimes I would buy a lot of lingerie and end up not wearing some of them then I can decide to give it to someone out of choice. But to give lingerie that I've worn so many times whether I had taken pics with them or not, I find it disgusting. If I can't afford expensive lingerie and yet I'm working my butt off what would prevent me from buying affordable pieces that I can put together for a photoshoot.

It's like now I'll need to guard my pieces on the washing line incase 2 fingers decides to do away with them.

I'm so appalled.

I agree with you Kimmylee.

I can understand something like a lingerie piece, but a form of underwear is repulsive. I have purchased some very expensive lingerie and also found some interesting things in Chinese shops.

I use my lingerie, because I work from home, so I can wear it when greeting a client at the door. I have given away some outfits that I do not use, but to bluntly ask is just not the right thing to do!

Have a great day.

Lady Sade

Lady Sade thank you for your honesty. Nowadays those items are not that expensive anymore, there are some really great designs too.

These days more SPs do without lingerie to save money in these down financial times and no one seems to have a problem seeing more flesh that's not hidden on pics. And most I've seen have been great shoots too. Another problem solved.

For hygiene purposes it's a BIG NO especially if it's a lingerie which comes with underwear because you can borrow someone an incomplete set.

Now the gentlemen that knows "this lady" you work with have all sorts of negative thoughts on their mind because yes it is disturbing that another lady will ask to borrow ones lingerie as that might include panties.

This also sounds to me as "sabotaging a lady"

You should have put this in the ladies forum as we punters don't really want to know ladies dirty secrets.