On 2019-08-28 10:17:55 Ms Paige said:
[QUOTE;1979432;Meg
One was my passion and goals in life.
The lack of motivation

My 2018 was hell... I felt like that every day... then a doctor told me the only way I can get in shape and have a toned body is through operations... I have to much loose skin... because of my weight loss of 50kg... and I don't have that kind of money... anyway... I made other changes in life... I moved back to Randburg and slowly picked myself up again... Of couse I wanna look like a super model but to accept myself the way I am took a lot of motivation... surrounded by possitive people helped a lot... I cleaned out my life... my past... my closets... my enemy... fake friends... negetivity... and just by doing that I feel lighter and healthier... I'm a curvy lady and I made peace with it... [/QUOTE]

Well done on you. Yes sometimes we sit with all the answers but we to blind to notice.
Learn to love yourself before you can love someone else.
I've made peace with who I am and how I look...the one thing I can't make peace with...is knowing my health is in MY hands. And I'm the one responsible for f@%@$ it up.