Insomnia's dug its claws into me tonight.
Better to punt alone. A client told me how one of their group of punting buddies after a night of debauchery spilled the beans to his wife. And his wife told all the other wives. Fortunately the others all stuck to the same story. They needed to check out a stripper for a mate's upcoming bachelor party. Dunno if the wives bought the story.
Another one told of how he and a punting buddy had a fall out and he's doing everything in his power to keep the ex-buddy (they move in similar circles) and wife from each other, just in case.

Think Nadia just gave the reason why punting should be done solo. In my case, the "friend" that introduced me to ESA just told me about this site and gave me a few names of girls to check out. Don't even think that he knows what my username is and I would be surprised if he still reads the forum, and like someone else said only the girls that he sees knows he punts.

Always best not to share all with people. Some hobbies are best left in the dark. This is not a dinner table chat with anyone. No matter how cool one feels it is, this is a hobby that is still frowned upon by society.

I don't know how groups of guys do it going to venues on a regular basis. Surely not all of them are single? Some of my mates know I had paid for sexual encounters during my single years. Nowadays I keep it to myself.

I got a mate I introduced him to the world of punting. We went ones or twice punting together ( different lady's of course ) we just had a big jol at the time. But I told him I stopped doing it

I dont have any friends. One day some eleven years ago I was sitting infront of my pc masturbating and looking for porn and came across esa...

Started punting a year later. Still solo. I dont trust buddies as I they talk to they buddies and wives and God knows who...

I can't imagine what I would do if for example I was to pitch up at a venue, and I see someone I know. But I think it would be a case of mutually assured destruction if he were to rat me out. Unless the said person is a known fuck up who doesn't care, I don't think there is much of an issue. I remember the first time I went to a club. I was in standard 8 I think. Shit I miss those days of proper trance music. When tiesto was THE TIESTO, not this bubble gum crap that he spews out now, and the main floors were all trance. Ay I miss Dj Surges sets, but I digress. Nevertheless I saw a guy who I, and my family knew very well. He was probably 15 years my senior. This was back in the time when you were considered really fucked up in the slumo community if you went to a club. We just looked at each other and nodded in a way that seemed like we meant to say 'I'll shut up if you shut up'. And that was that

Solo for sure! All my friends know I punt. I call it "therapy". So if I am late for lunch I will say something like "therapy went a bit long today" and they all know what I mean. I am single so I have nothing to hide, and besides, punting is a pretty infrequent hobby for me.

I always ask callers where they got my number. If they say from a friend I decline the booking. I cannot afford to do business with a guy who cannot keep his business private. I don't need clients who don't know how to be discreet.

I remember many moons ago when it was safe to visit the Summit( giving away my age) after a rugby game we visited the venue for some fun. In walked my Moms brother and I shat in my pants. Obviously he was there for the same purposes, I ducked and dived until he was gone and it turned out to be quite a memorable night after all. Ahhh the good old days.