It's not always the guys that have stood up girls. Sometimes wgs use this tactic eliminate the competition. Getting their BF or clients that want favours from them to call a WG who's in competition with the WG. Make a false booking and don't pitch up.

Don't even talk about the double bookings and other reasons why a WG doesn't honour her booking.

This has been happening for a long time. We learn to deal with it. The perils of punting.

People must fucken realise that this is a highly volatile illegal industry. It's not a departmental store nor a corporate offices. So any thing can happen. You can't call help desk or customer services to complain about a no show. Just post it on the forum. And move on

"This has been happening for a long time. We learn to deal with it. The perils of punting.

People must fucken realise that this is a highly volatile illegal industry. It's not a departmental store nor a corporate offices. So any thing can happen. You can't call help desk or customer services to complain about a no show. Just post it on the forum. And move on"

So true buddy !!!

Luckily you only might go through it when you choose to punt once a month/week or whatever your punting budget allows. We get this almost daily! There are more no shows per day then guys that actually pitch up! Maybe that's why it's only some guys that get the best out of us, but the rest work us up to such anger, rage and irritation that it's a miracle some of us are able to crack a smile or be polite when the better clients do pitch! Guys are confused when I tell them I'm stressed or its not easy work! If anything, being stood up constantly makes us feel very unsexy and unappreciated, hence, it becomes only about the size of a clients wallet that we focus on because we get treated like this all the time, day in and day out!

Rocks wear down over time as the tide comes in and out. We get worn down over time too between the external and internal physicality of this industry and the sabotaging politics, we then deal with the emotionally and mentally crippling treatment from clients!

In normal day to day client meetings if you not gonna make it. Call and rescudle. The same for booking go. If you not gonna make it call. Common sense.

On 2017-05-05 20:12:38 Boris2931 said:
I think it's a power/ego thing. The thought process is "I'm powerful. I made a booking. I could have her, but I'm not going through with it." Or, the oke is just plain chickenshit.

Whatever the thought process, it's bad form and ungentlemanly.

Ladies - if you have a no-show, can't you just block the number (or note it down and then not take any further bookings from the owner of the number)?

Better still, let other ladies know about the number that was a no-show, so that they don't take bookings from that number. If you all stand together, punters that weren't brought up properly to have manners would soon realize the error of their ways and adjust their behaviour accordingly.

Just a thought.

Definitely a power thing!

On 2017-05-06 15:57:17 BOOBS53 said:
"This has been happening for a long time. We learn to deal with it. The perils of punting.

People must fucken realise that this is a highly volatile illegal industry. It's not a departmental store nor a corporate offices. So any thing can happen. You can't call help desk or customer services to complain about a no show. Just post it on the forum. And move on"

So true buddy !!!

Yes I agree BUT at the end of the day this is how we pay our bills. Do often a booking is 'confirmed' or the client is on their way, we get another call and turn down the booking or advise that we can only help them at a later time then the original guy doesn't pitch. We have then lost money because of a guy that messed us around.. Our time is our money so being messed around costs us money..

That's bad form. Manners cost nothing. Everybody has an ego... rather keep it to yourself.

I've also been in situations where I arrive at a SP's office and they are surprised I showed up. Even though Inhave always followed through. She then has to quickly make a mind-shaft to get "in the mood". On asking I soon heard of 2 no shows she had prior to me pitching.

Edit: or maybe she wished I didn't pitch

Almost every single time a guy doesn't pitch there'll be someone I turned down. It just always happens that way

Obviously blocking them is after the fact and the WG has already lost her income. Guys like this makes punting difficult and causes insecurity for all of us.
At least if a WG does not keep to her booking we can include it in her profile comments or review.
I honestly feel for the ladies as this happens all too often.

Adult website's tend to attract wankers and I mean that in a literal sense.

When I advertised on holistic websites only, every single person who made an appointment, pitched up. Not a single no show.

When I then decided to place an advert on another adult website (before advertising on Esa again), this is what happened:

1. A client who met me on the holistic website and who was a very good regular client who booked at least once a month for more than 3 years, called me on that advert, not realizing that it was me. He was utterly disrespectful on the phone, talked to me like I was a piece of shit and did not book, as I did not offer what he wanted. I was shocked, as I knew him as a very respectful gentleman when he used to book me monthly.
2. Everyday I would get clients making appointments and not pitching up - no apologies, no sms to cancel.

This proved to me that the mindset of some men change, when they see a woman on an adult website. It is as if they feel that if a woman advertises on an adult website, that she is undeserving of respect and common courtesy. And let's face it, that is what no shows boils down to - utter disrespect for women in the adult industry.

Anyway, when I started advertising on Esa again, the now show nonsense started again, until I changed my profile text, now the wankers give me a miss.