Can't agree more. Don't get in. Stay away. This is a drug. Can't leave it.

What is this SSS list everyone is talking about?

Oscar the one thing I must say about my experiences over the years is that thanks to the many wonderful SPs I have met that my confidence in meeting women etc is a lot better than when I was 20,

When I look back at all the missed opportunities with stunning girls at varsity etc all because I lacked confidence.

If I were you I would definitely punt if only to improve your self esteem.
Everyone including the hottest actors etc need to get a lift -.sometimes what better way than meeting and making friends in a comfortable friendly environment.

On 2017-10-09 21:54:44 Oscar 1000 said:
The problem is I suck at picking up women... sure I can pick up a 4/10 or 5/10 but Im not able to pick up an 8 or 9 (beauty is in the eye of the beholder so all ratings subject to my opinion of course). Also I'm a black male so find it extremely difficult to pick up white girls (my personal taste) with punting however, you can just pay a white women (not all, as a lot are ROAR, but some don't mind going to the dark side of the force lol) and they'll have sex with you, it's soooooo easy.

But you guys are right, Im too young and I can have sex for free... just need to work on my game.

Dude, start 4/10 or 5/10 and build your confidence from there. I also lacked confidence, it's part of life and what most of us go through. I had a friend that pulled all the hot girls and it sucked playing second fiddle, but it's life. I rarely if ever pulled 9/10 girls, but a good 6 or 7/10 girl once you've built your confidence will give you the time of your life. Rather focus on your studies and career then punting. Once you get a car (maybe you have one already) your own place, your marketability with the ladies also goes up. Stay away from punting. You should be working towards your goals and spending money at this age on punting will be severely detrimental.

Agree with Vegas! But it is your money and your life Oscar1000. You only have one of those (life)...so do what makes you happy Sir.

It is a myth that an 8/10 girl is better in bed than a 4/10. It is all in the mind.

Looks can change in a matter of seconds, personality is permanent. If you are that shallow that "looks" are your criteria for finding a partner then I am afraid you will never find happyness in you life.

The younger you are, the more impressionable you are, so yes, being too young can definitely affect you in a negative manner. I was 21 when I got into this, unintentionally I might add. It became my sexual reality for the next 10 years or so.
Not necessarily because I was too young, but because I was socially awkward and clueless, especially with women. I learnt through trial and error, with a fair amount of rejections etc.
Truth is, the brains of some of us are wired differently, making it hard to be socially adept, what comes natural to the majority of people, no matter how hard one tries. That's when paid for sex becomes the only sexual outlet for some of us. It sucks.
Luckily I've learnt (often the hard way) over the years, but I wish I'd known then what I know now.

Yes, I hear all of you... I'm actually studying at an esteemed university on the way to an engineering degree.
You guys are right, I'm too young to be punting, I need to learn how to properly seduce the opposite sex, and get comfortable around them, and punting is just a quick fix, but not a long term solution.

Thanks for your reply guys, it's appreciated.

I hope the self reviewers can now see how easy they are to spot. The way this guy writes tells us everything about him.

@Oscar, like Nadia said, you are still asleep to a lot of things and it shows in your text. It's not a bad thing, we all are in one way or another. But I'd say punt and get it out the way. By the sound of things, you are still going to have the same anxiety when making a booking. And you probably can't afford to get into too much punting anyway. Just do it once or twice.( it's possible, right guys?)

On 2017-10-10 11:12:34 Oscar 1000 said:
Yes, I hear all of you... I'm actually studying at an esteemed university on the way to an engineering degree.
You guys are right, I'm too young to be punting, I need to learn how to properly seduce the opposite sex, and get comfortable around them, and punting is just a quick fix, but not a long term solution.

Thanks for your reply guys, it's appreciated.

Have fun getting to know the young ladies ;-)