On 2018-10-03 19:22:19 semensquirter said:
My Dad was Welsh and my Mom was Hungarian.
That makes me"Mixed Race" also,but you can just refer to me as WELHUNG .

Welhung??? I hope this is what I think it is...

On 2018-10-03 19:22:19 semensquirter said:
My Dad was Welsh and my Mom was Hungarian.
That makes me"Mixed Race" also,but you can just refer to me as WELHUNG .

Haha welhung I swear I didn't see that one coming

I don't get what the fuss is about, isn't this a sort of "reverse ROAR?" or am I mistaken?

Hi Jewel
Do you have any Italian in you - if you don't would you like some Italian in you - sorry, this was just so tempting - this used to be one of our pick up lines when I was at University - I do not think it ever worked for me though

Very Interesting topic indeed... the title caught my attention, the content got me involved...

"Without Prejudice"

My response to Jewel's post, (in my personal capacity as a punter of the "human" race) stems from a slightly different angle, yet still related to this topic.

Firstly, I have immense respect for Jewel's non racist approach and views for her services. Sadly though, not all the ladies that advertise their services on this site share the same views as hers. On the opposite end of the spectrum, us punters, are also confronted with similar cases. I'd pose this question to my fellow punters here, "Have you ever been asked what race group you were classified in?" If I get a single answer to this question as "No", I'd probably not believe it, or just assume it's a rare case and consider that person to be lucky.
Sure, everyone has their own entitlement on specific preferences, but the race issue is quite sensitive in my opinion, especially when that question is posed at me, by a listed female advertiser. And the "Right of admission reserved" comment on some advertisers bios sickens me to death, cos it's pretty clear what that actually means. Perhaps ESA should consider introducing specific race group categories, or perhaps not. Cos in my opinion, it is us punters that contribute towards their income, in exchange for their services rendered. There's no white money, or black money, or mixed money, or Indian money...money is money, regardless of the race group from which it's obtained, so either offer your services to all race groups, or none at all, in my opinion!

This brings me to my next point, the more important one actually. Although I take this opportunity to pass credit to ESA for their reliable and credible efforts on featuring the most genuine, true profiles, (as opposed to their competitors), certain criteria are beyond their control I guess. I have on many occasions been mislead by some featured profiles, where the advertisers have made extra special efforts in convincing us punters, and probably themselves too, into believing they're people of a completely different race group. Why? They groom themselves with everything they can, with the objective of taking on a role of a different race group, even their respective choices on their stage name! This is sad guys, not for the misleading info they present on their profiles, but for actually partaking in this act! Be who you are, be human, not what you want others to believe you to be.

[QUOTE;1480791;Climax] On 2018-10-03 19:22:19 semensquirter said: My Dad was Welsh and my Mom was Hungarian.
That makes me"Mixed Race" also,but you can just refer to me as WELHUNG .



LMFAO @semensquirter.... Top one bro!

On 2018-10-03 15:10:52 Jewel said:
Thank you to those who have posted positive responses.
To the rest you really don't get it.
Lilly you haven't been around for too long....trust me over time all these kinds of questions will get to you too....then I'd like to hear you say....smile and wave.....I was not being sarcastic as you claim when I said I'm of the human race I was being truthful and factual.
I do not identify as "coloured" so I will not and cannot call myself that.
I am a human being who strives to live a good life and share my healing energy with those who appreciate what I have to share.
The amount of men who have called and messaged me, but especially those who call and ask sheepishly if I will see them because they have a dark skin tone, breaks my heart!
I always tell gents who call or message to ask as many questions as they need to to make an informed decision about where to spend their money...it is this specific question which has NOTHING to do with my ability to provide the professional service I provide that offends me. I am not a fh lady so I cannot understand what the significance of my skin colour has to do with my massage and edging abilities.
As I've already said this place can be toxic so can the people and quite honestly I'm drained and cannot answer each response as I would like to. And my studies are much more important now to waste more time or energy on this. Today is a new day.
We as a people who live in this country need to make a choice...carry on with this absurdity or see beyond the exterior.
When I spoke to a friend in Australia he couldn't believe how racist the people in this country are. He was rightly shocked.
I'm glad in the not too distant future I too will look back on the people here and say thank goodness I'm not there anymore.
Blessings

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Hey Gorgeous girl
Love ur pics..They smoking .. About your post..
I can feel your frustration... Its that time again...:( ....Window Shoppers
I too am damn frustrated...

But that colour thing..is so so damn f' ing frustrating.. Cos we have met and have had great conversation in regards to this business.. I find we don't exactly fit in the whole " coloured girl " AKA "ghetto" box f'd up generalisation ...Hate it but in all honesty .We are of mixed race ...but
We smarter than that. If colour fits an idiots fantasy criteria...its not about massage.. We about sensual massage and we do a good job cos we got flavour and respect for our craft and we stay true to it...and if these idiots can't understand or recognise that..
Direct them to the complaints section...
We sieve a lot in this business..dealing with the public is part of the job & You do a great job and a + 35 means there's so many who value & appreciate that ..So chin up & keep ur eyes on the prize baby.

Xxxx
Dani

On 2018-10-04 06:19:17 Daniella said:


Hey Gorgeous girl
Love ur pics..They smoking .. About your post..
I can feel your frustration... Its that time again...:( ....Window Shoppers
I too am damn frustrated...

But that colour thing..is so so damn f' ing frustrating.. Cos we have met and have had great conversation in regards to this business.. I find we don't exactly fit in the whole " coloured girl " AKA "ghetto" box f'd up generalisation ...Hate it but in all honesty .We are of mixed race ...but
We smarter than that. If colour fits an idiots fantasy criteria...its not about massage.. We about sensual massage and we do a good job cos we got flavour and respect for our craft and we stay true to it...and if these idiots can't understand or recognise that..
Direct them to the complaints section...
We sieve a lot in this business..dealing with the public is part of the job & You do a great job and a + 35 means there's so many who value & appreciate that ..So chin up & keep ur eyes on the prize baby.

Xxxx
Dani

I guess this statement makes me a "Ghetto box" Colored LMFAO

Another under-the-radar guy here. I get that punters often go out with a mission. One day a punter will want someone with big boobs and will only call up SPs with big boobs. Another day he'll have a craving for booty, or OWO or a great massage. Equally, a punter may be in the mood for a specific look in a woman. A punter's mood changes and it's a reality of the industry.

That said, without kicking up the usual racial fracas, I do get how nonsensical it feels to be judged on something as arbitrary as race. We are all individuals and would be surprised to find out how similar we are in our views, personalities, dreams and wishes. If we had the capacity to judge people as individuals and to not paint each other with our own misconceptions, these racial issues would be a tiny fraction of what they are today.

But we are fearful and risk-averse. It's in our nature to placate risks by trying to group things together. Large hairy things with big teeth, long slithery things, tiny buzzing things are all met with fear but we hardly notice how this one human trait affects how we view other human beings as well.

Looking at you as an individual I see an angel, you're a stunner and a really fine-ass example of a human being. Some people may not be ready to judge people for who they actually are but don't let that get to you. That's an issue for them to work through if they ever do. You have no control over their views and so cannot expect to bother yourself with something you are not, as a person, responsible for.