WOW, what a great response in such a short period of time!

Well, my 'favourite' blunder has to be when a man sucks my clit like it's a baby's teet! OUCH boys!!! Like Arz said, be gentle! A little sucking is great, but that small little surfice area is extremely sensitive and when you suck to hard, it feels like your piercing every nerve in our back with an 18 gauge needle! To much sucking also leads to this! You won't make a woman cum by constantly sucking it! It might seem like the easiest way to do it, but trust me, it's not the nicest for us!

Ooooh, and lets not forget the 'sanding trick'! Some guys think it's great to rub their five o clock shadow over our clit! Imagine a girl taking the most coarse sandpaper she can find and slowly, but firmly rubbing it over your knob! Yes, I thought that would be your reaction guys, ha ha! Keep facial hair/stubble well away from the pussy! Lips and tongue are all that is welcome between the thighs, unless we squeeze your head between them when having an orgasm, lol!

Don't really have much time for more at the moment!

Regards, V

PunterS..... I envy the time you seem to have available that allows you so actively and eloquently to participate in this forum. I have had a moment this afternoon to check up on the goings on here over the past few days, and am absolutely fascinated by this thread and your and the others excellent postings.....! And I wholeheartedly endorse all your comments to the fullest …

And Yes, Vee..... …Very well done for your innovation..... getting this forum out of it’s dolldrums....!! Excellent !! Wow it is good to have you back, babe !!

Ari, your additional comments and insight are enticing and enthralling, girl.... !!! ;-) ;-) Yummy.....

To add a few additional quick thoughts to those already so detailedly expressed by PST in this and his other ‘’boys’’ thread....

Yes, the mutual fun and pleasure thing to me is what it’s all about.... be it in a one-on-one encounter, pleasuring your partner, or in a 3 some, 4-some or more-some, where there is multiple pleasuring, all round giving and receiving..... ;)

J-Man..... this is recreational sex..... I do not need to say this as it is obvious.... We are humans..... we are here to enjoy each other’s bodies and minds..... there is no exclusivity in human sensuality and sexuality .... Hey man !!.... none of us would be around if there was.... ;)

I am definitely not into keeping any techniques, etc a secret from other punters. After all you are paying a girl for the service she provides and my money hopefully is as good as yours.... why not get the best out of it, enhance it, make it enjoyable for both of you ?.... In fact I applaud PST’s openness and confidence in being able so openly to share his techniques on this forum…. I have to say my fear at such expression would be that I may be opening myself up to ridicule by others.... Credit to you PST !!! The old adage ’’you can’t teach an old dog new tricks’’ thankfully does not apply to us humans .... I hopefully will always remain willing and able to learn from others. Thanks PST, Ari, Vee and the others....

Veronica Monet in her book ‘’Sex Secrets of Escorts: What Men Really Want’’ …. also briefly mentioned by Vee and a few of the other girls in a thread earlier this year…. has a chapter on how an escort could as an enhancement to her usual services…. provide lessons to her clients and point out to them specifically, the particular portions of her vaginal anatomy and the differing sensations provided by the various elements making up that most lovely and delicate piece of humankind..... and thereby in the process teaching the client the intricacies and nuances associated with the differing techniques applied gently or roughly as the case may be..... ;)

Having said all that, I should add.... and it has been said on numerous occasions previously.... It is not only the purely physical thing that provides the pleasure. Essential to this whole mutual enjoyment is the right chemistry between the participants .... I do not believe it is possible to pleasure one another to the ultimate, if a certain level of the right chemistry and attitude is not present to start with… or has not been developed before you start....

A positive attitude is something that goes hand in hand with the chemistry .... Your comments PST about the ‘meet and greet’ thing are relevant..... a positive helpful friendly attitude at such occasions is the main ingredient to encouraging interactions.... at the expense, sometimes, of one’s prejudices..... which unfortunately although try as we may, still do surface on occasion....

And yes !!!.....Being a somewhat shy individual myself…. I laughingly support your sentiments… *he says embarrassedly* about the ability to interpreting clues given out by women correctly.... I have had this problem all my life.... to my own experiential detriment.... ‘’Damn !! if only.... Why are you such a fool... oke... do you know what you just missed out on, poephol....!!! Damn ! Damn ! Damn....!!!’’ ..... ;);)

The subtle flirting glance, the hand touching yours, the playful punch, the brush of the breast or hips, a hand sliding round your waist as someone passes on the dance floor…. etc, etc.... Damn, just no confidence....!!!! ;);)

Anyway great thread again Vee baby.... !!!

Arizona wrote: ''Johan,

It took me years to learn 'what men want' but I want girls to learn from my experiences and not make the same mistakes I did. Thats when u know u left a 'footprint' whats the point if u dont share? ''

Please don't misunderstand me, I really do think that it is great that the ladies here wish to share what it is that turns them on and gives them pleasure, and wanting to teach men a few things in the process. Heaven knows, a lot of okes need to learn from the all the wonderfull ladies here, including me. Fuck, at the age of 26 I've learnt so much within 2hrs visiting a 46yr old lady called Maxine, who worked from St.Michelle apartment in Morningside... Not to mention what I've learned from legends such as Robin, Blue, Liz, Elme just to name a few. I'm a lifelong scholar of pussy, and will be the Guru of Pussy... 1 day!! :-)

But as for sharing, actually I've shared a hellava lot over the years, besides directly on the forum. The amount of emails I've received in my hayday attests to the number of okes I steered in the right direction, or/and given advice to. Even requests for pornos saw me burning spindles of DVDs and sending it off to porno loving punters as far as Cape Town. So I really don't have a problem sharing.

As to my personal stance on me sharing sex and bedroom performance secrets… well……. It's like that KFC advert, ''There are somethings you should share and somethings you shouldn't''

Furthermore my view is that not all men are equal. Men are competitive by nature, the best men win and natural selection takes care of the rest. There is no way an oke driving a silly Tata could be equal to an oke who drives an alpine white BMW M3 coupe… lovingly tap the accelerator and it kicks you in the balls, fucking beautiful. But I digress…

It is up to every oke not to behave like losers or whiney little bitches feeling sorry for themselves. Women love men who know what they want and men who strive to be successful in what ever they do, even when they fail, their ability to pick themselves up and learn and keep pushing forward and to constantly better themselves is what separates the men from the boys.

Same competitive rules that apply in everyday male life applies to sex and a man's role in satisfying women.

Clitsntits wrote: ''J-Man..... this is recreational sex..... I do not need to say this as it is obvious.... We are humans..... we are here to enjoy each other’s bodies and minds..... there is no exclusivity in human sensuality and sexuality .... Hey man !!.... none of us would be around if there was.... ;)''

Man, I think you also misunderstood me. But you are quite right that this is recreational sex, or just straight forward fucking if you will. Not sure about your sentence, but I'm on earth to only enjoy the bodies of females. And you are right there is no exclusivity in human sensuality and sexuality. BUT.... there are those who'se got game and okes who don't. I mean, recreational sex include 1-night stands, and when I get into a club and start hunting, I'll be damned if I should give another oke tips on how to sweet talk and pick up a hot babe, because I want to be the oke who leaves the club with her.

Anyway, to end off, like I always say, different strokes for different folks. This was just my take on things.

Great stuff Veronica & Arizona, keep'em coming!!!...

I said it from my very first post, This Punter S Thompson guy, had a new fan. He writes like God or something. Always knows what to say.

Good work, maybe consider writing a book, if you haven't already.

Thanks for the compliment...

But as Douglas Adams once wrote... ''He's just this guy, you know?''

Well, did I really enjoy reading this thread today. I think I should include this into my daily 'must read' routine as 'WG Sexual Guidance 101' by PsT, Ariz & Friends. On my next trip to Jhb, I would love to vissit Ariz for the practical lesson.

I just have 1 question
WHATS A CLITORIS
and where can i buy one?

LMAO, come see me Big Mac, Iv'e got one for you! Unfortunately, girls are only supplied with 1 each, so I would suggest going to all the ladies you like on the site if you want a collection!

Regards, V

Mac whatever you do when you find that clitoris thing or other, don't SLAP it!!!

Greetings

I realise that Mac's question is a jest... but just for your information...

Men have a clitoris as well, it is located at the top of your penis. The amount of nerve endings on the head of a penis is roughly the same as the number of nerve endings on a woman's clitoris (that is why they are so sensative).

Here endith the lesson...