“the number one lesson?” That I was nowhere near as open minded or kinky as I thought.

Leading to…

One person’s kink is another person’s vanilla.

The opportunity to try something new is phenomenally liberating.

Yup it’s all about the bucks and some punters look down on this but we are in a supply and demand business. However, despite paying, just like the bar, the restaurant, the shop you can get supreme levels of service if you include a smile, good manners and common decency.

That the ladies one deals with in this business are by and large some of the most self-assured, liberated, humorous and fun people you could wish to meet.

That despite a deeply profound love for my wife I am able to enjoy the company of another lady without either being relegated to “second best.”

That I have met awesome ladies, one of whom I count as my best girlfriend in more than one area ever.

I wrote many poems, lyrics and quoted many love songs to her and mean every single word thereof.

Trixie: Respect girl .... Very well said Xxxx

Thank you @jackd14u :-*

Well said Trixie

Number one lesson I learned is that men's egos are very fragile. If you voice an opinion they do not agree with they get spiteful and very vindictive. Dare to turn down a booking or an invitation for them to know you personally and they will make sure to harass you endlessly. Even going to the extreme of creating new profiles in order to post fake reviews, coping details from other punters reviews. Commenting about me on other ladies profiles. Pathetic and I am not surprised by such behaviour.

The second thing I learned about myself is that I do not suffer fools easily. I know exactly what type of men I want as clients and am not afraid to turn down those that I am not keen to have in my space.

Thirdly I am happiest when I am with men who want to submit and enjoy the kinky stuff with me.

Treat me good and I'll treat u better. Respect is earned not jus given. It's a dog it dog world out there. Always watch it back no matter what

Thank you savanna, hope you are having a fantastic week..xx

That it can bankrupt you if you think with the little head down there.

I have learnt that every single visitor has their own unique needs. And if you can make the effort to look after your client (no matter how difficult some clients can be), they will look after you! ...no strings attached ...