On 2016-01-17 21:25:52 mrroper said:
Was certainly not looking at it from that angle...but it does make one think...its certainly not easy...
Lets take a scenario ..a husband and wife are let off work...the lady makes the hard decision to join the profession and she is earning in 24hrs...what on earth is the man to do...

Anything at all possible to support his family, even it means demeaning himself in his eyes and working as a laborer or shelf stocker at checkers...
One thing that really gets me wound up is when you hear of the unemployed husbands that some of the ladies have. Hearing about how they aren't working or even seriously trying while she is required to go out with complete strangers completely does my head in.
If you as a man are in a position where your wife or girlfriend has to do this type of work to support the family then it is your responsibility to do as much as possible to help her in that goal...
If it means being a car guard then so be it...
If it means doing all the cooking, cleaning, washing and baby arse wiping then get to it sunshine... make that bottom shine !!!
It is probably the only thing I am really chauvinist about...

In my life I went from mid-management in a logistics company to unemployed due to retrenchment, after 2 months of looking I chose to accept a job driving a forklift to load cargo trucks on a permanent night shift for minimum wage.... simply because it meant I had a job, I had a starting point, after 5 years of seriously hard graft I was management again and able to take an international job... there is no excuse for sitting at home in my books...

Bugger me, I am long winded tonight... sorry... don't mean to lecture.

Well said Nadia and deamonza. Yes some clients are fun and we do enjoy them but it is not so all of the time. Imagine having to force yourself to have sex with someone you detest. This happens. Our life is a risk especially when we have children. Emotionally and physically. How do you deal with clients that try to forcethings. It's scary but we learn. We have no choice but to or we must leave this business and struggle without and then what ?.

Nadia, Many thanks for that brief enlightment, a millisecond peep into YOUR ( and for that; the world of the WG).
Excuse my naivety,and also I didnt study the whole thread.
I just wonder what the average reader of this site know NO KNOW about the industry...or understand, or want to hear,or understand.
Maybe you should consider relating more , by incidents/snippets and invite your sisters to also partake...or maybe to start a whole new thread..., someting like, "Life of a WG, please feel free to state your experiences good or bad"
Won't it be a good thing to: in an objective manner as possible inform clients/potential clients/government officials(I am sure they monitor!),pastors(some..(many do naughty stuff I suspect) others want to help,nosey wives, whoever...this industry WILL be legalised in time..The sooner you WG's " open up" more( you know what I mean..I hope..) the better.
I dont know how many wg's get beaten up, had to "serve" drunks,stinker, abusers lunatics..got threatened..etc
My question is,won't it lighten your burden,educate people..help to protect you...I saw many posts where "punters" wanted to even beat up abusers...
SO if wg's state their run of the mill complaints,won't ALL be in a better position to comprehend better, WHY your( noy YOU) but the wg's service maybe not what it should've been ( no expected to be),maybe mechanical,or she quiet,or distant...
Maybe make the life of the wg here better...

and maybe force the abusers,or stupid selfish punters that a few bucks can buy them the world....to step in line?
Just asking...

Urgent rectification...."Enlightenment" to be replaced for "enlightment" for which error(there maybe more. ) I humbly apologise......if I may then add the linguistic correction to my post above...lest my transgression affect that most respected learned friend of our's erection(s), whose knowledge of the hated suppressor's language, I highly respect..

Trompies, I'd do my business irreparable harm if I were to post things like I did on this thread on a regular basis. This forum is hardly interested in things like that. I do post little snippets about my experiences should the opportunity arise and I remember a particular incident that happened to me. Please bear in mind that what I posted does not happen everyday, all day to me, but believe me it does happen all the time to some ladies.
When a WG does mention bad experiences we have members posting that we knew what we were getting ourselves into and if we don't like it we should get out of the game...do they ever dare say that to the cashier at checkers who earns R500/week? She's certainly not happy in her job. We get told we know we're putting ourselves in harm's way.
Not all of what I posted yesterday is personal experience. The last bit about a husband gaining custody of his kids ....that 's a friend who advertises on this site. The only thing is he KNEW she was a WG. And all was fine till she took him to court for child support. As I said I've learnt to work my way around what I don't like. If I didn't like how a booking went down I simply save the number with a short note and I won't see that person again. I have the luxury of being able to choose my clientele. Ladies who are not working independently don't have
that luxury. I have learnt to make things work for me. So while the trade is certainly not easy, it is easier for me than for many WGs.
I certainly have an easier experience of sexwork than many others. So far be it for me to post about the bad things that I experience once or twice/quarter.

On 2016-01-13 11:11:14 le roux said:
Still spurting money like the Trevi Fountain for the wife’s knee (a long story)

Domestic broke a toe over the festive period causing more hospital bills (I never really appreciated how expensive and debilitating toes can be. Knees I know about but toes!)

Had to demolish and built a new garage due to subsidence

Work is a nightmare at this time of year so not much money flowing in to Le Roux Holdings

Despite having a borehole our water charges encourage the belief that it is actually filled from our taps.

In laws before Christmas now my parents are on their way.

How can dogs eat so much? I may have to switch to fillet as a cheaper option. (and don’t talk about vets fees, I seem to be paying a knee every few months!)

Can I get anyone, ANYONE to switch things off when not in use?

And what in the name of [insert relevant deity] is the story with our debit orders? Woolies, cards, insurance, security, rates, post boxes (yes multiple! Why? I have no idea) Phone bills, PHONE BILLS, I didn't realise that there were that many hours in a month. And so it goes on ad infinitum ad nausium.

Punting? HA! Not this month. Not unless someone takes a card on budget or offers easy payment terms.

I’ll get to dealing with a weakening Rand and the recession when I can but for now I’m off for a bowl of Maggi noodles and may even treat myself to a glass of water.

@Le roux, I'm with you. And let's brace ourselves for the increase in taxes, rise in interest rates, and electricity tariff increase that are about to hit us. Add to that the effect of the drought on food prices. Oh and the fall of the rand against major currencies, which means everything is expensive because we don't bloody make anything in this country. 2016 is going to be one hell of a tough year!

@trompie that won't work. Punters read what they want to hear. A lot of punters dont want to know the reality of this business. We are told that we are selling a fantasy. That's why a lot of WGs advertise GFE, that's what clients want, but faking being someone's girlfriend is not easy.

If you check my reviews, a guy said I "was complaining about having a busy day", this sounds like I was whining while he was on top of me. Actually I mentioned this when he called. He insisted anyway and I agreed, against my better judgement. I was so tired I passed out then I had to make up a story about my phone being on silent.
I tried my best to give him good service but my body can't fake things. I asked him to be gentle, he said girls like me should be able to handle any size dick, anytime. In other words, my cervix can go to hell because he paid.

But I told him earlier that I had a busy day and I couldn't see him. He said pleeease, pleeeease I've been wanting to see you for so long. Now that I'm not giving him what he thought he'd get he raised his voice at 1am on a Monday morning. I have sleeping neighbours and he thinks its ok to yell about cock sizes.
Anyone who knows me will tell you I dont back down easily but that day, I kept quiet, I wanted him to just leave so I could get some sleep! Next day BOOM! Review... I read it, rolled my eyes and got on with my life.

That guy who said this is easy was just echoing what majority punters think. A thread won't change that because client have this idea about us. That common courtesy does not apply to us.

Clients rock up at your place at 11pm, they follow someone entering the complex, next thing you have an unexpected knock on your door. You ignore it, he starts yelling, Naledi!! And thats not my name. I could be out, my sister could be visiting but Noooo. I must be ready. Anytime is tea time.

And someone reading this would say, move to a complex with better security, guess what, clients dont like signing in and waiting, while security calls.

We can go on and on, the thread will disappear and clients won't change their behaviour anyway. So we, WGs, screen calls, make friends with the Nigerian in the complex and a constable at a local police station, because some clients dont like being turned down, they say stuff like I'll call when you've forgotten, I'll fvck you and tell you its me afterwards

Distressing...
So WG's DO suffer abuse..seemingly daily.
WG's accept the abuse,in silence.
In other words WG's are compelled to forego some of the most basic human rights,rights which are guaranteed by "the most progressive constitution in the world".
Scumbags make the rules and RULE the industry..I dont even refer to pimps and the like,I am referring to some of the clients misbehaving themselves.
Something is very wrong here..
WG's dont commit a crime..(forget for the moment that a majority in parlaiment, which seriously lacks basic legal knowledge,lacks understanding of judgements of the Constitutional Court, lacks common sense and competency passed some legislation contrary to the constitution,concerning the WG industry).
On that topic one day if I get time I may comment further.
WG's are totally entitled to do what they do,yet are forced to work discrete,even underground..
WHY must they shut up if abused,harassed,treated with contempt?
No reason, NONE...
WG's open their doors for all and sundry,let people into their homes.
I see many scumbags think that they are ENTITLED to be accomodated because of WG's ads..
WRONG..she always has the right to refuse the scumbags not behaving access..to her home,room and especially the sanctity of her body..
Naledi,of cause you got specialist knowledge and me none,and I see you as a credible person.You obviously know what you talking about,but I got a question;Are you not generalising? Are there not enough civil clients (so callled punters) that are in support of treating WG's with basic respect and decency..? Yes decency..especially whilst THEY are according to the legislation as it stands committing a crime..
Are they not projecting THEIR guilt on WG's?
Should the decent component not become the rule?
It won't always be necessary to name the culprits, what I think of is that WG's as I say give a snippet, of abuse they are subjected to..and in some instaces how they dealt with it.
I presume many will appreciate some enlightenment,some insight.
Clients may then begin to appreciate the effect of even maybe inadvertently degrading WG's. Sneaking up to someone elses home uninvited,unannounced?..What do such people think?
By the way Naledi,I enjoyed the effective and piss funny warning you sounded, no more sneakers there..You see its already an example of protecting yourself by speaking up...
Please keep on talking..

Nadia, ditto to you.Why should you shut up?
Scumbags can get hurt as well,they should be repelled should they not?
They treat ladies bad,those selfsame ladies may treat all punters afterwards the same,a vicious circle.
The "other halve" of this site consist of the WG's..no I am wrong you the first halve...why not use what was created for you..?

Are you not generalising? Are there not enough civil clients (so callled punters) that are in support of treating WG's with basic respect and decency..?

There are. Plenty... And those are the kind who will say what you just said. "WGs have rights too" The culprits could careless. Hence I say, starting a "complaint thread" won't help because its the gentlemen who will read and some will take a lesson or 2 even though they always treat us with respect.
The entitled ones will continue with the name calling and threats so we do what we have to do in real time because cyber whining won't help