..." Lets Discuss in the room"....NO...we discuss it now or you won't be seeing me...plenty of other great girls out there to choose.


If you cant discuss on the phone cos your madam is sitting next to you, send me a message with the rates.

I will not take a chance, pants down and baby-batter in the brain. will end up paying the price of 2 quality ladies.

If you think a phone number will make you safe, or safer, you are ignorant.

I'd be much more cautious if some shows little regard for privacy.

"Let's discuss in the room"
"We can discuss when you get here"
"I can only disclose during the booking"

Fastest way to lose a booking with me.

Being in the punting industry for more than 20 years, I can honestly say I never do discuss in the room stuff. For a simple reason..

I only take the exact amount of money with me to pay for the services discussed beforehand. So, no negotiations can happen when I get there, because I just won't have more money on me. Plain and simple.

And yes, I'm old school - I pay with cash

This man will definitely not discuss any extras in the room. I prefer the picture to be painted before I book.

AMANDLA AND SO WE STAND TOGETHER

When a lady is contacted with all due respect give us the full fees we don't want to discuss anything behind closed doors. We want to bring the discussed fees wif end of story.

"Let's discuss in the room" is used for the following reasons:

1) The lady doesn't want to advertise that she does FH the following reasons,

- she is cagey and don't want it to be widely known that she does FH or she doesn't want to commit upfront before she sees you.

*comment: nobody is spying on you and you can always say the price is x but you'll only confirm once the booking starts.

- she does FH on the sly because the venue doesn't allow it and worried you will eat.

*comment: find another venue to work from or stick to the rules.

2) the venue doesn't want to attract heat from the law for providing sexual services or admit that all they are is a fancy brothel with plinths.

*newsflash - sensual massage is treated exactly the same as FH under law in SA, both are illegal, so this reasoning doesn't make sense.

3) they only want to tell you when you've lost your rational decision making skills.

*comment: this is the most common reason for the secrecy today. It's the ultimate upsell. However, you will also lose out on more clients who are not prepared to confirm bookings clouded in secrecy so you lose as much if not more than you think you make with your extortion methods.

In a nutshell, your reasoning behind this practice doesn't make sense, so please stop this practice. Come up with reasonable upfront pricing and see feet come through the door.

Any lady or venue that steps forward on this thread and owns up that they've been doing this for particular reasons but due to the feedback, they are now prepared to change that method of operating, will wholeheartedly be commended by all and supported I think we can agree. It is great business to onboard what your clients and potential clients are telling you and to be honest transparent about it.

What interests me, is, those punters that have booked after getting this response, either only went ahead with a massage, or, did they only review the "Massage" service, as instructed by the girls to do so?

My fees are all inclusive.. you pay for my time and all the services I can squeeze into that time..