On 2017-07-08 09:25:45 ramrom said:
An observation, more people are attacking Veronica on this thread than Shakira, the point of the post was not to create a platform to bash them, i actually asked that someone step up and mediate before shit gets serious, and anybody who has been around long enough knows that these two have the firepower in them to create a shitstorm of note. To the point where the storm will be about something totally unrelated and either punters reputations, or theirs will be in tatters.

You are requesting the esa ombudsman to step in again?

Shakira has had issue with everything in every thread that I've commented on for almost a month now. Always insinuating im trying to speak for all the girls and to pop a damn cork and drink myself into happiness and have a few orgasms as if I'm not busy.

I do have a few glasses of wine with Joy and the other ladies, but as a recovering addict im well aware that alcohol is not the next best thing to it! Contrary to popular belief, I'm not always angry and I often speak my mind out of empathy but also in observation of things I see and might upset or sadden me.

Just as she has a right to pop a bottle of champagne everytime she feels crap, so too do I have a right to question things and express myself.

But there is no such thing as everyone agreeing or liking everything that another person says or thinks. Someone will always find fault. Even ladies that randomly say something seemingly harmless have been attacked for it. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. I wont attack anyone religiously, racially and I rarely, if ever, resort to name calling.

No, my views are not sugar coated and rosy like all of you prefer to believe, but that is because my experiences for the padt few years have been anything but and it's a whole other world compared to what you are lead to believe and like to believe in terms of girls actually liking each other. Most used me and kicked me while i was down, punter and girl alike. Very few actually extended a hand or actially wanted to help me in any way. I have been called jaded and cruel, even a bully, but you become a product of your experiences in life and if any ladies wish to survive this industry with any semblance of dignity, they will have to stand tall and grow steel balls regardless. If they are hurt or angered by anything i say, maybe its time they ask themselves why, because the truth always hurts, especially if it pertains to them. There is very little that hurts me anymore because i know my faults, i know my guilt and i know what does and doesnt pertain to my heart and character.

Banning me will not hurt, been there, done that under much more hurtful circumstances. I was not banned because i spoke my mind but due to things being misread and taken to far personally between myself and Eddie, I pushed to a point of no return and lashed out. But that is history and We found peace with each other.

I say that Eddie and ESA keep me in line and if I am out of hand or being unreasonable or unfair, the powers that be always step in and warn me, in which case, i apologize to them and move on.

I await response from Eddie or ESA admin with regards to what im sure are numerous complaints against me by the usual suspects and I accept my fate either way. I respect that esa have a business to run and if im hindering or disrupting it, I shall be banned and I will turn my back and walk away. I will apologize to Eddie for putting him in that position, but I will never apologize for who I am and will always take pride in what I've been through and continue to pull through each day.

On 2017-07-08 10:10:08 ramrom said:
On 2017-07-08 10:01:56


Climax, two ladies insulting each other on a thread unrelated to them is hardly having opinions. I think you need to reassess your position before commenting again.

Isn't that how they view/see each other?

Isn't that their "opinion" of each other...

Why is this made to be a train smash?

Let esa deal with them...

And what position is that Mr?

Lady you are not helping with your comments. I didn't asked for you to be banned READ for goodness sake. There was no mention of your opinions or you as a person.

The bottom line is that you and Shakira have beef with each other for whatever reason. It is spilling over to threads, stop this feeling sorry for myself mumbo jumbo and trying to detract on the main issue, the issue between the both of you is so bad that you attack each other at any given chance even when it makes no sense for you to be arguing with each other.

Get over your self, I even indicated that people were attacking you and not Shakira which wasn't fair considering you both are going for it hell for leather. You guys have beef with each other sort it out if ESA feels the need to step in they will.

On 2017-07-08 10:24:29 ramrom said:
Lady you are not helping with your comments. I didn't asked for you to be banned READ for goodness sake. There was no mention of your opinions or you as a person.

The bottom line is that you and Shakira have beef with each other for whatever reason. It is spilling over to threads, stop this feeling sorry for myself mumbo jumbo and trying to detract on the main issue, the issue between the both of you is so bad that you attack each other at any given chance even when it makes no sense for you to be arguing with each other.

Get over your self, I even indicated that people were attacking you and not Shakira which wasn't fair considering you both are going for it hell for leather. You guys have beef with each other sort it out if ESA feels the need to step in they will.

Not feeling sorry for myself and others are calling for us to be banned. Never had any beef with Shakira either until yesterday. Even from previous weeks where shes been chewing at my panties at every turn.

Lets sing ..Who let the Cats out ... Who who ... LOL

Of course we value multi talented people on this site !!....after all where would one ever find a single person with the skills of a phycologist, sex therapist, rocket scientist, shop steward, politician and editor....all in one! Damn I love this site!

On 2017-07-08 01:42:21 Bash23 said:
If you feel Veronica Franco needs to be banned then maybe miss Paige needs to be banned before her, why exclude certain trouble makers whose behaviour is even worse?

Nice try Ashleigh.

On 2017-07-08 01:42:21 Bash23 said:
If you feel Veronica Franco needs to be banned then maybe miss Paige needs to be banned before her, why exclude certain trouble makers whose behaviour is even worse?

For the last time I didn't ask for her to be banned!!! If you have an issue with Paige start your own thread or take it up with ESA.

Its obvious the one is pissesed on bubbly 24/7 and the other one is only speaking her mind. Leave her alone FFS.

Will-set-u-free you assuming things...hey
You joined yesterday and already you talking smack...get your facts right boet