For me flipping through the listings of ESA, ST etc is very similar to flipping through the listings on something like wantitall or takealot. Features, price, value and so on and so on.
If that makes me an addict then I am addicted to e-commerce

I feel sorry 4 u dude whoever u are. Cuz u are sucked in the bad side of this business. When u stop looking 4 the thinnest the prettiest faces and start to look at quality and class you will find that you wont bump into anyone and believe you me some of us actually have real smiles !

And so by the way we are WORKING GIRLS, ESCORTS, LADIES Of the night ! Not whores have respect

Pardon me for a second. My command of the english language isn't up to scratch.

What's the difference between a WHORE & LADIES of the night or ESCOURTS as you eloquently stated.

Just courious:)

Arz, the way you have put it, is how I have heard it from many other ladies.
Double lives, telling family and friends that they do something else, being stared at in shopping centres by guys with their wives while they with family or friends, not wanting photos taken and being on Face Book and so the list goes on.
As Arz says, many have no other choice to make a living. Yes we know what these ladies do, so as I always say,show respect and don't judge.

I agree with most of the comments made on this thread. One thing that we all need to do is to repect one another and as Rugby stipulated 'don't judge'. Like any industry there is a supply and demand. The working girls (not whores) supply and we, the punters (what an awfull name) demand perfection or at least quality for the hour. The guilt factor is always an issue, for both parties. At the end of the day it is a financial transaction between the buyer and the seller.

Spoken like a true economist :-)

I Once joined SAA {Sex Addicts Anonymous} as it was getting out of hand. But find It too hard to stay away'
The ladies are so sexy and my main man just takes control.
If any punters would like to meet for a drink and chat in JHB l would be keen

When I started out as a punter , my thoughts were pretty similar to the original post , albeit only after the deed . After a lot of self introspection and a lot of literature on the same subject , I have started to treat it as a expensive hobby . Nowadays , a lot of researching goes in to a punt . Where a site like ESA comes into the picture . Considering the rich amount of knowledge you have for your perusal it now has reduced the punts which makes me feel like shit . I am still impulsive where I go for a punt just like that . And the success rate is not so assured like the well researched ones . I put them to the law of averages . So far it has been working quite spectacularly and I found gems worth "treasuring" .

IMHO the idea is to find a set of ladies who are worth your salt and sticking to them . Occasionally go for a new one if you are really looking for change , but stick to your regulars . Also if you are looking for a cheap fix , you are more prone to disappointment . Even the lady is good and charges premium you might go for fewer but better and satisfied punts .

And for being tired and sick of this habit ? Not yet .

A small thing I missed . About leading double life . I do not know about others but for a semi immigrant like me in an alien country , I do not have to worry about leading a double life. I am inconspicuous enough to slip away in a corner and disappear before I can be noticed . But it will be mighty interesting if ever I am to involve in a relationship in this country .