On 2025-02-03 13:08:23 Arcticus said:
You could have called her, WhatsApp'ed her, or DMed her to raise your concerns with her.../QUOTE]
@Articus..This above you said to RB.. could you or should you not have done the same.. rather than bringing this to open forum? Pot calling the kettle black maybe? Two wrongs dont make a right. Or are we missing something is there another reason you had to do this so very publicly.
@RB.. techincally this thread dont belong to you.. it belongs to the OP.. he created it not you.. yes it started as a letter to you but by him placing this on open forum he litereally invited the whole community to come and comment here.
How they choose to comment cant be controlled by him, you or anyone except maybe esa admin if they choose
Natalie marketing herself here was maybe a bit bold but i suspect that was only done because of you questioning her comment that was only a "Smile" and reading the coms between the two of you there seems to be some anomosity pre this thread.. but her marketing here is no diffrent than you commenting on a thread started and belonging to another lady in the off beaten track in last day or so.
By your own admission awhile ago you stated.. you choose to bring yourself to the front of peoples minds by your comments and interactions on forum.. a different kind of marketing but stil marketing.
All of that said i dont think you RB commenting on another lady's profile was done to harm her.
We know RB on here as the fighter for the underdog the trampled and the bullied.. and that was what she was doing. She will not change, thats who she is.. without people that call out bullies and fakes and just utter cunts on forum it would be even worse than it is now.
One fact remains if guys did not start off turning that lady's profile into a chat room between themselves and maybe took that whole thing to the punters forum that was created for punters to discuss all kinds of things whithout praying eyes of the general public or other SPs like RB that will by default defend someone, none of this would have happend at all.
As for all the other nonsense on this thread, punters insulting punters and SPs publicly displaying there dislike of each other.. why are you all so nasty towards each other.. does the opinion here of one person about you or your opinion about them actaully change anything in your or their lives outside of this pages? Would it matter a week or a month from now.
For punters i would say it would not matter a bit or change anything in their lives.. they have the protection of being faceless and nameless, but for ladies..this kind of behaviour might have a really nasty turn on how people view you.
But this is my thoughts it matter none.. just carry on;)