On 2018-04-26 21:13:29 Mxxx said:
I get it that relationships can almost never work in this industry.
I get it that i was stupid to fall for a MG here.
I get it that she lied to me (you are the only one i do this with - lol).
I accept that i was also not always completely honest.
I get it that i was stupid thinking she was honest when she pretending to like me.

But i have learned. I have learned to never ever, again trust anything or anyone here. Do not get involved emotionally. Never ever. A girl will throw you away and treat you like scum in no time, once you have served your purpose, whatever that purpose might have been. Never forget this.

Very true words spoken !!!

I certainly fell for a WG. The thought often crosses my mind: Is she nice to me just because I pay her, am I nice to her because I'm paying her???

Seriously though it reached the point where I'd be happy to spend time with her even without any carnal action.

On 2018-04-26 21:13:29 Mxxx said:
I get it that relationships can almost never work in this industry.
I get it that i was stupid to fall for a MG here.
I get it that she lied to me (you are the only one i do this with - lol).
I accept that i was also not always completely honest.
I get it that I was stupid thinking she was honest when she pretending to like me.

But I have learned. I have learned to never ever, again trust anything or anyone here. Do not get involved emotionally. Never ever. A girl will throw you away and treat you like scum in no time, once you have served your purpose, whatever that purpose might have been. Never forget this.


Sorry, but the the same can be said for punters. Luring ladies out the business and promising them the world for their own selfish needs. It's a 2 way street. This industry taints us all, ladies and punters. No one walks away unscathed and innocent. We all bare the scars of life. In this business or outside of it!
But let's not just blame the ladies! There are just as many men out there wanting to be saviours that actually aren't equipped to deal with the reality of the situation. Don't promise what you can't deliver. Ladies here are probably stronger and more hungry to live a normal life than you have ever imagined. They just were'nt afforded the opportunities that you were. Due to circumstance.

Stop trying to be the "Saviour" Ladies here don't need saving.
If you genuinely want to help a lady and not OWN and CONTROL her! And you genuinely want her to succeed and soar in her own right as a powerful, strong, independant Woman. Then help her create a business where she is financially independant and not living off your payroll. That is just a complete shabbles, you are taking ownership and controlling her instead of setting her free and allowing her to be empowered!


Arz

Arizona, as always, spot-on!

#respect
That's what its all about.

You're still the benchmark and idol of so many.

Keep well and stay gr8!

On 2018-04-27 00:41:57 Brandon911 said:
Arizona, as always, spot-on!

#respect
That's what its all about.

You're still the benchmark and idol of so many.

Keep well and stay gr8!

Totally agree! Well said Arz.

@Arizona and all corncerned..

Imagine a site where punters got reviewed as well. HECTIC.........
The reason why I think ESA is still (for many years) the top 1 is because of the "trust" and professionalism that goes with it. (Ja sorry vir die spelling - ek is Afrikaans.......)

Arizona (and the Edenvale-Celeste-crowd) has been an icon for many years and almost a mentor for so many girls. Always a professional with a passion for the industry. BUT yes, as a punter (stuck in Centurion....... ) there is so many dodgy profiles but thanks to guys like Speedy/Cucumber(u still alive bud?) etc. trust/respect starts to build relationships. NOT an exclusive relationship. It's a service/experience that's provided NOT a proposal.

As stated, go eat at the restaurant, enjoy the experience but don't be that customer who thinks his better than the waiter, the waiter needs to be rescued, you are the knight on a Mercedes horse and be dissapointed or judgemental when you never took the time to ask if the waiter wants something else. The moment you think a WG needs your help, a drive-thru is more what you have in mind - talk to the machine.

Again, a site where punters are reviewe, ouch. I know this sounds stupid cause the client is always right....?? but wow some of the reviews is so disrespectfull and complaining about GFE's but forget the most important part of a GFE = giving a BFE (BoyfriendExperience = respect).
To all the complaining married punters - Not one profile is promising a PWE (Perfect-Wife-Experience) - don't judge, you're not the perfect husband..... Go to the restaurant, enjoy the experiense but ALWAYS remember - you pay peanuts - you get monkeys - this industry goes both ways and IS NOT a dating site.

@Arizona
You make some very good points.
Unfortunately, even in some marriages, there can be quite a lot of ownership and control.

On 2018-04-27 01:43:43 Mike40 said:
@Arizona
You make some very good points.
Unfortunately, even in some marriages, there can be quite a lot of ownership and control.

The world carries on about womens rights and how far we've come, but I see something totally different and the sad thing is, women are responsible for disempowering themselves by falling into the stereotypes we are all held under such as a woman is only interested in money...they make themselves a commodity then complain when a man takes ownership whether in this industry or out and women play it off as being strong willed and independant when they take the guy for all they have when he moves on in search of something more!

Who is in control of Women"s Rights?

I throw up lots of working girls.
But ive only fallen for one.
I fell.so hard had to stay down bevause i realised she didnt want me. Just money.
Pitty cos i still.think of her every day