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Posted: 2017-05-01 18:12:29

On 2017-05-01 17:27:37 Climax said:
On 2017-05-01

What you need to do is take your personal business out of here, if you feel this relationship can be saved do it without any help from here...

If you're clear about your feelings for her and hers for you, take it out of this FORUM...



#respect2Climax!!!!
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Posted: 2017-05-01 18:26:09

On 2017-05-01 16:58:51 Pussyeater980 said:

Ms Ruby i may be wrong for the name i used out of anger but i wanna correct you on being with a wg or being a punter i only joined esa after i found out and due to being angry and upset also confused on what to do...i never cheated being with a wg while in the relationshio



Please accept my apologies then. An ESA user with the name 'pussyeater' doesn't really seem to be here looking for advice. I saw another thread where you were looking for a MG that ends with a handjob though? Is that in retaliation to you finding out about her day job? No relationship could ever work on a tit for tat basis. Or was this something you both decided on together? Please remember that two wrongs don't make a right.

The reality is, communication is the most important thing right now. If you catch her in a lie, talk to her about it calmly. No alcohol and no shouting. If you would prefer to then also see WG's on the side, communicate this to her as well, and try to come to a compromise. If she is unwilling to leave the profession, and you can't accept it, then I'm afraid you'll have to move on.

(But still throw that word out of your vocabulary. And I'm not saying it as a working girl in the profession trying to defend myself. I'm saying it as a female punter who has been guilty of using that word in the past, before I really understood how much of themselves these ladies sacrifice for a punter's pleasure.)

Good luck, I really hope you two can sort things out.
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Posted: 2017-05-01 18:32:13

@RubyWinchester jis jy is 'n awesome vrou wow!!!! Beautiful words from a "female punter" sjoe sommer hoendervleis gekry!!!! xxxxx
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Posted: 2017-05-01 18:32:54

On 2017-05-01 18:26:09 RubyWinchester said:
On 2017-05-01 16:58:51 Pussyeater980 said:
Ms Ruby i may be wrong for the name i used out of anger but i wanna correct you on being with a wg or being a punter i only joined esa after i found out and due to being angry and upset also confused on what to do...i never cheated being with a wg while in the relationshio

Please accept my apologies then. An ESA user with the name 'pussyeater' doesn't really seem to be here looking for advice. I saw another thread where you were looking for a MG that ends with a handjob though? Is that in retaliation to you finding out about her day job? No relationship could ever work on a tit for tat basis. Or was this something you both decided on together? Please remember that two wrongs don't make a right.

The reality is, communication is the most important thing right now. If you catch her in a lie, talk to her about it calmly. No alcohol and no shouting. If you would prefer to then also see WG's on the side, communicate this to her as well, and try to come to a compromise. If she is unwilling to leave the profession, and you can't accept it, then I'm afraid you'll have to move on.

(But still throw that word out of your vocabulary. And I'm not saying it as a working girl in the profession trying to defend myself. I'm saying it as a female punter who has been guilty of using that word in the past, before I really understood how much of themselves these ladies sacrifice for a punter's pleasure.)

Good luck, I really hope you two can sort things out.



Thank you Ruby really appreciate...We all have problems one way or the other..to those who wanna be judgemental thanks to you also... Every one has their own day...Thanks again Ruby...and yes it was a payback asking for the mg i never followed up...
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Posted: 2017-05-01 18:41:33

Jeeeezuz you ppl are a strange bunch. The oke posted that he wanted some advice. Instead you lot tear into him and give a load of kak. What if he was suicidal would you accept responsibility?

PEater! I been there its not a nice situation. It fucken tears your heart. My advice (and I know it's fucken hard) is dump her and Move on. You will suffer initially but will hey over it.

Don't listen to shit.
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Posted: 2017-05-01 18:43:36

[QUOTE;722600;Stormpie @ Sense-unique] On 2017-05-01 17:27:37 Climax said: On 2017-05-01

What you need to do is take your personal business out of here, if you feel this relationship can be saved do it without any help from here...

If you're clear about your feelings for her and hers for you, take it out of this FORUM...

LOAD OF BULL. How many wgs unload their personal shit on this forum. It's an open forum.
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Posted: 2017-05-01 18:46:18
Edited: 2017-05-01 18:47:40

On 2017-05-01 18:43:36 Orpheus said:
[QUOTE;722600;Stormpie @ Sense-unique] On 2017-05-01 17:27:37 Climax said: On 2017-05-01

What you need to do is take your personal business out of here, if you feel this relationship can be saved do it without any help from here...

If you're clear about your feelings for her and hers for you, take it out of this FORUM...

LOAD OF BULL. How many wgs unload their personal shit on this forum. It's an open forum.




What a charming piece of nonsense you're orifice...

I said that because he's not gonna get real advice here, but other people's experiences and judgements...
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Posted: 2017-05-01 19:42:26

Climax instead of telling him that you rather tell him a load of bull.

Wtf. Go figure
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Posted: 2017-05-01 20:01:58
Edited: 2017-05-01 20:23:30

No one can tell anyone what is OK, or right or wrong for anyone. We all have different experiences in relationships, and what works for one person probably won't work for anyone else? Its a unique experience for each person.

But if you haven't been honest with each other from day one of your relationship... Then your relationship is built on a Lie! I am not taking sides.

Hope you find some way to make either make it work or walk with away the best intentions for each other, giving each other the freedom to find what you are looking for!


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Posted: 2017-05-01 20:43:13

On 2017-05-01 18:41:33 Orpheus said:
Jeeeezuz you ppl are a strange bunch. The oke posted that he wanted some advice. Instead you lot tear into him and give a load of kak. What if he was suicidal would you accept responsibility?

PEater! I been there its not a nice situation. It fucken tears your heart. My advice (and I know it's fucken hard) is dump her and Move on. You will suffer initially but will hey over it.

Don't listen to shit.



Thanks orpheus really appreciate...i only decided to post on here to get advice even if am a new member becos i see people give positive advise on here to help out...just seeking for advises not to be judged or insulted...Thanks again

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