On 2025-03-23 07:35:41 Pluglife420 said:
It's gay ,no matter how much you try justify it or convince yourself. If it's anal you want, thousands of women with a vagina or willing to offer their ass to you, why must the ass come with a penis attached to it. You gay man. The truth shall set you free. Love in your truth.

Facts, you are gay!

Does it really matter?

Is it not about the experience and adventure

Had my first She-male encounter at a hairdresser in Koh-Samui

They are Hot!!!

It's fine as long as you say "No homo" after the session

I'm not a person who ever considered themselves "gay" but something about shemales piqued my interest, used to watch their porn when I'm high or drunk. So fast forward I had some wine and went to visit one, she was sexy as hell, only just had a member which didn't bother me much, I walked out happy, said no homo on my out and I was happy to have at least tried it

On 2025-03-25 08:22:12 K-Soul said:
It's fine as long as you say "No homo" after the session

Hahaha exactly

Jirre! Indentify as this, identify as that? Ma se poes people. You are either skeef or not. If that shit below came from chat GPT then there is a kont kak flaw in Chat MSP.

On 2025-03-21 13:07:26 Seedy said:
I've considered it as well. Especially after seeing this one beautiful she-male at a bar in Fourways with thee most gorgeous behind. But ultimately, I think it is gay hence why I've never pulled the trigger.

I asked ChatGPT for it's take:

Alright, you asked for blunt---let's go.

Short answer: No, not necessarily. Booking a trans woman (what's often meant by "shemale"---though that term is outdated and considered offensive by many) doesn't automatically make the man gay. Here's why:
* Sexual orientation is about who you're attracted to---not just body parts, but gender identity. If a man is attracted to someone who identifies and presents as a woman (regardless of anatomy), that still falls under the umbrella of heterosexuality for many people.
* That said, if the attraction is specifically to the male aspects (e.g. penis, masculine energy, etc.), it could point more toward bisexuality or some form of same-sex attraction.
* It's also worth noting: sexual behavior sexual identity. A man might explore something once (or many times) and still identify as straight if that's how he feels about his core attractions.

So, the act itself doesn't define the orientation---intent and attraction do.

Some of these trans ladies are fucking hot.
I'd entertain a shemale encounter but as part of a threesome with a regular woman.
Sort of to temper it down a bit.
She would have to be totally feminine. No 5 o'clock shadow or sweaty, hairy, stinky anythings.
Not sure what I'd do with her cock but for sure it ain't going in my ass.

Personally, I think being attracted to masculine or feminine is probably what makes you gay and then of course there's bisexual when the parts don't make the attraction but the person does and yet that is left out completely from this discussion strangely.

I am attracted to feminine. A chick with long flowing hair and nice boobs, gorgeous eyes, smile, long smooth legs does it for me. I find that very sexy and I'm attracted to it. However, if the wonder bra comes off to reveal a flat chest and she pulls her wig off mid-fuck to reveal short or no hair and looks like a guy (as has happened to me a couple of times in real life sadly), that's a guy now and I feel very gay for even having gone there. I don't care if she has a pussy anymore, my boner has left the chat. She is not feminine, she has male attributes, she is male and I think I'd have to be gay to still want that. And of course, I don't find visibly masculine women attractive in the first place to even venture down that path. A girl who visibly dresses and looks like a man, acts and sounds like one is in no way attractive to me. Just an example of how things are not so black and white.

I've seen natural born women that are masculine and have zero attraction to them but on the flip side, many a times I have seen a gorgeous profile update on ESA. I click to see who this hottie is only to discover the profile says shemale, Fuck!!! Now what? Am I now gay because I found a beautiful feminine person with luscious long flowing hair and perky tits attractive because I discover she has a dick and I don't find a masculine woman attractive even though she has a pussy?

For me, if you're attracted to feminine and and put off by masculine then you're straight and everyone is entitled to their opinion but in reality no one else's opinion matters on where you stick your dick, especially if youre paying for it.

Don't overthink it. Just do what or who you wanna do. What would it change about you if you're straight, gay, or bisexual really???

N4P

On 2025-03-26 18:34:54 Need4Passion said:

and then of course there's bisexual when the parts don't make the attraction but the person does and yet that is left out completely from this discussion strangely.

I've been waiting for someone to point out there is more to this than simply gay/straight.

Gender or parts seldom play a role in who I'm attracted to.

Since I'm very much into men/masculinity, And women/femininity, I'm not just gay, nor am I just straight...

I do have a slight preference for cock though...
I think the phrase I came across last year was "cock hungry"
Hehehe

Coming in late, but This is what I've been missing on the forums. An open, opinionated, widely disputed, but civil conversation.

I am laughing at you lot commenting on "it's gay". Because it technically is.
I agree as well, dick is dick.

But as PA290993 pointed out, on page 2, if it looks feminine and beautiful... I think it's game on.
And the opposite is true as well, you may be a biological female but your vibe is not feminine.

I have been verging on the edge of doing a booking myself as well, with someone that offers an experience not just an organ or hole to put stuff in.

And I've been with a lady (code 7), as in was a man now a girl. Not planned, but noticeable, and to be honest, other then her noticeable discomfort when I wnated to go down, the sensual / actual interaction, was bloody awesome.

"But, are you gay... you are gay".
Gay to me means you exclusively do same sex.
I am I bi?
Perhaps not fully, I don't like dick per s, thought about it on a awesome female, and there are plenty on here.

Guess we are all somewhat... in between, with some exclusively on the edges.