Posted: 2015-09-07 11:53:29
Fisting, like a lot of other fetishes, when done right can provide immense pleasure for both participants.
Start slowly and work the area thoroughly before even trying to enter with more than a finger. Warm up the muscles. Use your tongue and pleasure your lady to the point of orgasm.I find that it is easier if she doesn't orgasm until you are at least four fingers in.
Use a good quality lube to get started. First two fingers then slowly add more. If you are doing it right and your lady is enjoying the process, natural juices will provide all the further lube you need.
Let your lady grip behind her knees and in a synchronized manner you push when she pulls. If you are doing it right you will feel warm juices running down your arm in no time at all.
Fisting is not as easy as shown in pornos. The actors spend quite a bit of time beforehand prepping themselves and relaxing the muscles. The vigorous almost aggressive pounding of the vagina (as shown in most porn videos) is not enjoyed by most ladies and should be avoided.
A normal session should take about 30 minutes.
I find once inside if you make a fist and clench and loosen your grip, not many ladies can say no to another session after that.
And yes, the vaginal muscles are definitely tighter once done. So the analogy of polony down West Street is way off base.
I have one wg regular and one stripper regular that enjoys fisting. I think, my personal opinion and not based on any research whatsoever, is that many wg's avoid the topic because of the stigma attached to fisting and the misconception related to "being tight" as a prerequisite of a wg.
Happy Fisting