Well this time I did not have to write such response...Bridgitte has done it for me.
Beautiful Bridgitte I couldn't have say it better. Thank you.

I was married for 14 years...for I know well that life.

Just my EX is today still my very best friend, family, beautiful father to my children, terrific business partner, I love him very much, we just no longer lovers.

Wife...mother...and...and...
Is a talent...
The most under looked job! .

Anyone can be a hot lover with glamour and candle lights...seeing you once a week!

Don't have a mistress. Best decision you can have. If your mistress turns into wife then you are in deep deep shit every time you come late! Actually booking a nice wg is a better option. Just a business transaction and no more. We men we have a sex period of six weeks. After a good shag we are on the calm period for an average period of 6 weeks before the tsunami is back again!

Good morning sexy luscious Valentina! :D
Damn girl! I aint into woman, I am sure u can understand with all the gorgeous men that are out there for us tohopefully connect with, but u even had me hot under the collar with ur post the other morning!!!

WOWEEeeeeeee!!!!

As to my comment posted...I love my mama to bits and she didn't have it easy. But in the same breathe cannot say I don't love my tata just as much...

And JR.....loved ur comment about the tsunami, but can take u a bet if u come across a wg who "rubs" u up the right way that frequency of feeling first the hint of a roll.....
Then a tickle.....
Then the need to re-adjust between the crotch.....
Then the heart begins to bound......
The memory comes back.....
U feel the pull toward that softness.....

The tsunami is back......
Damn!

Rolling harder
Bigger
......Than before!

And it has only been 4 loooonngG days!!!!!!

Love u......

Xx

B.

Why the need to lionize a wife's role ? Does the husband works lesser ? Just because the roof is up there protecting against the harsh weather , you simply cannot forget it on account of a warm cozy room inside .

Aaaah....
In my case I am not lionising the wife nor forgetting the roof provided.
Merely an observation on most of the derogatory comments made on a wife, yet very little said about the equal indiscretions of a husband.

Ny bad maybe....
But having a mistress seems to be glorified as potentially suggested it be the wifes fault because she has turned into a virgin?

I am sure the upkeep and nurturing of the roof and much more a husband has supplied, by wifey, is just as worthy and should be taken into account?

But. Would hate to make this the battle of the sexes, as it is not.

Xxx

B.

Bridgitte, I also tend to agree with you. However, I think that it's also imperative for the wife to put herself in the husband's shoes and consider how any of her actions may impact negatively on him. Rickylick’s marital experience indicates that husbands can also be on the receiving end. Nevertheless, I’d agree that wives tend to be the recipients of the majority of the raw deals that are dished out, worldwide, albeit that women from western cultures may not be as adversely affected as other women.

What I believe is of paramount importance in any relationship, is mutual respect, consideration for one’s partner’s rights, comfort and interests and honesty. Even if one wants only hanky panky, or even to dabble in some swinging, for example, why not be honest and open about it? The consequences of partners discovering deceit can be rather devastating, as has been shown on this and other threads. It’s also much less stressful and far less logistics intensive, to take this approach.

If one’s relationship has turned sour, then, take two possible courses of action. Either attempt to fix it, if both parties want this. If that is not possible or desired, then end the relationship, deal with the emotional and other baggage and move on. Valentina has testified that there is a mature way to deal with this.

Let me also stress, in closing, that I’m not having a go at anyone. I’m just throwing in my two pennies worth. I’ve never been married and I’m a single punter. Therefore, I don’t really know what pain others have endured. I’m also so imperfect and flawed, that I’ll never qualify for sainthood in either this, or the next ten thousand lifetimes. I’m the last one who ought to be throwing stones and, I assure you, my fellow forum participants, that I’m doing no such thing.

And, my dear Octopussy, I'm looking forward to having you rub me up the right way.

Married men and women have indulged in extra marital affairs for centuries. No big deal don't know what this fuss is all about.

Just take precautions and follow the tips given to avoid getting caught. As for those taking the moral high ground what are you doing on an escort site? So you have never fallen in love or lusted after a married man or woman? If not, well good for you give yourself a pat on the back for being such a morally upstanding person.

Some of us are just flawed and we enjoy the thrill of having a life filled with passion and excitement. I had my first relationship with a married woman when I was 15 years old. During my marriage I also had a few affairs same as my husband. Our marriage lasted 16 years and 10 months.

Mr Bond....
That means an excess of 4 days after your first visit and I shall ride your tsunami again....

Just saying....considering I shall "rub" u up the right way.

:D!