Guys let's stop sugar coating, there's racism in the industry.
Unfortunately, Discrimination will always be part of certain industries so you just have to deal with it.

I believe with time things will cool down, SA only got independent in 1994, people are still learning to live together. So hang in there guys (Go to Fourways there's plenty of white women there that date black guys or go to London).

Remember guys just to be gentlemen.
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Definition of Racism:

Racism, also sometimes called racialism, is generally defined as actions, practices, or beliefs that consider the human species to be divided into races with shared traits, abilities, or qualities, such as personality, intellect, morality, or other cultural behavioral characteristics, and especially the belief that races can be ranked as inherently superior or inferior to others, or that members of different races should be treated differently.

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Racism

Guys as much as it is a matter of personal preference, it is racism. I have had a number of wg tell me that they dont see indians. Some who dont change their mind when they see me and we have a great time. Usually if a girl doesnt want to see indians, in my case, I am not going to force the issue be uase I know I will have a terrible time. I so want to see Claire in Sandton but she only sees Caucasians so I havent forced the issue becuase I dont want to go and see somebody who is not going to be IN to it or uncomfortable. Although I think if Claire meets me I know we will have a great time.

@ Oraljim - I think your response shows that you misunderstood my point, but just to set the record straight, I am not South African and so for BEE purposes I am as useful as a "white male"!

Agreed, just as it was back in the day people of colour are limited to "take what you get", simple solution guys, don't insist on seeing her if she does not want to see you, find a girl who will appreciate your company and not watch the clock till you leave..... Its human nature and even worse with a man's ego to want what you cannot have, so if they say naibo then leavee them be, I think maybe it should be added to profiles if its such a major issue

Dude, I know it hurts to be turned away because of the colour of your skin. So stop bitching about it, move on and stop feeling sorry for yourself, personally I think its pathetic.
Sorry if that was harsh, but I think we have to come to terms that some people will always have a certain mind set when it comes to Race.

tomShoes,are condoms 100% effective?

If the emotions are indeed true at what Naledi said then one would feel respect for her . Yet greater respect will spout when that lady will transcend her inherent feeling for an outcast - prejudice or pity . There are ladies that go out of their ways to please a guy regardless of their social standing . They exist . At least one did and everyone knows who that lady is . She respected everyone and in turn was revered by all . It amuses me that how the various multitude of ladies look upto her yet would not imbibe her views . But then its too much for them to ask . But then that's why she is the legend on ESA .

I don't do green women. Yes i am racist for saying that and proud of it.

Homeboy you may not be a racist but you are certainly a fucking retard

I agree totally ma se kind.