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Bonganelovejoy - Re: I fell trap to a scam :(
Re: I fell trap to a scam :(
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Posted: 2025-03-12 07:42:39

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"She then asks me for my hotel info, so she can call and verify I am for real"

This story makes no sense whatsoever, you have to be click baiting us. She asks for your hotel information to verify if you're real? How would she verify if you're real based on your hotel address and room number? Also why would you give someone your hotel name and room number unless you've confirmed a booking.

Then you claim to get extorted for a cancellation fee that you eventually paid, like how?

1) She doesn't know you.
2) She hasn't met you.
3) All she knows is your hotel and room number, which they wouldn't allow her to enter without your consent.

This story just doesn't add up. And everyone has been saying, name and shame and you've gone AWOL. So it's either you've made up a story to get people's attention or you trying to ruin someone's reputation. Whatever the case may be, Stop it.



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Posted: 2025-03-12 07:53:18
Edited: 2025-03-12 07:59:36

On 2025-03-10 19:33:25 tav80 said:
So, last week I contacted someone and enquired about rates for an outcall. She said 4.5k. Next morning she texts me again, offer is 3.5k. Tell her I will think about it (she is super hot). This is for massage and FH only. No kink.

I wait a day and message her again. I ask for her rate if from 20:00 - 21:00, without FH.

She then asks me for my hotel info, so she can call and verify I am for real. My gut tells me something is off, but I stupidly disclose this information. No call comes. I try calling and texting her, nothing. Not good.

About 30 minutes later, she whatsapp's me saying it will be 6.5k for an hour. I say no because that's ridiculous. Immediately she demands 3k because I cancelled on her. I tell her I did not confirm, but she keeps insisting that I pay. I realise I am fucked because she knows where I am and I have no idea if she is connected - don't want some psycho waiting for me outside my room. So I negotiate and end up paying.

I know I fucked up by disclosing my hotel name and room. Will never do that again!

Emailed support to let them know what happened, but no response from them either. She cunningly deleted her original quote for 4.5 and 3.5k from the message thread.

I don't want her to get away with this, because she will do it again to other people.

Any suggestions? Learn from it and let it go?



When i am staing in a hotel i always meet wgs in the lobby...
I also dont understand why you got scared.... for every psycho there is always a bigger psycho. Most of the black mails, extortions, etc. work on a chicken fear.


...and once it is paid...it is paid....laught it out, forget it and move forward
FrecklesLover
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Posted: 2025-03-12 08:50:03

On 2025-03-10 19:33:25 tav80 said:

I don't want her to get away with this, because she will do it again to other people.

Any suggestions? Learn from it and let it go?



Yeah broski, comment on her review board that you got scammed.
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Posted: 2025-03-12 08:50:30

Ye at this point didn't happen unless you name and shame.
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Posted: 2025-03-17 14:30:03

Useless thread.
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Posted: 2025-03-18 03:27:12

On 2025-03-11 09:27:21 Miss Red ( Louise ) said:
Esa wont help they tired of grownups fucking up and running to then for help.. they not pimps for the ladies or bodygaurd/policeman for the punters.

They just an advertising platform , its your responsibilty to use it responsibly and safefaurd yourself.

Confirming people are booked into hotels had been standard practise for years.

You not naming the lady in this whole situation are now throwing suspisious shade on every single lady out here that dont ask for deposits but only want to verify they wont be traveling for nothing.

I kept coming back to this post thinking there is a lot more to this than what is written.

Would be intresting to see the lady's version of this story.





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Posted: 2025-03-18 06:11:50

If this story is true wouldn't it be cheaper to change rooms? Also how would she know what you look like? Did you give her a copy of your ID as well?
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Posted: 2025-03-18 09:11:12

I don't agree that ESA won't help. They are very helpful to gentleman if you have all the facts on the table and can prove through your communication and payment you were taken for a ride. But if you don't provide them with all the information, they can't do anything. But they will call the lady and block her ad if you can show them the lady has an active ad on ESA and she demanded money and you paid it. ESA helped two of my clients in the past.
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Posted: 2025-03-19 14:27:14

If you don't name and shame , I suspect this is a bs story . Grow a pair
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Posted: 2025-03-19 19:08:34

Probably trying to force the lady to refund him, before naming her. Hate this kind

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