I've put monthly packages together and the only gent who took advantage of this was someone referred to me who knew nothing about Esa. He just paid for another 3 sessions when he came for his last one this morning.
He said to thank the Esa guys as he is now enjoying what some of you asked for but never took advantage of.
That said I would rather a potential client tell me what their budget is so I may make a decision if I'm able to see him or not, for what he's able to afford. But as I've said before in a post, please don't arrive in a high end luxury vehicle but you've told me you have a very small budget.
I would much rather work/earn than sit around for 7 full days like I did last month with not one booking.
I get my gluten free bread from the market and since things have become so tough I've asked for a discount if I take 3 or 4 loaves...they give me 10% off...I was embarrassed to ask at first...but hey times are tough...we are all doing the best we can im sure....

Previously someone suggested punters create a "pleasure-fund account" .....
- stash some small spare cash slowly onto a card/similar and let it build up (while you build up too haha) then go hunt with a reasonable budget). Simple as that.
It wont interfere with your normal cashflow & of course works for short duration punts. The overnight kings - ai the vice will bite you eventually LoL

I got quoted R20k for an overnight (8 hours) by a regular advertiser/SP on the forum. I think a request to negotiate the rate would be acceptable?

Right? *ponders*

(Yes that's not a typo: R20 000- and Greek was extra)

I would rather have someone negotiate than insult me.

This happened just a few hours ago and I am still glad I showed him the door.

Mr A contacted me early this morning, enquired about my rates and made a booking for when he knocks off at work. Time came and he turned up 45 mins late. I understand traffic in the area, so always allow for time delays.

Eventually Mr A (fictional name) send message, he is on his way up. Requesting I meet him at the door naked. Now my rooms are heated and cosy, so I obliged. Offering him a drink as he walks in, I wait.

Then Mr A rubs his cold hands, blowing on them to warn up. Then proceeds to tell me: "I only have R200."

Now as punters is that right or wrong? How can it be acceptable? What little respect does that convey?

And even after shown the door, Mr A sends a message as he sit in his car, begging for me to see him because he only has the R200.

Now who considers that acceptable, respectful or even remotely considered?

What I find interesting is how often I read that the ladies treat this as a business but then get "offended" when someone tries to negotiate.


Negotiation is what happens in business all the time, when you buy goods and services your procurement department will try to get the price down.


As a seller you want RX and the buyer is prepared to pay RY, if Y is less than X the seller needs to decide how badly they want the sale. I have bought a lot of luxury items and generally will negotiate the price this is including in clothes shops where sometimes I get a 15% discount but have to ask. Hell I have even had my doctor waive the charge for a follow up visit to her cause she knows that I am a very reluctant visitor in the first place and as I pay cash for the visit will not go for no reason.


Agreement needs to be upfront before any services are delivered so therefore what the guy did to you Lady Mortitia is not acceptable as you did not agree to a discount before rendering a service and was entitled to be paid for the part of the service you did deliver

If you are thinking of an overnight, or a long booking, then a bit of negotiation is in order. I would not expect to pay a girl 8 times her hourly rate for an overnight. Most guys will not be pomping all night - they might hope for a max of 2-4. - and there will be quite a bit of sleep usually. Also, if you have a 2 hour session I would think you might get the second hour at 50%.
Was always surprised when querying for a couple (wife and I) booking that the hourly rate was just doubled. Always seemed a bit unfair..it's not really twice the work, and the same number of minutes being paid for. That annoyed me.

Here is my advice. Might not work for everyone but here goes.

I only book half hour session for a first meet. If no chemistry, then its cheaper school fees. If the session was good I would negotiate a fee for a weekly return visit. If the lady really enjoyed the session, she would offer a fair deal. I would then already pay for the next visit (to show her I'm serious), and pay in advance for bookings with every visit. If she doesn't offer a fair deal, then obviously she didnt click with me and I dont need to visit again.

Interesting different perspectives.

Question: is it only the ladies who charge in the range R800 to R1500 who have to put up with hagglers and negotiators?
Are the ladies who charge in R1600 to R5000 an hour range also faced with price negotiators?
What about the those ladies who play in the "My pussy is gold" R10,000+ range?

Do the "look at me I'm an wealthy executive" guys who book the R10,000+ working girls ask for a R500 discount?

ANSWERS ANSWERS ANSWERS PLEASE!

On 2018-07-05 07:06:51 Burfi said:
Interesting different perspectives.

Question: is it only the ladies who charge in the range R800 to R1500 who have to put up with hagglers and negotiators?
Are the ladies who charge in R1600 to R5000 an hour range also faced with price negotiators?
What about the those ladies who play in the "My pussy is gold" R10,000+ range?

Do the "look at me I'm an wealthy executive" guys who book the R10,000+ working girls ask for a R500 discount?

ANSWERS ANSWERS ANSWERS PLEASE!

Looking forward to seeing a response to this one

Personally, I feel that the old saying, "no romance without finance" applies here. Women are literally allowing men to share the most intimate act with them. I don't see why they should be expected to have to negotiate the price of their bodies.

No romance without finance!