I know a few of them personally! They got out on their own merits too...proud to call them my friends!



U Right there Luv ive never replied on any topic from guys but this SAYING that there alws come back really sucks and i could not ignore it .A big curse indeed.

On 2018-07-29 15:57:36 Nikki said:


I know a few of them personally! They got out on their own merits too...proud to call them my friends!



U Right there Luv ive never replied on any topic from guys but this SAYING that there alws come back really sucks and i could not ignore it .A big curse indeed.

Words have a big impact on people...those words have been reverberated on this forum for around 10 years! I even used it a few times myself until I realised what I was doing!

Don't beat yourself about this Miss V I mean would you rather end up on the street and homeless just so you can say to the Dumb Numpty's ' I didn't come back ' !? I for one thank all the Ladies for their most valuable service to society . I don't think you know just how essential you are and societal norms prohibit you from receiving recognition and praise but I think this most unfair .
Haters will hate , keep your chin up you are valued I'm sure

On 2018-07-29 21:51:28 bbw lover said:
Don't beat yourself about this Miss V I mean would you rather end up on the street and homeless just so you can say to the Dumb Numpty's ' I didn't come back ' !? I for one thank all the Ladies for their most valuable service to society . I don't think you know just how essential you are and societal norms prohibit you from receiving recognition and praise but I think this most unfair .
Haters will hate , keep your chin up you are valued I'm sure

My worst nightmare is being a burden on someone...probably why I can't even allow someone to take me out of this industry. I'm to proud! Not to mention most guys that 'save' ladies think they have bought a person and control every aspect of their lives! I will do what I must to survive, but I would like to move on...self doubt and fear hold me back though! The most daunting exercise is coming back to this industry and building up your business again...and yes, the humiliation and psychological impact that returning has on you when you've shifted your mindset out of the industry!

And every time you come back your service needs to improve. Something new every time.

There are so many new ladies out there everyday trying to make ends meat ...it make THIS job for us older ladies really difficult.
Everyone is struggling.

But then again I know what my services is worth.
I know my self worth and what effort I put in to try and keep my clients happy.

My girl when our clients comes back...we sure are doing something right.
Never doubt our ability to think outside the box.
What we forget the young must still learn to apply and appreciate. Even I real life...;-)

Always do your best.

What I've learned over the years is that only my family is important to me to share this information with them. They know what I do.

And friends....ghhhaa I can only count on one hand with who I'll trust this information with.

There's only 2 tipes of people I don't trust...the ones I know and the ones I don't know.

Relationship wise...I would rather keep my mouth shut because honesty had only bite me on the ass at the end of the day.

It's not only girls that comes back but the punter too under another cover name.
Does it say something about you or them? (Sorry for stepping on someone's toes.)

Finding a job outside this and you need to put this UP on your CV as a previous job.. now THIS is degrading!!!!

Yes people (in normal jobs) do take advantage of knowing the truth and will push you till you break.

On 2018-07-29 22:15:53 Veronica Franco said:

Not to mention most guys that 'save' ladies think they have bought a person and control every aspect of their lives!

That is a really REALLY sad and unfortunate thing when it happens. You belong to NOBODY & no person has the right to dictate who, what and where you go or do. It goes without saying that if you are romantically involved with someone, you should no longer live the life you previously had while in this industry ( applies to both people ).

Or am I looking through rose coloured glasses here ?

Happily they do not always come back.Those who manage to break out seem to be the ones who resolve the reasons for entering the industry.

If I've partaken in that thread I'm sorry. I only want EA to give me FH, that's my goddess. To the ladies that make it stick, salute

I come from many years in the corporate world, you want to know where you are made to feel worthless, have your soul owned, walk around with a mask on all day, hate going to work, sexual harrassment because its not possible that a blonde with big boobs and blue eyes can have a brain to be an accountant? In the corporate world!

Not being an SP or an MG. I am my authentic self right here, as an SP, my work is my play. I love meeting new guys, being who I want to be, no airs and graces, in the bedroom we are who we are, no judgements, no looking down on anyone because we are on the same playing field.

Everyday we learn new things, knowledge flows through our rooms, we absorb, we listen, we can hold an intelligent conversation out of the bedroom. We are not lacking, we are strong women that draw men back to us. They share things with us that they cannot share with their partners for fear of being belittled or judged or made to feel inadequate.

If I had a choice between this and going back to the corporate world, I would rather be playing. I have never been happier in my life.

Society be damned! Who are you (society) to tell me what I have to do to fit into this world. I fit into my own world.

Veronica,

I think the key is to not leave cause someone is taking you out or someone will be taking care of you.

The key is to work with a goal of saving so you can open your own little business to remain independent forever or study to get your dream job.

Never give up your independence no matter what kind of business you are in!

If a man wants you to leave the industry to be with him then tell him to buy you a business and put it into your name otherwise he must suck it up till you can afford your own business!

You will be treated and respected the way you want cause they know you don't need them financially so automatically you will be respected!
When a guy knows you depend on him for everything, this is a recipe for disaster, you will slowly lose yourself worth and find yourself dancing to their tune all the time.

I'm not saying all men are like this, I'm just saying it not worth the risk as that can be a lot more damaging than coming back into this industry.

kisses
Shelley