On 2021-11-02 06:28:23 AnthonyEdwards said:
On 2021-11-01 22:52:07 James638 said: Dud, you gotta do what's right for you. And you'll know it because once you've decided it not will change your heart or mind

There have been many posts about punters falling for the ladies or the ladies falling for punters. I don't think this is the case, I don't think she is into me or that I am her type.

The thing is, that this is the one time I cannot make up my mind

I suggest seeing a professional and talk this through, I think an Eskimo can sell you ice she dressed appropriately and had whatsapp, you never know emotion through a message or email, she could be talking to twenty guys giving the same sob story, maybe she works as a Nigerian Prince in her spare time ??

On 2021-11-02 09:46:58 ASASH said:
Maybe donate money every month to a community upliftment project - your community, maybe where you grew up, perhaps the school you attended needs meals for underprivileged children.

Do not be an idiot!!!

Thank you. Yes I don't want to be the idiot.

As for charities and underprivileged, I already have a long list. Let's not even go there with the politics involved and the cat fighting between them. I am also very involved in many charities that empower and grow women. Been there, done that, bored of that.

I love helping the underdawgs. Those that have really good potential but don't have a chance.

Being someone that started life with nothing has taught me never to forget my roots and where I came from.

Maybe I just set up the TF and whomever and whenever that person comes into my life and willing to share my adventures, there is something in place.

Alternatively open a home for the decent ladies of ESA and try to support and empower them to grow and learn other skills to supplement their income

I know a guy who got involved with an SP (many years ago) he financed/assisted 3 kids through school. When they grew up they turned to drugs and beat him up because he refused to finance them further.
Not to discredit the SP in anyway then or now but you will have no say in how the kid turns out.

On 2021-11-02 10:12:10 Mike Hope said:
I know a guy who got involved with an SP (many years ago) he financed/assisted 3 kids through school. When they grew up they turned to drugs and beat him up because he refused to finance them further.
Not to discredit the SP in anyway then or now but you will have no say in how the kid turns out.

100%, not even someone else's kids, I have seen this happen to biological parents too. It is all in the upbringing of the children. Helping them and dealing with the traumas they experience.

We may not have a say, the kids have the power of free will. We can influence the way they grow up and teach them the right from the wrong.

As an owner of American pitbulls, I use this analagy, because they are a very misunderstood breed. You keep a puppy tied up to a pole all their lives, without any love and attention, that dog when he grows up is going to be very mean and unsocialised. Do the same to a kid, and keep him in a basement, there is a making of a serial phsyco there.

Everyone has past traumas we need to deal with. How we deal with it makes us who we are. I am thankful for the guidance I received when I was growing up. Not from my parents but friends and their parents. Had it not been for their pillar of strength, I don't know who I would be today.

Where's Casanata?

N4P

On 2021-11-02 10:49:33 Need4Passion said:
Where's Casanata?

N4P

He respawned with the Locote username.

On 2021-11-02 11:33:38 modnarmodnar said:
On 2021-11-02 10:49:33 Need4Passion said: Where's Casanata?

N4P
He respawned with the Locote username.

Hahaha...No wonder...lol...It all makes sense now.

Locote!!!

On 2021-11-02 11:33:38 modnarmodnar said:
On 2021-11-02 10:49:33 Need4Passion said: Where's Casanata?

N4P
He respawned with the Locote username.

Well spotted hahaha

Locote!!!