On 2017-06-23 22:28:27 buzzy64 said:
lol may leave rather irrespective of who you are. sister or alternate personality.... give the girls who actually willing to work and earn properly a chance. better for those girls and us punters...one less choice to avoid disappointment .... few bad clients and run.....new "businesses" with old ideas fail for a reason, especially when competition is miles ahead. cheers

How would you guys feel if she meant something more sinister? Where will she go if she became a wg in the first place? A normal job? I think not. Read between the lines of where this could lead and ask yourself if your bullying is justified in pushing a girl over the edge.....i hope to God I'm over reacting, but if I'm right, I hope you are all proud of yourselves!

@Veronica

I'm curious when the bullying started. Was it before or after May posted this thread?

Was she bullied on her profile/ad./in the reviews or were punters simply questioning her real identity and relaying past experiences to other users of the forum?

Regardless, everyone has the right to a second chance. Many ladies have come back after being caught out in various bad circumstances and made good the second time around. Whether she is Candy or not, does she deserve being forced onto the streets or worse?

It's not easy facing our pasts and for most people, they scrap it and start with a clean slate, but not allowing them to do so is just cruel. Candu was once highly rated and you guys sang her praises constantly from what i can remember. Have you ever thought about what circumstances might have made her become otherwise. I know this lady has big issues and i don't believe that slamming her will do her any good.

Agree fully with you Miss Vee.

My recent past hasn't been great and it was only due to a few people that have shown love and mercy that i was finally able to see my own worth again. It's a long difficult process and this forums lack of empathy takes big balls to face! Many have told me I'm to open about my life on this forum and it is due to the cruelty i observe that I won't allow anyone to twist my life or circumstances into anything it is not!

Girls might also change identities running away from bad relationships, pimps etc but still need to live. We come across many unsavory characters in this industry and while you all take great joy in the name and shame thing and when you guys are always calling them out and not giving them the benefit of a doubt, you cripple them financially and could even be endangering them. just something to consider.

On 2017-06-24 10:19:34 Pseudonyms said:


Was she bullied on her profile/ad./in the reviews or were punters simply questioning her real identity and relaying past experiences to other users of the forum?

Well...there was a HUGE issue with a flag .... That has gotten fokkol to do with us here in South Africa. And "nails"...from the Nail Technicians amongst us...

Just a thought....how about instead of seeing the flag and nails...say something like "Nice legs" or "Sexy boude" or something?

If a service provider gets a second chance, but nothing changes - are punters supposed to keep quiet and not inform or warn others that nothing has changed?

There's a lady who I shall not name, but she got more than five chances and not a single thing changed. On her return, one would get one or two good punts as she was trying to 'rebrand' and establish her new self. After the first two weeks or so she would revert back to her old ways. My assumption was that after this period of time she had obtained enough cash flow to feed her addiction, and you'd start seeing the cracks on the wall. She eventually got banned either late last year or early this year.

Which brings me to this - it makes one wonder whether the service providers are making full use of the ladies forum. I'm not a service provider, so I don't know what goes on on that forum, but I would have thought it served as a support system for ladies who work in this industry.

On 2017-06-24 10:54:14 Minimee said:
On 2017-06-24 10:19:34 Pseudonyms said:

Was she bullied on her profile/ad./in the reviews or were punters simply questioning her real identity and relaying past experiences to other users of the forum?

Well...there was a HUGE issue with a flag .... That has gotten fokkol to do with us here in South Africa. And "nails"...from the Nail Technicians amongst us...

Just a thought....how about instead of seeing the flag and nails...say something like "Nice legs" or "Sexy boude" or something?

And by "HUGE" do you mean the two posts by ghostwrita and ChubbyD? If memory serves me right, they were along the lines of "interesting" and "I'm also curious" in reference to the flag.

Apart from those two there was a post by a user where he asked whether May was a member of the EFF.

On 2017-06-24 10:57:51 Pseudonyms said:


Which brings me to this - it makes one wonder whether the service providers are making full use of the ladies forum. I'm not a service provider, so I don't know what goes on on that forum, but I would have thought it served as a support system for ladies who work in this industry.

Some girls use it against ladies they have grudges with. This industry can be very cruel and cut throat especially between the ladies. There is no real support structure to be honest unless you're a 'popular wg' or active on this forum. Maybe some ladies have tried to come clean and rebrand themselves, then encountered one of the bastards we talk about on the girls forum and they immediately regress. You have no idea what this industry takes out of a girl/woman. There is a reason we turn to vices and nt everyone is strong enough to withstand half the crap we encounter, some of us on a daily basis! You cannot say that she shouldn't be in this industry then either like we all wanted to be here to begin with. We all need to eat or support ourselves or our families whenwe arent exactly born with a silver spoon up our asses.