On 2018-04-27 00:22:09 Arizona said:
On 2018-04-26 21:13:29 Mxxx said:
I get it that relationships can almost never work in this industry.
I get it that i was stupid to fall for a MG here.
I get it that she lied to me (you are the only one i do this with - lol).
I accept that i was also not always completely honest.
I get it that I was stupid thinking she was honest when she pretending to like me.

But I have learned. I have learned to never ever, again trust anything or anyone here. Do not get involved emotionally. Never ever. A girl will throw you away and treat you like scum in no time, once you have served your purpose, whatever that purpose might have been. Never forget this.


Sorry, but the the same can be said for punters. Luring ladies out the business and promising them the world for their own selfish needs. It's a 2 way street. This industry taints us all, ladies and punters. No one walks away unscathed and innocent. We all bare the scars of life. In this business or outside of it!
But let's not just blame the ladies! There are just as many men out there wanting to be saviours that actually aren't equipped to deal with the reality of the situation. Don't promise what you can't deliver. Ladies here are probably stronger and more hungry to live a normal life than you have ever imagined. They just were'nt afforded the opportunities that you were. Due to circumstance.

Stop trying to be the "Saviour" Ladies here don't need saving.
If you genuinely want to help a lady and not OWN and CONTROL her! And you genuinely want her to succeed and soar in her own right as a powerful, strong, independant Woman. Then help her create a business where she is financially independant and not living off your payroll. That is just a complete shabbles, you are taking ownership and controlling her instead of setting her free and allowing her to be empowered!


Arz

@Arz!!!! Double freaking love not like!!!! This type op thread comes up a few times!!! And then it's all about the wg/mg that what's the word brain f+*#& the client... But I do not agree!!! We are all deep souls and independent strong woman... And I believe if we let you into our private life's it's because we want you there, don't need you there... We all have fallen for someone on this site it's human and I wont say it's this huge mistake as everyone makes it out to be... I believe that everyone that crosses your path crosses it for a reason... Whether it's for a day, month, year or a lifetime... But it's not always just the SP'S fault.... I prefer to stay sensual but professional in my work space... But that does not mean I don't care for the gentleman that supports me weekly/monthly... I've fallen in love jip got the T-shirt... But I've also formed amazing friendships on my journey as a MG... Arizona your one hell of a woman I always read your posts because you have so much knowledge that I still have to learn.

Ps... The only thing I will admit I do regret... If you do fall in love with a "client" you end up losing a friend that could have been for a lifetime... So best to keep things professional.. have fun but know when to draw the line...

On 2018-04-27 04:10:35 Stormpie @ Sense-unique said:


And then it's all about the wg/mg that what's the word brain f+*#& the client...

Ps... The only thing I will admit I do regret... If you do fall in love with a "client" you end up losing a friend that could have been for a lifetime... So best to keep things professional.. have fun but know when to draw the line...

Such true words. We as clients sometimes are on such a high because of the feelings we develop that we don't know when and where to draw the line, and in most cases it the the SP that suffers the most, as when things don't work out, we (punters) go back to our life partner or move on to the next SP.

That T-shirt cost me 50k

Few lessons I learned:
If she is really into you she wont ask you to pay her rent.
If it seems just too good to be true - it isn't.
Stop and think things through (with your real brain),
if she only contacts you when there is a crisis, RUN.

Dont get me wrong - I don't blame these girls. Its all about survival out there. I do blame myself for missing the obvious signs.
Thanks to the honest ladies out there who possess integrity.
Still love all of them. :)

Arizona has it spot on. Should be headlined on this site.

I'm gonna say this from my own experience. Yes it can work yes it can fail.
Jealousy will always be the reason it won't last.
However.
A guy needs a really good strength to be with someone in this industry.
Must have a complete understanding of his lady.
Trust her completely
Anyway.
The end of the day we are all humans.. Some are lonely. Some are not.
When you meet that person that's there for you it clicks. Some last. Others don't. But truly a lady will always appreciate it..others simply just play the game. That's life.# This is only my opinion.

On 2018-04-29 11:02:55 Sugar Xtreme Xxx said:
I'm gonna say this from my own experience. Yes it can work yes it can fail.
Jealousy will always be the reason it won't last.
However.
A guy needs a really good strength to be with someone in this industry.
Must have a complete understanding of his lady.
Trust her completely
Anyway.
The end of the day we are all humans.. Some are lonely. Some are not.
When you meet that person that's there for you it clicks. Some last. Others don't. But truly a lady will always appreciate it..others simply just play the game. That's life.# This is only my opinion.

Yes!

On 2018-04-29 11:02:55 Sugar Xtreme Xxx said:

Jealousy will always be the reason it won't last.
However.
A guy needs a really good strength to be with someone in this industry.
Must have a complete understanding of his lady.
Trust her completely

Yes it can work absolutely, but not if the girl stays in the business.

I honestly don't understand the trust part of ure post...

Fact is, if u stay in the business u will screw how many guys everyday, where exactly does trust come in?

I think the "good strenght" u r mentioning is in fact a guy who doesnt give 2 shits about u, he only wants freebies.

My 2c

@Greyfox I guess then I'm proof that you're absolutely wrong lol..

Some guys actually do understand. They like bamboo sticks durable, flexible not the oak tree that's set in its old ways of thinking...

Speaking openly,having an open minded guy... What can I say...
A Man's character will tell a loyal Woman alot..

I guess I'm the LUCKY ONE lol!!
Safe punting guys!!
Xoxo

Good luck ma'm

There is a great blog on this subject from the POV of the boyfriend of a WG. Granted, the guy wasn't a punter however that doesn't invalidate the insights he gives in to his relationship.

mgfiae.weblogs.media.infocrumbs.net/2009/02/my-guide-to-dating-escort-introduction.html

The ladies in the preceding pages make some very valid points in terms of finding partners they want/choose to be with in their lives; partners who empower rather than own; and partners who are able to see beyond the stereotypes so many of us punters believe to be true of these girls. It has been mentioned before how much of this world is smoke and mirrors and for the most part the punter has no idea what is really happening on the other side of the masks. We make comments about the amount of guys a SP fucks in a day and then try to equate that physical interaction with the emotional elements of trust and understanding between said SP and her significant other. We chirp about these significant others not really giving two shits and are in it only for freebies when in fact it is the out and out punter who rejoices in getting freebies - that punter isn't there picking up the emotional pieces after a bad booking or dealing with the aftermath of rejections from those in the vanilla world, or holding the WG while she deals with the challenges of losing a family member or even a pet, or rushing to the hospital after the SP has been involved in a vehicle accident; we punters don't want to be involved that deeply and pay the money to not have to do so.

But these ladies do invariably have the same issues as anyone else, and once one gets to grips with that concept then maybe it will be easier to understand the likes of Sugar and her relationship. The WGs are human after all and live the same lives as everyone else on the planet, (including the lawyers who get rapists and murderers off or the politicians who fill their pockets with taxpayer contributions). Just because we pay them to go away doesn't mean that their everyday lives are not valid; just because they work in an illicit trade does not make them automatically untrustworthy; just because they have decided to get paid to provide sexual services to third parties doesn't mean they are not committed emotionally or romantically with another who can see and understand the relationship. To think so is to go through life blinkered!

So I think that there is a chance for a WG and punter to fall for each other and make a go of it - they just need to humanise themselves and believe in each other as individuals and not as stereotypes.

But then again I also believe the Boks can win another rugby world cup, so many may think I am merely delusional!!!!