On 2017-05-01 18:41:33 Orpheus said:
Jeeeezuz you ppl are a strange bunch. The oke posted that he wanted some advice. Instead you lot tear into him and give a load of kak. What if he was suicidal would you accept responsibility?

Dude I recently had surgery, and as a result, am not allowed any 'playtime' for 6 weeks. Niks, nada, fokkol. Fighting on the internet is literally all I have right now man. Gun my ook 'n ou klein bietjie plesier man. :D

On 2017-05-01 18:32:13 Stormpie @ Sense-unique said:
@RubyWinchester jis jy is 'n awesome vrou wow!!!! Beautiful words from a "female punter" sjoe sommer hoendervleis gekry!!!! xxxxx

Dankie blommemens! Kisses! Xx

On 2017-04-30 17:52:37 Pussyeater980 said:
Been dating this lady for few years now,she told me shes a mg with the jerking off but lately i found out she offers extras to clients...I do love her but the extras part i cant take and when confroted she lies about it what should i do

If you absolutely certain that she
offers extras to clients and you are not happy, it is best for you to end
the relationship. What is the point
in continuing in a relationship when
you cannot trust and respect the person?

On 2017-05-01 19:42:26 Orpheus said:
Climax instead of telling him that you rather tell him a load of bull.

Wtf. Go figure

Oh gosh aunty Orifice...

On 2017-05-01 21:07:51 RubyWinchester said:

Dude I recently had surgery, and as a result, am not allowed any 'playtime' for 6 weeks. Niks, nada, fokkol. Fighting on the internet is literally all I have right now man. Gun my ook 'n ou klein bietjie plesier man. :D

Since you are able to type on a keyboard I will dispute this statement, playtime in which YOU are the beneficiary is out but ..............

On 2017-05-01 22:06:59 johndoe69za said:
On 2017-05-01 21:07:51 RubyWinchester said:
Dude I recently had surgery, and as a result, am not allowed any 'playtime' for 6 weeks. Niks, nada, fokkol. Fighting on the internet is literally all I have right now man. Gun my ook 'n ou klein bietjie plesier man. :D

Since you are able to type on a keyboard I will dispute this statement, playtime in which YOU are the beneficiary is out but ..............

Sodat ek myself kan lus maak en jags gaan slaap? That's very harsh. You have no sympathy. Sies. XD

On 2017-05-01 22:15:12 RubyWinchester said:

Sodat ek myself kan lus maak en jags gaan slaap? That's very harsh. You have no sympathy. Sies. XD

Since life is all about negotiation ant trading , you could say for every one you have now, I get two in six weeks time

On 2017-05-01 22:40:07 johndoe69za said:
On 2017-05-01 22:15:12 RubyWinchester said:
Sodat ek myself kan lus maak en jags gaan slaap? That's very harsh. You have no sympathy. Sies. XD

Since life is all about negotiation ant trading , you could say for every one you have now, I get two in six weeks time

Klink na 'n awesome deal daai. But I promise, he is well taken care of during my hiatus, as the hands and mouth work fine. It's just torture on me, not being able to do anything further. But as a bonus for his patience, he also gets to go play this week, with a lady of his choosing. Kan nie die outjie so laat suffer vir 6 weke nie sjym.

@Pussyeater980 it is important to understand that a great percentage of the ladies in this industry are survivors,who will do what needs to be done to provide for their families and themselves and thus tend to be very independent.

It is easy for people to say that she must give up her career path and allow her partner to look after her financially. However, the reality is that once she does give it all up, she looses her independence and is at the mercy of her partner.

If as in your case, she remained in the industry but starts offering additional services, does this mean it is because her "inner whore" can't be contained? NO - It simply means that she is doing what she has to do, to keep the doors of her business open, because when those doors close, she may loose her independence.

Is it right that she kept the fact that she is offering more than just a pelvic, from you? No it is not right, but perhaps she knew how you would react and was scared that she may loose you if she told you / or was too embarrassed to discuss it with you.

I agree that communication, honesty and trust is extremely important in any relationship and I understand that once trust is broken, it is only natural to want to inflict the same hurt, but it only serves to increase bitterness and conflict, damaging the relationship even more.

If it is any consolation, I seriously doubt that she is offering additional services out of pure lust or to sate her inner whore. She is doing it for the money, possibly to save her business as the free falling economy is affecting everyone.

Once you or any man for that matter, who dates a woman in this industry, realize that the women in this industry do what they do purely for money, it will help to put things into perspective and you will come to realize that out of hundreds of men, you are the one she chooses to come home to at night - with you she can be herself, you are the one she wants to be with and sometimes that is far more important than what she does or does not do with her clients...............

Having said all the above, at the end of the day, a lady who offers pelvic's only and a lady who offers more, imo are on the same level, there is no difference between the two. Both are prostituting themselves...........

If her offering additional services is a definite deal breaker for you, then be honest with her and tell her that. Give her the opportunity to revert back to her old services if she so wishes, but remember that there is likely a financial reason why she chose to offer additional services in the first place, so chances are small that she will revert back. If you can't accept that, then it is best you set her free and take it as a lesson learned.........

Well said Sibyl,respect to you.