Totally understandable as I have felt the same way before. I can't describe it but majority of experiences are lack lustre... sorry not sorry. I haven't made a booking with an ZA sp in close to a year now cause it's never been as good as my punting abroad lol.

To be honest, I think you should give international punting a shot lol.

Nothing quite like lounging on a beach in Thailand, eating prawns, sipping cocktails all while gorgeous women are around you. Then in the evening you can either chat up civilians or service providers. I think international punting (where it's either fully legal or allowed) would tick all your boxes. You can spot the women in real life before you approach, you can chat them up a bit to get a feel for what they are like

I like this topic let me add my 2cents

I generally don't see myself leaving anytime soon. I'll probably make my exit when i have kids that are in the same age range as most SP's on this site LOL

But more seriously i totally get where you are coming from especially the spirituality aspect of it all as well as the negative emotion you feel after a session

I was pretty young when i started so my view of escorts was shaped entirely by how they are portrayed in media and social commentary . Punting humanized SP's for me. They are just like the rest of us , human. The fact that there is a transaction involved does not take away the human experience both the SP and i are having during our encounter whether the session was great good bad or terrible. That is still someone's daughter, mother, sister friend who has their own dreams and aspirations, wins and losses, achievements and struggles

That is the main reason i wont stop anytime soon . The ladies are already going to meet guys so why not meet gentlemen that will make their journey a little bit decent , tolerable and sometimes fantastic because can you just imagine the roller coaster of emotions they have to endure as well as the risks they are exposed to doing this and yes this applies to the ones with kak service as well. So in a nutshell gents lets be generous with our wallets LOL

Well said pomi!

XOXO

On 2024-01-31 07:03:32 shoeguy said:


Can you cook for me? You look very tasty, are you the meal?

Thank you, darling xxx I'm the appetiser, main meal and dessert ;)

@Holly Diamond - very well said and btw you look exquisite xxx

@Pomi - thank you so much for your post, darling xxx people often lose sight of the fact that we are just normal humans and I appreciate your comments

Why I don't punt (as much) anymore:

1. Time. I can only punt during and around working hours or on work trips (infrequent). Hybrid working has meant less, but more focused, office time which has reduced the opportunities to head out for a couple of hours. You also need to factor in the travel time which can easily add 30 minutes each way on a 5km trip.

2. I can't afford "school fees". I work hard for my money. I can't afford to have my hard earned money (and time) wasted on mediocre punts.

3. Blue ticks/no responses/vague responses. 3 of the last 5 providers I've messaged haven't responded to my WhatsApps. 2 of the last 10 have just sent me "xxx/30m and yyy/60m"without details on what is, and what isn't, offered.

4. "Police" scammers. Fortunately, I haven't received calls from them, but this makes me reluctant to try someone new and/or close by unless I have reasonable certainty that I won't be hassled.

5. Pricing models part 1. I dislike the kissing for Rxxx, DATY for Ryyy models, OWO for Rzzz.

FH ladies, please have one (all inclusive) rate excluding only Greek/fetishes.

Massage ladies, please have one extra rate for FH. I like to know upfront (before I get to a punt) what I'm in for. "We'll discuss in the room" doesn't work for most of us.

6. Pricing models part 2. Ladies (especially if you work privately - understand there's different issues in venues), please have rates for 90m, 120m and 180m (that make sense) as part of your services. So often it's 800/30m, 1100/60m and when I enquire about 90 mins it's 1900, or 2 hours are 2200 when the marginal increase from 30m to 60m is 300, but 800 from 60m to 90m.

What a controversial topic. For me, point 4 hit home. But I did have some nice memorable experiences. Luckily no school fees. But I did encounter some regrets with a few wg's on the way and really felt drained.


This is one heck of an interesting topic.

On 2024-01-31 18:02:13 cremesoda said:
Why I don't punt (as much) anymore:

1. Time. I can only punt during and around working hours or on work trips (infrequent). Hybrid working has meant less, but more focused, office time which has reduced the opportunities to head out for a couple of hours. You also need to factor in the travel time which can easily add 30 minutes each way on a 5km trip.

2. I can't afford "school fees". I work hard for my money. I can't afford to have my hard earned money (and time) wasted on mediocre punts.

3. Blue ticks/no responses/vague responses. 3 of the last 5 providers I've messaged haven't responded to my WhatsApps. 2 of the last 10 have just sent me "xxx/30m and yyy/60m"without details on what is, and what isn't, offered.

4. "Police" scammers. Fortunately, I haven't received calls from them, but this makes me reluctant to try someone new and/or close by unless I have reasonable certainty that I won't be hassled.

5. Pricing models part 1. I dislike the kissing for Rxxx, DATY for Ryyy models, OWO for Rzzz.

FH ladies, please have one (all inclusive) rate excluding only Greek/fetishes.

Massage ladies, please have one extra rate for FH. I like to know upfront (before I get to a punt) what I'm in for. "We'll discuss in the room" doesn't work for most of us.

6. Pricing models part 2. Ladies (especially if you work privately - understand there's different issues in venues), please have rates for 90m, 120m and 180m (that make sense) as part of your services. So often it's 800/30m, 1100/60m and when I enquire about 90 mins it's 1900, or 2 hours are 2200 when the marginal increase from 30m to 60m is 300, but 800 from 60m to 90m.

Quote/ unquote said like a boss

One of the most brilliant responses I read in a long time.

I think also just that whole thing of knowing that no matter how much you spend on a wg, shes's solely here for business, no personal feels or anything on her part

I look forward to your return,with a different name.