I receive payment either via ewallet or cash.
If the client feels the need to pay up front I'm happy.
Usually most clients pay upfront.
I've had one incident where the client then took R50 from the cash that he put down while I was in the shower.
I felt a little disappointed coz if he needed it for petrol or whatever could have said so and I would have understood.
Non the less.
If they crook me once I never see them again.
Most clients are truthful it's one or two that are slight cons lol
Xoxo
Sugar Xtreme XXX

I have not read all 5 pages of the thread. But I can comment on this subject.
This is why I visit girls that 'work alone' the pressure to pay up front is usually less. It is courteous to put the money one side in sight of the gorgeous lady booked. She immediately feels comfortable. And eases the whole intensity of "the money"
My experience has been you get a better experience and build trust.
At houses I used to go to way back when I started punting I always had a hollow feeling in me as to whether the lady will come back after I paid her upfront. Then the clock watching.... so I started developing the trust. Bunch of flowers .... this required paying a higher rate to what i was used.

Well done to all the ladies that us feel like gentlemen when we call and make the arrangements. This goes a long way to having regular's and good reviews. Cheers

I personally have no issues paying upfront or afterwards. I do however feel the kinda services you get depends on the lady, yourself, rapport between you guys, etc. There are numerous factors to consider on this one and am sure everyone be you an SP or Punter have had their moments which led to an ultimate time or unpleasant one.

I am have been paying upfront for so long that when I got to a new WG and she said that we can sort out the money afterwards I was absolutely shocked. It ended up being one of my best booking to date. I think it made me believe that I was in a comfortable space without her Evan trying.

So from now on I'm paying afterwards, unless it's an issue.

I do payments before i visit the lady.
You have to be carefull who the lady is as i know of a couple of ladys that do not deliver the service once ypu have paid them.

I think it's best for the clients to pay upfront. This makes it easier for both afterwards. WG knows she must give her best performance if she wants a tip or repeat bookings and client knows that he has paid what he asked for.

Its a question of respect by Punter and WG for each other. To pay the Lady fee upon arriving shows respect. I don't think a girl should count it right there and then. She can put it in a place that is safe for her. After finish booking while punter shower or get dressed she can confirm the amount. Also good time for Punter to give a tip. This is what I do. So money up front is basic rule of booking..

On 2017-07-19 15:24:53 Jaco45 said:
Is there not a grace period for withdrawing money sent via e-ewallet and failure to do so, results in the money being returned to the sender?


On 2017-07-19 14:41:53 Poppy said: It depend with individual, I've never ask upfront or take it like in hand I usually ask clients to put it on table or bed and never count in front of them ofwhich on that one I've been robbed not once neither twice by silly ones instead of leaving the exact amount u know,,,,,

Dramas happen daily here, my personal trainer whose been my clients since last year when I started has turned things ugly now between us, he decided to pay by ewallet std bank cool he even gave pin that's upfront payment cool, I never withdraw it immediately that's what I normally do with most of ewallets cool, what he did he went back to withdraw it after service I guess after only 3weeks when I went to collect all ewallets guess what NO MOOLA we now fighting he's becoming agreesive even blocked me but now am thinking should I just ignore him or embarrass him, am not worried but still worried n concern how one can do that to someone that u really know like friends,,,,,

Physco indeed.

Ewallet or instant money (Std bank) don't automatically returned to the sender. FNB's ewallet pin expires after 4 hours but payment receiver can request a new one. While Standard Bank's instant money pin doesn't expire. Payment receiver has unlimited period to withdraw the cash. In your case Poppy, your personal trainer has reversed the transaction or withdrew the cash.

Payment upfront does have an influence. Some ladies try to get you out as soon as possible when you pay upfront but for some it gives them a peace of mind.

I used to pay upfront until I had a string of bad luck with regards to the agreed upon extras NOT being given to me and instead being told that they were disgusting and didn't make them comfortable to give them. One actually told me that I would receive them the next time I came there, like really? do you think I would return after that! mxm...nowadays as soon as she says pay upfront, I leave. I've lost too much money to play these games. Also, some want to exchange extras after you've paid. eg. you agreed upon receiving a golden shower and end up being told you will get a body cumshot instead. mxm.