From the dawn of humanity until it's conclusion judgement based on outward appearance has and will continue. Hence the fairly well known variations of Idioms starting with First Impressions ...
No amount of reflection, acceptance, understanding or seeing another person's point of view will change this. We are all animals after all, just look around you right on this forum and there are the same very animals trying to mark their turf as far as the eye can see.
Besides which we are all vastly different, and the human race has always been terrific at accepting the unknown.
On 2017-05-31 22:58:01 Fboy said:
I will never understand the people who say 'don't discuss this topic, it's been discussed to death'. Who the hell died and made you forum moderator. This is a platform for all esa members to share there views and discuss the burning issues they have. No one complains when you talk about how many HOE girls you've slept with or whatever. Who gives you the right to say that what a person wants to talk about is pointless or not worth it. You have no idea what another person's lived experiences have been. I just think there are a lot of people on this forum who think there OPINIONS are fact. Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one and they're normally full of shit. If you don't like the topic, don't read it. If you don't feel like talking about it, don't reply. Simple as that, But the absolute arrogance of people coming on here and admonishing someone for doing something that is perfectly within their rights is astonishing to say the least.
LOL. Fboy was starting to get very uncomfortable. There hasn't been a thread discussing race for at-least a month! Even though his argument was crushed on the previous thread, and the one before that, and the one before that. He somehow thinks this thread might turn out different. Don't want anyone ruining the fun.
But, you are right about not reading threads you have no interest in....Carry on good sir and have fun. I'm outta here. ***Closes Thread***
I apologise for your experience. I'm sure it was disheartening to be rejected on the basis of something you have no say in, your race. I'm glad you took it on the chin and aren't even trying to denegrate the lady in question, it is big of you.
This is certainly one of the stranger realities of punting in this country and it is a reality defended with fervour for some reason. The only thing I'm grateful for is that there seems to be less of the "it isn't racist, it's just a preference" crowd as if basing a policy on race is not, in fact, about race at all.
To answer your question from your post, yes. This country's past does still influence the present in many ways. From the sounds of it you probably don't need this tip but it is best to respect yourself by only seeing women who are willing to see you. There are plenty of sexy women without "preferences" available.
On 2017-06-01 01:14:58 Mike23 said:
On 2017-05-31 22:58
LOL. Fboy was starting to get very uncomfortable. There hasn't been a thread discussing race for at-least a month! Even though his argument was crushed on the previous thread, and the one before that, and the one before that. He somehow thinks this thread might turn out different. Don't want anyone ruining the fun.
But, you are right about not reading threads you have no interest in....Carry on good sir and have fun. I'm outta here. ***Closes Thread***
At mike23 it's very easy to make such statements if you have never being treated "unfairly" because of something beyond your control such as race, obviously being white gives you access to see every girl you want (provided you are clean, respectful and can afford) so rather keep quiet and let those who know the pain of rejection freely express themselves.
You come across really inconsiderate and it's a turn off, you will never understand certain things until you go through them yourself. How about you stay away from threats like this for the sake of those who know how it's like to be rejected on the basis of their skin color.
BASED ON YOUR STATEMENTS you are giving the impression that you are racist and very inconsiderate of other people's feelings, grow up man.
On 2017-06-01 05:59:30 mike123 said:
You come across really inconsiderate and it's a turn off
Do you find comments by considerate punters a "turn on" normally?
On 2017-06-01 05:59:30 mike123 said:
On 2017-06-01 01:14:58 Mike23 said: On 2017-05-31 22:58
LOL. Fboy was starting to get very uncomfortable. There hasn't been a thread discussing race for at-least a month! Even though his argument was crushed on the previous thread, and the one before that, and the one before that. He somehow thinks this thread might turn out different. Don't want anyone ruining the fun.
But, you are right about not reading threads you have no interest in....Carry on good sir and have fun. I'm outta here. ***Closes Thread***
At mike23 it's very easy to make such statements if you have never being treated "unfairly" because of something beyond your control such as race, obviously being white gives you access to see every girl you want (provided you are clean, respectful and can afford) so rather keep quiet and let those who know the pain of rejection freely express themselves.
You come across really inconsiderate and it's a turn off, you will never understand certain things until you go through them yourself. How about you stay away from threats like this for the sake of those who know how it's like to be rejected on the basis of their skin color.
BASED ON YOUR STATEMENTS you are giving the impression that you are racist and very inconsiderate of other people's feelings, grow up man.
LOL !!!! Where did he say he is white...or is that a racist ASSuMeption on your part sir ?
And since when did any member on here suddenly become 'entitled' and think that they can tell another member what they should or should be posting.
Attack the concept not the man.
By the way, ROAR on a lady's profile be never stopped me from calling. Almost every white lady I booked from these pages has ROAR statement. I think only 3 ladies I called were 100% whites only.
@mike123, I can't believe you used the words "pain of rejection" on a sex for sale forum. I once was at a Pretoria venue and chose a girl after line up. The madam brings her forward and she says "Jammer, ek spyker nie c**lies nie!" It remains one of my funniest punting moments ever! Then again my sense of humour is strange in that I find humour in almost any situation.
Twice wgs (one of them still on ESA and popular) openly laughed at my little dick. Funny. No feelings hurt and no emotional pain felt.
But if any non-white/klien-piel/obese punters have qualms about having their feelings hurt at some point, then rather give up punting.
On 2017-06-01 08:51:23 Franco 44 said:
On 2017-06-01
LOL !!!! Where did he say he is white...or is that a racist ASSuMeption on your part sir ?
I think it was more of logic than assumption based on the fact that HOE is a white establishment
I will mention again. I am NOT South African but I travel the world a lot. Is there something more with and to white-SA ladies compared to the other white non-SA ladies abroad? Maybe?
I can be with anyone white, black, asian etc only provided I find them appealling enough to me. Thats all I need to decide. You learn quite a lot by crossing unfamiliar turf. Hit me on my head if I am wrong.
I thought most Saffers would be trying to move past that line particularly if they are in a business that will in call clients from all races, nationalities, the works.
All I am saying is WGs may miss really decent clientele and keep crappy ones just because they are choosing to keep a defence line that most people the world over don't see as necessary anymore to use as a *policy* to conduct business on.
I will take my money to those who will appreciate it. I did not feel rejected as such - just surprised hence why I am not downplaying the lady (wont even mention her name). We all have choices. Its also fine to choose to remain like that. We will respect it!
No worries. I will take my raging member back to those who dont see its colour LOL
Peace - Out!
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