On 2015-09-23 15:46:24 deamonza said:
On 2015-09-23 00:44:23 Valentina Dibella said:
In my opinion overnights are over-rated and have no winners...no for the escort nor for the punter...
Bella dama, as someone who normally only books overnighters I am once again forced to disagree with you on a subject... a terrible situation as I do agree with you on so many other things that I never seem to comment on... I fear you might think I am being a little troll...
The concept of keeping the lady I book an overnighter with up for the whole night is simply not applicable for me... I think your comment was a generalisation unfortunately.
Now, what I normally book is a GFE, Overnight with Travel.
And the time has basically aways worked out something like this...
Lady arrives at about 8 or so in the evening, we will maybe go out, get a meal, or find some entertainment (one lady took me a tour of the east rand strip clubs).
Then it's get back to the room, mess around, do the deed, shower, watch a movie, etc...
Then it is a good bloody sleep with someone warm and soft and lovely smelling next to me... I have chronic insomnia and I only seem to sleep like a well cherished baby when I am wrapped around a lovely lady. It is often the best sleep I have had for months as I am typically running around a shitty war-zone in a high stress environment and I only get to SA every 6 to 8 weeks.
If I am lucky I get a good morning blowjob or shower fun before she leaves in the morning... usually far too early !!!
Now all of the above is flexible except one thing, the sleep... I cannot explain why but I just sleep so much better next to someone. And as a long time insomniac who is very anti-medication I am very willing to pay for the privilege of a very rare full nights sleep...
I think it goes back to what to what I have said previously on other threads... when punters call they need to explain clearly what they are looking for, and the lady in question has to seriously consider the request rather then simply agreeing because it's healthy chunk of change in one hit.
I have had ladies bring a game console as they prefered not to sleep and she was more then happy to let me snuggle in and have a good night sleep while she played and it was great and she left happy. It was only once I was a regular that she started also sleeping.
I have also had a lady who brought comfy PJ's to loaf around in from the first booking...
Then again, some were tiresome and wanted to party all night and sulked when I disagreed, hence I now explain what I want as clearly as possible.
The whole Escort business is based on such a diverse bunch of people that I think each punter and each lady has to be treated as a complete individual and without any preconceived notions. Overnighters can in some cases be a full night PSE, yes, this is true... but they can also be something completely different...