How are marriages in the normal world different to a WG being in a relationship?

Think about it very carefully before you respond!
What are the benefits of a marriage?
What are the downsides of a marriage?
Do you think wg's don't have the exact same emotions as a normal woman does?
As a punter do you think you are different or equally human as non punting men?
Do you have the same emotions as any other human being?
Do you think wg's are not human?
Does your partners line of work affect your love for or trust in them?
Do you trust your partner?
Why are you staying in your current relationship?
What would you change in your relationship?
If you are in a commited happy marriage, why are you here?

Arz

@ Arz. You should write a book!

My rule is to never punt when I feel like crap. When you're feeling vulnerable, you will most likely seek a connection which may end up muddying the waters.

Teacher "Tell me the difference between a Callgirl, Girlfriend and a Wife?"

The whole class was silent...

till 'Lil Johnny' put up his hand and answered:

"Prepaid, Postpaid and Unlimited."

ROFLMAO .. flippen awesome one Arz !!!

The young woman asks a a guru , Why do men who have sex with multiple partners be regarded as legends ? But woman who have multiple partners be referred to as sluts?

The Guru answered , its like men are keys , and a key that opens many locks is a master key but a lock that is opened by many keys is a shitty lock!

On 2018-04-30 15:31:46 jaykay96 said:
There is a great blog on this subject from the POV of the boyfriend of a WG. Granted, the guy wasn't a punter however that doesn't invalidate the insights he gives in to his relationship.

mgfiae.weblogs.media.infocrumbs.net/2009/02/my-guide-to-dating-escort-introduction.html

I have read so many posts with the head line above and am certain many will follow.

I usually comment about the maturity and commitments necessary for relationships to work however I noticed many critical remarks made directed to wg/mg taking the emotions of clients for granted misusing it to gain financially though no comment is made regarding clients trying to do the same with the WG/mg, flattering with false promises for free rides at the financial loss of the WG/mg.

The question to me does not seem to be if a relationship can work or emotions can arise as it is obvious emotions and attachments can form with any person at any place and the risk of the relationship working out or succeeding is the same question you would ask yourself if you would have met her at your office approaching her for the first time.

The real challenge in this industry is how to go about moving from a client to a bf and more.

As many relationship sacrifices will have to be made however in this industry the girls sacrifice is her career and whole income.

Would you step into a relationship where it would mean that you will need to suddenly without any security walk away from your whole source of income without her garentee that she will assist or cover without hesitation.

The above however is exactly the dilemma most wg/mg will find themselves in should they have genuine emotions for the punter, they will need support,financials and a lot of assistance in (at times, lack of skills) in order to obtain a different source of income which will in most cases be less than what they are used too all for the sake of a relationship which is only then starting and could potentially be successful or failure.

Do you really feel it is fair that The punter then risk nothing, gain the intimacy he wants and blames her should she speak to him regarding her financial difficulty.

My response therefore is simple, attractions can form and yes relationship can work out should both parties be mature, sincere and fair in there expectations.

Clear communication and understanding will be very needed and should a committed relationship transpire in this industry it might test your true emotional and relationship maturity to an advanced test of time.

Should you realize that you might experience emotions or more than attractions for an individual it is very important to question your own motives and commitment before question the second person involved, and the assess if you are truly willing to take the risk necessary which will be required of you and how fair is the expectations you place on the other.

Have a nice day to all

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www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php


Kryptonite Girl. And now I think I may have another kryptonite girl in the making, but that is a story for another day.

On 2018-04-26 14:53:37 Veronica Franco said:



Guys are always trying to convince me I'm the only girl they see...

Guilty as charged, lol!
But I many times went thru periods of months at a time where I only visited one gal!

This is an interesting thread and it just demonstrates how we all differ.

I have never fallen for a WG and, touch wood, I probably never will.

Having no strings attached fun is the reason I punt in the first place.I don't even enjoy GFE.

I love sex, but I have absolutely no desire to share my life with another person. I tried. A few times. It is just not for me. I am selfish and inconsiderate. I want to live life on my own terms and do what I want when I want it. That is why punting works for me.


I view a WG like any other professional service I may use like a doctor, lawyer, accountant, mechanic etc.

I need a service performed and I pay a professional to perform it.

I do have some girls I visit quite regularly, but exploring is part of the fun for me. So I try to visit someone else every time I punt.

I stand a chance to be crucified for the following remark, but here goes.

You guys are fooling yourselves if you think your regular WG that acts in a jealous manner when they find out you visited someone else are acting that way because they have become attached to you. They have become attached to your wallet. Like in any business, losing repeat customers creates uncertainty.

But yeah, people cant help who they fall in love with. If you are emotionally strong enough to cope with another person's life style and career choice then I suppose it can work, but people may say they are okay with it, but can anyone really ever be okay with it?

Many years ago when I still lived in Gauteng I had a neighbour that used to strip at Lolly's place. She had a husband and a kid. Her hubby always said he was fine with her career and was quite chuffed with the money she supposedly made, but the walls were thin and I could hear them fight. Constantly. When we had parties in the complex and he had too much to drink the fights would become quite public. Sometimes he would degrade her in front of everyone and once or twice I came really close to punching his lights out.