@Valentina Dibella, you are a unique human being. Someone, who touches so many lives and hearts with your extreme generosity and desire to make every person feel so special.

Everyday I tell myself I should take a leaf out of Valentina's book. You make me want to be a better human being.

Love you lots
Lalita

Valentina, I'm deeply humbled and awestruck by you, not to mention completely speechless. No compliment that I can pay you, will be adequate. I humbly thank you.

There's a thread going on about fucking machine. At times that's what being with a wg feels like when you're with some of these women. Then you get wgs who defend the trash behaviour as if they were there with you when you were given below par service. You then read the reviews and the okes are told that they had bad hygiene. Couldn't you refuse servicing the punter BEFORE you took his money? Honestly, many wgs are greedy, they set the tone for punters to be rude and then claim that they were provoked. If you aren't in the mood DON'T take the money because you're doing US a favour, you don't really need the money.

I do agree that if service is not to the expectation of the customer that he / she has a reason to complain. If someone respect themselves, he /she will always aspire to do the best they can.

To say that a WG should respect a punter or visa versa is wrong. Respect is earned and cannot be demanded nor bought. We should respect ourselves enough so that we don't treat other people badly.

@yewrev, I was brought up to be respectful towards people whether I know them or not, particularly women and elders. I will give people the benefit of the doubt until they give me a reason to lose my respect. That is however an entirely different point to what I was trying to raise in this thread. Ladies need to respect our time and money, which we could have spent somewhere else. A bad punt is a waste of money, a wasted afternoon or evening and a wasted punt for that month or however often you punt.

@Longjon I have no problem with your response, I was raised in a similar way, and do act in a similar way as mentioned in your response. I do agree with you in saying that they should respect time and money. They should respect you as a customer, but they don't have to respect you as a person. Those that was in the defense force will know that you did respect some-one's rank, but that did not mean you respect the person.

A good service can be given without respect and I do believe you have the right to demand just that, and if you don't get it, it is your right to inform the rest of the community regarding that.

Yewrev, you don't need to have earned someone's respect first for them to be respectful towards you or be able to be disrespectful towards you. You don't need to know someone from a bar of soap, you can still be respectful towards them, and treating them badly and ripping them off is in my view disrespectful.

I would think , one is forced to show respect and a happy face cos of the job discription she or he as. Its like a receptionist at a 5 star hotel , if shes having a bad haird day , that doesn't mean she needs to take it out on the guest at the hotel. We all have a bad day at times but we try not to make it known to the public. Part of a WG'S job is to always be friendly , irrespective of what an ass the punter is. Fair enough if he is abusive , its a different story , security can kindly remove him from the premises.

@Longjon and Lucus_251 I must agree with both of u. I was also taught to be respectful towards others until u are disrespectful towards me. It is easy to be courteous and kind to others when u don't know them as long as they are not rude and disrespectful towards u. There is also a simple option to bad hygiene. Climb in the shower with the punter and u can ensure both of u are clean before a punt plus it is a nice way to start some of the fun.

@GOT with all due respect it is our job to show a happy face and try to be respectful but not if he is being an ass. Please remember yes it is money but it is also not a normal job as it is still a women's body. I do not think it is right to accept that any men can treat us as if we are rubbish. Any woman including a wg should have some kind of respect for herself.