On 2018-07-19 21:04:06 chancetaker said:
On 2018-07-19 16:43:07 jjsoap said: On 2018-07-19 16:11:05 chancetaker said:

Who gives you the right to tell others what they can and cannot discuss on an open forum???



Lets rephrase this somewhat

Who gives anybody the right to get upset with a lady based on her preference of who or who not, she wants to be sexually active with.


Nobody! Exactly my point she has the right to make the choice. But I have the right to call her out if her choice is a racist one. That's NOT me being upset NOR is it trying to change said choice.

It's like people who cry 'freedom of speech' when they get caught saying something offensive. You have the right to say what you want. But you have the responsibility to be held accountable for the backlash.

I would sift out the racists with chips on their shoulders from the tolerant accepting gents with manners by telling them I am not multiracial. Those that called me racist and ranted etc were blacklisted...no pun intended! No offense intended either, but I don't like intolerant people period especially when it comes to freedom of choice and association!

I am a black guy and I love white ladies a lot. In fact I am afraid I even worship them. In any group of people, I see white women first and quite often they are the ones my brain keeps sharpest awareness of. Maybe my brain was wrongly wired....

Anyway yes it hurts so bad when you are turned down by a hot sexy white lady but that pain turns into an ecstatic primal bliss when you get one who is able to be kind to you and gives you the fix that you need. For me I appreciate it as a great kindness because I am the one who is addicted to her beautiful sexy sweet things.... It may be 1 yes in a 1000 no's,but for me that one girl heals the damages of the previous 1000 rejections, and I am restored to good health and vitality

I really think people should be mature or resilient or logical enough to let people be even racist in some situations. For example: why is it necessary to fight racism in the heart of some person? What if some person wants and chooses to be racist in their own private spaces, why not let that be? Why not let a WG have whatever ROAR policies she desires even if they are racist policies? Is it not stupid and pointless to "fight" or "confront" racism in cases like these?
I think racism should be fought and confronted in public spaces, in public institutions, in political policies, in the laws, and in the economic systems. But trying to overreach to fight racism (assuming that it is in fact present) in someone's heart or private house or bed is, at best, a waste of resources. At worst, you end up bathing the (presumed) racism in the limelight, exalting it in a way!

On 2018-07-19 21:10:57 Pseudonyms said:


Rather focus your energy on things that are important. Calling escorts out for being racist seems like a waste of energy.

Personally I'm starting to agree with you some what more and more. Although I think ANYONE who discriminates against anyone for ANY reason which they have no control over is a disgusting human being who makes me sick. I do realise that most of these people won't change who they are.

But my point is what you may think is a 'waste of energy' is just your opinion. My point is why are people trying to stifle opinions they don't like? Because the discussion makes them uncomfortable and that's not a waste of energy in my mind. But your entitled to think that way.

On 2018-07-19 21:12:07 Veronica Franco said:


I would sift out the racists with chips on their shoulders from the tolerant accepting gents with manners by telling them I am not multiracial. Those that called me racist and ranted etc were blacklisted...no pun intended! No offense intended either, but I don't like intolerant people period especially when it comes to freedom of choice and association!

There's a difference between aggressively forcing your opinion while also trying to force yourself on someone AND making a point that something is racist and leaving those people to be their racist selves.

If you want to blacklist people who don't like people who associate with racist ideology then please sign me up first on that list! I'll wear it like a badge of honour!

On 2018-07-19 21:07:46 chancetaker said:
It makes me sad when people say there's no point to having a good debate. Whether it's roar or whatever I think a healthy debate with people who don't see things your way is good for society.

1. Healthy debate is good and it does happen on this forum so I concur with u that no-one shuld shoot your point down. We even learnt on this thread that sum of these ladies will lose business if they cross the racial barrier, so if majority of their clients are white and this is the case then u gotta respect their ROAR policy as its their business on the line
2. I don't think that there would be any point to calling out a racist WG, certainly not on this forum and u cant go public anyway, what are you goin to say to the Human Rights Commission; this WG denied me pleasure bcaus Im not white :-). There are other places where we can let race issues affect us but I dnt think its this forum. I contacted a few white WGs and they said they not multi-racial (huge fuckin loss 4me), they were very polite in their responses 2reject my caramel ass but I didn't really give a shit, I just moved on, thats their T&Cs and we gotta accept it

On 2018-07-19 16:02:22 chancetaker said:

...It's until you feel rejection based on just being you that you truly understand. Otherwise arguments like "it's just my preference" will make sense to you

Spot on bud!
Its like - Until one actually gets mugged, raped, hijacked, you would never understand FULLY how traumatic the experience is. Unless if you are open enough to appreciate the depth simply by seeing it on one victim.

Experiencing RACISM is a very traumatic experience please let us not water it all down just because SA has a past. I am not even South African myself.
Ladies now drive in countries that would have seen them canned in public.
Society is progressive eventually!

As part of the continual process of building to move forward, people ought to have gone past this & not still use this as some form of discriminatory base to offer paid sex. Guys are looking for fun not marriage or relationships!!

Let me close by saying thank you to those white queens (& brothers) who have moved on. We appreciate you immensely.

It's also a "choice" to "stay behind", nothing wrong with it I guess but it was flippen amazing for me to see them ladies celebrating taking selfies holding their drivers licences!

It probably took just one person to change it all. Be the change you want to see!

Ok...help me out here please. So a white Wg /Mg who chooses not to see black clients (her preference) is called a "racist" ?

On 2018-07-20 08:21:59 Minime V10.1 said:
Ok...help me out here please. So a white Wg /Mg who chooses not to see black clients (her preference) is called a "racist" ?

To answer that let us check the standard oxford dictionary - "racism"...

Prejudice, "discrimination", or antagonism "directed" against someone of a different RACE (based on the belief that one's own race is superior)."

I will leave it here.
Peace and enjoy the Friday. Play safe!

Thanks Mr Benz.

So...a black client who only want to see white Wg / Mg (his preference) is called a racist also?

Shiiiit...this was very easy to sort out for everybody here. My pleasure.

On 2018-07-20 08:42:52 Minime V10.1 said:
Thanks Mr Benz.

So...a black client who only want to see white Wg / Mg (his preference) is called a racist also?

Shiiiit...this was very easy to sort out for everybody here. My pleasure.

Lol, I had such a laugh. Thank you darling. That was so stunningly put.

I will go milk the donkey now before the cow gets jealous...