On 2017-06-01 18:54:53 Se_kaas said:
On 2017-06-01 17:15:56 Veronica Franco said: Esa rules: The slightest derogatory racial and/or religious remark will result in immediate banning without warning.

Perhaps ESA should elaborate further on this rule as it seems to be overlooked time after time!



Waar val djy uit girl?

But seriously what constitutes "derogatory"? How is it defined in the context of this forum? Political Correctness is for tree hugging nancy pansies who need everything sugar coated for them. Mense must realy stop being so over sensitive over kak.

Ek het uit die boom geval met al die ander 'nuts' in hierdie familie.

What purpose do these posts serve really? Live and let live! Stop concerning yourselves with such stupid shit! This topic just goes round and round....Constantly, to no avail and no conclusions. Same old culprits, usual suspects etc with nothing new to ad but spread hatred and discord! One racial topic does the rounds for a few pages, fades off with no point until someone brings it up again and off we go again....seriously, learn how to use the search feature! Most of your questions have already been answered in previous tedious posts concerning this over rated topic! WE LIVE IN SOUTH AFRICA! SHIT HAPPENED AND WE STILL HAVE FALLOUT! THESE KINDS OF TOPICS MAKE NO DIFFERENCE TO HOW THINGS ARE OR WILL BE!

On 2017-06-01 19:07:20 Veronica Franco said:
WE LIVE IN SOUTH AFRICA! SHIT HAPPENED AND WE STILL HAVE FALLOUT! THESE KINDS OF TOPICS MAKE NO DIFFERENCE TO HOW THINGS ARE OR WILL BE!

I know that this is off-topic, and most likely something I do not want to debate on on an escort site, but why do most South Africans hold this view? It drives me up the wall.

One of the reasons why Zupta is in charge - no unity in this country. I sure hope all of you stocked up on enough lube because if you can't help yourselves (as citizens), no one else will.

I dont know if its true but I heard a rumour that govt has purchased all supplies of lube this week, they have cleared the shelves.

Seems like Malusi Gigaba, Jacob and Duduzane are going to need it all and more in the upcoming week.

Lol! First time called an Asian lady and she asked is I'm Indian or white, when I said black she said sorry. I was beyond shocked. Sms'd a few white and Asian girls and they asked the same question, after saying I'm black they just stop responding. used to get angry but now I understand it the legacy of apartheid and the brainwashing.

I've learned to manage it though. there's no mistaking that I'm black when you hear my voice so if I call a girl and make arrangements if she goes along with it then I know she's fine, but if she start asking me about race I just drop the call cause I know where it going.

On 2017-06-01 20:52:10 Pseudonyms said:

.... but why do most South Africans hold this view? It drives me up the wall. One of the reasons why Zupta is in charge - no unity in this country.

.... that is all MY post was questioning! that I not being a saffer myself didn't realise them old time "barring signs" are still very much in place firm (in places one would least expect).....

Folks, for progress sake lets not sugar coat things or give not so lekker issues nice/polite sounding terms (like preference etc.). It is what it is .... call it by its ugly name! Lets probably leave it here.

Peace-Out!

Franco : All the lube in the world wil not help them.....

Cheers

On 2017-06-01 22:10:08 John_Benz said:
On 2017-06-01 20:52:10 Pseudonyms said:
.... but why do most South Africans hold this view? It drives me up the wall. One of the reasons why Zupta is in charge - no unity in this country.

.... that is all MY post was questioning! that I not being a saffer myself didn't realise them old time "barring signs" are still very much in place firm (in places one would least expect).....

Folks, for progress sake lets not sugar coat things or give not so lekker issues nice/polite sounding terms (like preference etc.). It is what it is .... call it by its ugly name! Lets probably leave it here.

Peace-Out!

How then does one explain black ladies that prefer white men? Is that not a preference or are they racist too? Why then can ladies of other races not have a preference too? Nobody is sugar coating anything, but I think given our past as a nation, we have the right to such preference. Is it right that such still exists? Probably not, but we see racial segregation even today, by each race no less, separating themselves from the rest. They have the right to live amongst each other just as we have the right to choose who we allow into our personal space.

On 2017-06-01 22:33:19 Veronica Franco said:


How then does one explain black ladies that prefer white men? - Racial discrimination, even black women who only see black men would be racial discrimination. Or white woman who only see black men or visa versa. Not an attack on white people although it may seem that way because they tend to hold these views most often.

Is that not a preference or are they racist too?
- making a blanket choice of an entire group based on race, its racial discrimination and thus 'racist'

Why then can ladies of other races not have a preference too?
-They can have preference, just like anybody else, but if their preference is based on race its racist.

Nobody is sugar coating anything, but I think given our past as a nation, we have the right to such preference.
- Absolutely, however if you use your right in a racial discriminatory manner, others have the right to call you out for it.


Is it right that such still exists? Probably not, but we see racial segregation even today, by each race no less, separating themselves from the rest.
- So you agree that it's not right yet you defend it because of its prevalence. How would you feel if I said 'Beating women is not right, but because of our past and the fact that lots of people are doing it we should just not say anything about it and keep our nose buried in the sand'

They have the right to live amongst each other just as we have the right to choose who we allow into our personal space.
- Again you have that right, but others also have the right to call out being treated a certain way due to the colour of one's skin.

I agree though, those who get it know this, and those who haven't got it after 23 years will probably never get it. But that doesn't mean you get to dictate what is worth talking about and what is not.

Spot On Fboy! 100%.

To me racism is never one way. If by default I chose to see ONLY white women then I too would be racist. If it will help I have been "labelled" as such due to my consistent inclination towards light skinners if it will help. So anyone (both ways) who "prefers" in essence is saying they aint comfortable with the other they aint taking on. People have various reasons I am sure. For me its just a "fetish" - nothing racial at all!

As for the black ladies, I speak totally under correction but I would simply assume its because demographics would demonstrate that very few average black guys would afford some of the rates on here (they are mostly high end). So its not a market for a lot of the average folk hence the sisters bolt!

The sisters are simply choosing a "business model" that will guarantee them a good return consistently. There are other factors like the way cultures are different so some women would prefer to be with a race that will offer them what they need which culturally may not be obvious from their own. Maybe let such ladies explain to us.

Don't mind me,am just here to read & laugh...