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Arhwen - Re: Single mothers struggling in the industry.
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Posted: 2017-08-06 07:34:47
Edited: 2017-08-06 07:45:59

On 2017-08-05 14:46:29 Veronica Franco said:
On 2017-08-05 09:30:32 St.Africa said: Not everyone has to agree 100% with you Miss V. Arhwen simply gave reasons for why she won't provide financial aid. I gave my view based on my experience. I never said don't help anyone. Even now, there is another young WG that was impregnated by her ex-boyfriend and not her boyfriend that I am in regular contact with. No money changes hands. I simply listen when she wants to talk.

I never said Arhwens opinion was wrong or that she or you had to agree St.Africa. I have my views but she is not wrong in hers either and neither are you. I agree that there are a great deal of ladies who do fall into the categories you both mentioned. I cannot save the world, but there are a few ladies that deserve aid and are struggling that I would gladly help. I've done it many times myself.



Awe dearest friend no you can't save the world. However your efforts to try is admirable just be careful because even salt can be mistaken for sugar ;)(remember miss so called popularity aka scammer).

Psst thanks for yesterday and do know it's acts like these that make a difference too ;)

In my opinion the Sos children's home do need more support than the ladies in this industry.

They have a adopt a child system I've adopted two Children they do a debit order once a month you can visit the children and drop of old cloths or new ones if you really want to spoil them. I took on two kids Damien and Kensanie. These kids are really grateful as their little smiles do something on the inside and my children just love spending time with them. This was my fault way of teaching my children to be grateful for what they have it toughy them that and so much more.
Once again I choose who I invest in carefully. So Vee you know you always have my support in all you do including this little project but as far as working girls are concerned I will only invest time and even then some take you for granted and use you.They emotionally drain you.

Just this past week a rather popular working who I will not mention and was a friend of a friend for 7 years. This friends of mine opened up her home to this lady to work and live as she stays rather far. She fed the girl etc... How was she thanked the so called friend ruined her Relationship she slept with her guy not once but twice. I know it takes two to tango but she called herself a friend and bit the hand that fed her. When it comes to women in this industry invest wisely. There are those such as yourself,Climax, Miss B and Tanya as well as the above mentioned friend I will always be there for but you guys are worth it and I know that it is a two way street. Thanks again for calling at the right/wrong time yesterday I'm feeling better thanks to your encouragement :)

I love you lots even though we sometimes have to agree to disagree ;)

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Posted: 2017-08-06 11:02:28

Dear Ladies & Gentlemen

Some perspective our worst earning advertiser earns R15k+ tax free, most problems faced by advertisers are not related to drugs, alcohol, poor life choices, poor choices in life partners, while these are all factors which obviously take its tole.

The main difficulty faced is incredibly poor planning, ladies seem blissfully unaware that if you fail to plan one almost leaves ones life circumstances to chance. School fees not paid, rent not paid, no medical aid, no petrol, no air time, no money for adverts while actually having made enough money to pay all these things.

I doubt that hand outs from any charity no matter how well assessed will change this fact.

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Eddie
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Posted: 2017-08-06 11:06:34

@ Arwhen, I get you babe. One has to sift through a lot of coal to find a diamond. I might encounter plenty of coal, but it's worth it to find those precious gems like yourself. There are many out there, and those are the ones that make it worth all the effort!
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Posted: 2017-08-06 11:34:05

@Eddie, you have a good point too. There are many factors involved, yes even poor financial planning, but how many people in general know how to manage their money? There are many people in and out of this industry in huge debt who just keep on accumulating more.

Anyway, maybe I'll just do it anyway and learn a few more tough lessons I suppose, who knows. The outcome of something like this can only be assessed by trial and error. Nothing worth doing will ever be easy.
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Posted: 2017-08-06 16:44:42

On 2017-08-06 11:02:28 ESA SUPPORT said:
Dear Ladies & Gentlemen

Some perspective our worst earning advertiser earns R15k+ tax free, most problems faced by advertisers are not related to drugs, alcohol, poor life choices, poor choices in life partners, while these are all factors which obviously take its tole.

The main difficulty faced is incredibly poor planning, ladies seem blissfully unaware that if you fail to plan one almost leaves ones life circumstances to chance. School fees not paid, rent not paid, no medical aid, no petrol, no air time, no money for adverts while actually having made enough money to pay all these things.

I doubt that hand outs from any charity no matter how well assessed will change this fact.

Kind regards
Eddie
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Posted: 2017-08-07 03:07:43

On 2017-08-06 11:02:28 ESA SUPPORT said:
Dear Ladies & Gentlemen

Some perspective our worst earning advertiser earns R15k+ tax free, most problems faced by advertisers are not related to drugs, alcohol, poor life choices, poor choices in life partners, while these are all factors which obviously take its tole.

The main difficulty faced is incredibly poor planning, ladies seem blissfully unaware that if you fail to plan one almost leaves ones life circumstances to chance. School fees not paid, rent not paid, no medical aid, no petrol, no air time, no money for adverts while actually having made enough money to pay all these things.

I doubt that hand outs from any charity no matter how well assessed will change this fact.

Kind regards
Eddie
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May I enquire as how you got this statistic? I've been advertising with ESA for ages (happily) and note my earnings daily and tally up at the end of the month and I can safely say I have earned less than 15k a month often...

My worst month was 8k. So wondering where your statistics came from especially since ESA is not privy to escort's earnings?

Will agree that mismanagement of funds is a big problem in the industry....
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A one of the many heated debates if have had in the purple sea

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